When ladies regularly post they will be visiting a venue and then those dates keep changing because they are tentative, wondering about the rationale. Obviously, it least to me it is to test market for travel to venue. But when the projected travel dates keep changing, for ladies is it because you dont have enough demonstrated interest in you generally, much less on the specified dates?

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I think you nailed it with test marketing but some women will receive a FMTY offer or have a personal situation come up as well. I guess the potential list of reasons is endless.

Maybe just tossing out a line to see how many guys would book her?  With a flake rate in mind, is it worth the trip?

when they collect deposits up front to book and then cancel the visit to your city.  Usually no refunds, but a credit towards a future session, but you have to see then in a city they will actually be in.  Good luck with that.  

Could be test marketing but not necessarily. Even if it’s a town she’s done well in before, if she put up tour dates a couple weeks ago and got no bookings, I wouldn’t blame her for not wanting to fly out and get a hotel completely on spec.  

 
Have you ever contacted any of them before their planned arrival? A woman I wanted to see had a tour to my city published for a few weeks. A couple days prior, I was just about to contact her to schedule when she put out a new tour schedule with a different city on those dates.  

 
I emailed her anyway to say I’d planned to see her when she was here and I’d catch her on the next one, let’s pre-screen. She didn’t have anything booked yet in the new city on her calendar either, so she flew in just to see me.  

 
Another time I set something up with a touring provider a couple weeks out. When I met her she said I was the only one she had scheduled for this stop so she cut the trip way shorter than planned. I hadn’t sent her a deposit so I told her I would have understood completely if she didn’t want to come to town for one appointment but she said she didn’t want to cancel on me.  

 
Anyways, as long as they’re not keeping deposits for appointments that never happened, I really don’t blame them for not traveling to a city where they don’t have any bookings. It’s a business decision.  

 
Also, are you seeing this on personal sites or ad malls? There are providers on the malls who have no intention of meeting anyone in person because they only do video chats and/or only fans. But they post extensive touring schedules to get their ad in front of more people. There have been threads about it recently.  

 
And yes, it could be a simple deposit scam. Do your research.

For me, it’s 💯 a test. I change dates if the interest wasn’t there yet and ended up booking a local date instead.  

Like I’m trying to tour Philly, but I don’t get much serious interest leading up to the visit.  

I don’t collect deposits often, unless I am certain and booking travel is involved

These days so many have online offerrings, be it some website or text service. I have seen providers list travel cities and constantly cancel just to drive traffic to their ad in hopes of getting online business.

I'm going to agree with CDL here. It is one thing for a provider to reschedule things. It is another thing if the schedule constantly changes. If they constantly reschedule but never make it to the location I'm going to call it a red flag and potential deposit scam. There are plenty of reasons for rescheduling or cancelling a trip or two. Small changes to an itinerary aren't a big deal. But constant changes and rescheduling are the mark of deposit scammers and OF fakers. Even if there is no ill intention, it signals a lack of "professionalism." It is best to avoid.

This is VERY common on tryst. They will have multiple "based in" cities listed, require a deposit that is often non refundable, and the only want to contact them is if you sign up for their only fans. They will then have a list of 10 different random cities listed all over the US where they are going to "tour". The model is usually white, very attractive, 20s, and in the $300-$400 range. Always have the "available now" green light on their tryst account. Hours are always 24/7. Once you notice them very easy to spot. These are not providers, it is just some large scam operation. Not sure if it is the same operation that also has all of the fake X accounts.

Correctamundo! lol.  
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That is exactly why I change the fee slider for the db search at $600 and up on Tryst. Now, that is for NYC though, and for FS. If I were mainly playing in much smaller towns, I would probably set it at $350-400.

I have communicated with the provider’s scheduling assistant multiple times. The projected date since my post has changed again. As I told a provider that i had what i thought was an exclusive relationship for several yrs, I am not chasing you.  This is a transactional  thing let’s be real and transparent. Might be the LA market  thing; the provider is now located there and might be motivated by.  She’s hot. But not worth the uncertainty. My life is too busy. We are all seeking something for each of us here, uncertainty is not one of em for me.    

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Do you know for sure she is located in LA, or is that just what her ad says? I’m in LA, so my searches are LA heavy. There’s definitely ads where ladies claim to be in LA, and always list touring locations, but they’re actually not LA based. They just think it looks good for them to say they are.

Oh, this paints a different picture. I wouldn’t tell anybody to put up with that. She probably has a SD and keeping you on the line as a fall back. Move on.