I am planning a trip with a girl that I been with a few times and that the chemistry is amazing.   This will be my first time traveling with a provider and I like to know from the ladys and gents in the forum any important advice I should consider.  Thanks for your help.

I would say the most important advice is NOT to fall in love by the end of the trip. If you can do that, everything else will fall into place and you should be fine.

Chardonay,

... draining your bank account for that weekend fling, just be warned that you'll probably encounter a few things that you did not expect from your provider.

I mean... she could be a Green Party participant and you're a Republican. How will that go for a political discussion? I mean... you both aren't going to have sex 24 / 7. Got to allow time for sleep and rest periods.

Serpius

before your trip. It's not very romantic, however, you need to have a conversation about shopping trips, spa treatments, fine dining etc, and who's picking up the tab for the extras. My advice, you should pay for everything.  ust be prepared for the added expense.  Also if you're flying, you should be making the reservations, which means you'll need to know her first  and last name, and is she ok with that.  And as well as discussing "alone time" you may want to disucss how much "sex"  Some guys expect 24 hour sex and will never want to leave the hotel room. Enjoy yor trip1

Try to get a suite. I know we always feel more comfortable when we have our own bathroom or even just a powder room. And you probably will too!  

Some of my most wonderful times as a provider have been traveling with my friends. It allows us to get to know each other much more intimately in a very relaxed atmosphere.

Before I got to know many of my clients, I would just arrange my own travel and meet them at the destination airport at their luggage carousel. This way they didn't have to know my name. They would arrange a deposit for our date that would include airfare.

After seeing someone for several years, you tend to get to know everything about them, so names are not an issue. Private jets always require a full name if you're going with them.

Agree with HH on expenses. Just plan a spa experience for both of you- it is so wonderful to do some of the couples massages and treatments available.

If you are going to be traveling with someone for the first time it is important to know what her expectations are when it comes to WHEN play time is available.

You need to know things like....Is she a night owl who will ride you late into the night or does she need her beauty sleep and she plans on being Lights Out by 10:00PM. Then you have to figure out where does she stand (or lay) on Morning Sex??? Is she ready for a tumble in the wee small hours or does she require two cups of coffee before Mr. Happy will be seeing any action.

I have traveled with both types of ladies. I have been with a lady who was counting sheep before midnight and made it very clear that if I attempted to touch her before 9:00am I was likely to lose a hand.   Which was fine with me because once she was up and running there was plenty of fun throughout the day and evening.

On the other end of the spectrum is one of my ATF's where our trips are a non-stop fuck fests where we are up playing until 1:00am and then one of us wakes up the other before 6:00am for an early morning romp. We have spent a considerable amount of time together so we are very comfortable with one another but it took us a while to figure out that somewhere along the line we needed to sleep.

This may seem like an akward conversation to have with someone new but having a clear understanding of each others wants, needs and expectations will make your time together that much more enjoyable.

Have Fun!!!!

Whatever financial arrangements you have made with her she is going to need a bit of alone time a few times a day to deal with her business or her personal life.  This is something that she should have brought up when the two of you were planning your trip but if she didn't you can rest assured it's going to happen.

That's a good point. When I go on a week-long vacation with a paid escort as my companion, I book her a separate room. Even though we spend the vast majority of our time in one room or the other, my companions always appreciate having their own private quarters to themselves. After all, the truth is that we are NOT married, but in a "business" transaction.

Ive traveled several times with clients, for as long as a week at a time.

I can't remember ever having conversations about how much sex is expected, if I will need to check email from others, how to handle shopping or spending money, etc.

These things just fall into place once you get there.

The most "difficult" discussion is usually the initial "how much?" conversation and she will let you know if she wants to book her own flight or not.  Also, even if she books her own stuff, chances are, at some point in the trip, you both are going to accidentally find out eachothers real names- if you don't already know them.  Which is not really any big deal.

Have fun!

I have spent a week with my ATF annually for the past 5 years.  The key thing that makes it work for us is that we are apart about 5 or 6 hours daily, from mid-morning to mid or late afternoon.  Then there's some afternoon delight followed by evening activities.  Besides a good meal, a show, a movie, a couples massage, a jazz club, and a strip club are some of the things we've done.  Oh, and then there was that threesome with her escort girlfriend.  

We are very compatible as to sleep time and we both enjoy an early morning romp before breakfast.  We've never had to have a conversation as to when we will have sex.  We know each other very well and it just happens when either of us want it.  This kind of understanding doesn't happen overnight.

As far as your checkbook goes, you pay for everything except if she's shopping for clothes or other things she'll use in everyday life, unless you choose to do so as a gift.

But by far, the key to a good experience for both parties is that you both need to be very comfortable with each other before embarking on an extended date.  Good communications, patience, and understanding are required.  And remember, you will both see each other at times when you're not your best.  

