for a first-time meeting, or only for a repeat visit? And if so (either way), what type of outfits have you requested?

I personally have never been asked.  But I have been asked to put clothes on, any clothes, when meeting someone at my door for the first time.

On the other hand, I like it when a lady answers her door wearing only high heels.  Butt plug is a plus, but optional.  Usually you have to ask for this kind of reception and even then its a real crap shoot.  It is rare, but not impossible, to encounter this unrequested.  But when I do, I know there's a God.

There is a girl I am planning on seeing in March that has pictures on her website of her in fishnets. She is perfect for fishnets. I will be requesting them. I have never requested any outfits, but have always thought about it. I love black thigh-highs and someday may ask for the schoolgirl thing, but otherwise I don't really know what to request that would be hot to me.

I bought my ATF an outfit and she wore it once. Come to think of it whenever I go over she only wears a robe and only until the door closes. I wonder what she did with the outfit?

Nothing that I can suggest is going to make these ladies look any better, so all I ask for is easy access.

time and time again, for whatever reason, i've had bad luck with guys that make these requests.. i do not know why but i suspect it has something to do with a guy being too focused on what a girl looks like.

i'd rather a guy be concerned with what i'm doing, not with what i'm wearing. but thats just my preference.

my usual request is that i love heels and lingerie, if they ask for anything specific, i say i trust their judgement , so they will be comfortable in what they wear

if i read the reviews and that stuff is standard i often say nothing

one girl, who lucky for me i said nothing, said if she is asked she is offended, but i think that is very rare

surprise me.

I figured that this way, she was going for something that is both special AND comfortable. And it turned out great, both times.

I usually ask the guy what his favorite color is, if he's allergic to any perfumes or oils, and if he'd like me to wear something specific for our date (for Incall and if I already own it).

Hugs,
Ciara

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I too have run into badd luck when a guy asks me to wear a certain outfit.  It's usually the guys who ask for thigh highs.  I don't know but I have trouble with the guys who ASK for that.  I do wear them but when they ask, it's a problem.

I do better after we have met a couple of times and then plan a "special" date.  Now that can fun for both of us!

I'm kind of into athletic women, so I asked a lady to wear tight athletic shorts, tank top, sneakers.  She looked great!

It has nothing to do with any particular lady, I think. Men are just very visual and a first glimpse of a beautiful lady wearing something the men know they like to see on a beautiful lady just gets the motor going right away. It then just gets better and better when the lady then proceeds to show the guys how well they do what they do

b-

See, I don't get into thigh highs, etc.

If I know a girl, I just ask her to wear nothing but a t shirt.  I find that more sexy than anything else.

I got images of locker room smells when I read your apparel choices. eeewww

a little black dress with no bra!  Thank you sweetie - you know who you are! AND

A little white dress - that showed off the ladies tan and golden blond hair nicely!  she looked lovely - and in fact - forgot the dress and had to return to get it!  sneeky me!  

Both ladies turned heads.... when we were out in public.... but I think that the dresses had little or nothing to do with that... they are both beautiful.

Oh!  and before I forget... there is one other... but for her- it is a mask that she bought while on a date with me.... and then there was the time another lady and I went to a sex apparel shop and I bought her a fishnet outfit.... and that too was very hot!

ahhh.... fun with clothing.

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I love it when a woman is dressed casually.  A nice pair of jeans on an attractive woman can be very sexy.

I've never requested a specific outfit.  I guess if I had to pick one, it would be the naughty nurse look.

One time the lady showed up in a one piece knee length dress with absolutely nothing on underneath...every now and then I ask her to wear it again

Otherwise I always request casual...jeans, nice shirt, sneakers...very much GND...

-- Modified on 2/12/2008 9:24:49 AM

No, but I often brought something from Victoria's Secret.  Fun place for a gent to shop.  The outfit was thigh highs and garter belt only.  The VS clerks always asked if I wanted matching bra and panties too.  When I said no, you couldn't believe the knowing smiles.  The ladies always appreciated the gift and delighted in modeling.   Sometimes remained on through the entire session.  Double eroticism, one for the buy, one for the play.

played the coach nicknamed "Lassie". She'd go wild catching the smells of the boys locker room, then having sex while making sounds like her namesake.

yes i have....

i always prefer that they just wear their birthday suit!