Have fun

I have travelled twice with my ATf.  That is funny from me; she's my onlyone... lol.  Having spent 2.5 years with the same lady every other week and occasionally every week, we have become fairly comfortable with each other and genuinely affectionate towardeach other.

However, I had many of the concerns you had. Yet she was so excited to be going I never brought up any of the discussion items listed.   And guess what;  I had THE BEST vacation I have ever had.  

We slept in a 1 br/1 bath suite and had no problems.  SHE WANTED  to (and we did) cuddle up every night.  There was NO need to ''ask'' for sex or arrange it as it simply flowed naturally for us.  EVEN the shopping flowed naturally for us; I assumed I pay unless she said otherwise,  and she was gracious enough many times to say so.  And she bought  nearly every other meal.  

And yes I love this woman; even if we have this ''business'' relationship. Yet she says the same, that she loves me and makes it apparent .   But we had Lots of mutual respect and time together before we went out on these trips.   We are as comfortable as I have ever been with a woman. Though many here think it is costly; this is cheaper than my  marriage, more rewarding,  and my friend LOVED this trip too bc it was a "vacation'' for her.  We are at that point that when she ''retires'' she has stated the desire to keep seeing me UTR.  Falling in love with someone that is intimate with you can be natural as long as you remember and stay true to the context the two of you are in.  So I wouldn't fear love; just remember the context with it.

That is why she is my ATF and OO ( Only One, lol) I get an immense amount of joy making her happy;  and that is returned many fold back to me...

The moral here;   if you have an ATF (and I don't think you have to love her or be exclusive; it just works for me here   lol )  seee her a lot and find a groove with her;  It worked for us.

I have been hobbying for over 30 years and never considered traveling with a provider until about 3 years ago.  I met a provider who was not only a sexual dynamo, but also highly intelligent, quite fascinating and a real entpreneur.  Before taking the overnight step, I thought we should try afternoon dates where we would have lunch, do an activity, such as a massage, museum, horseback riding, etc, and then play.  These worked out great, and we really learned a lot about each other.  I felt truly that we both enjoyed each others company.  I then felt comfortable enough to try an overnight.

Since then, we have taken numerous trips, usually 2 to 4 days.  Based on my experience, I would suggest the following:

1.  Never forget that no matter what the "chemistry", it is always p4p.  You must discuss her fees before you go.  You must also be prepared to pay all expenses, such as massages and hair salon.

2.  You should also plan what you will be doing during the day.  I'm 70 years old, so 24/7 sex is not an issue (once per 24 is an achievement)!!  Both of us explore on the web what things there are to do wherever we are going.  We then decide what looks good, and I try to make the necessary arrangements before we go.

3.  Private time is very important, and you should definitely respect her needs in this regard.  I always try to book a suite that has a separate bedroom and living room.  This way, after we return from an active day, we each have privacy until we get ready for dinner.

Good luck to you.  If it works, I believe you will be a very happy camper.  For me, it has been great, and I am hoping to try a week or more soon!!

I agree. I also think this would apply to ALL situations, not just an extended travel with a paid escort specifically.

1. I am sure you have agreed on money in advance
2. You have not probably agreed on shopping etc expenses.  You need to be clear with yourself in advance on this.
3. I don't know where and for how long you are traveling, but:
a. View the trip as a pleasure for both of you.  She needs some time off and alone.  She is not a machine
You want a GFE and treat her like you would a girl friend in terms of consideration, dinner choices, etc.  If she is pleased with things, you will be also.  
b. Depending on where you are going, be sure you understand if either of you will want or be willing to include any local talent in your adventures. (On a trip to Europe many many years ago with a wonderful lady, this was one of the added great pleasures of the time.  We visited cities I new and on a few occasions included ladies from the cities we were in.  Some of these time were great fun, but I was sure in advance she would be up for this.)
c. Have a wonderful time.
d. Do not fall in love

Maybe some of us will be interested... I am one for sure.. Still saving up for a secret weekend getaway.

I think a suite or ajoining rooms makes a huge amount of sense.  One thing to consider is if one party had breathing issues / snores.  Yes, women can snore too!   It should be premissible for one to sleep in separate bedrooms for at least part of the night under those circumstances...  with the gal joining him in bed in the early morning.  
If he spends several hours out of sight for business say, some of this might be mittigated.

Keep in mind she may need privacy to dress, bathe, wash hair, beauty rituals, be in touch with family at home or a safety contact.   Nothing nefarious is going on.  

On a trip of a few days...  some planning or understanding of the other's sleep needs is essencial.  There can be tons of play time...  many don't care if it is interrupted...   so long as there is enough of it.
H