Ladies, what is the greatest hassle you have, in running your biz ??

.....and starts yammering about how great I am and how nice it'd be to meet & hang out longer after our sessions off the clock not so much like a business transaction and blah blah blah.

No....no thank you. You'll continue to pay for my time (all of it) ....I am an escort/paid companion (emphasis on PAID) ....we did not meet on match.com or adultfriendfinder where you can be with me without worrying about paying me.

Yet ask continuously the already answered questions. Its frustrating having to repeat things .
Also people who complain about their SO's or other ladies, I don't wanna hear about her, all I care about is us & what we're doing. Kinda makes me suspect one is trying to get a pity discount. ( that's happened before).

What is a deluded fucktard??

.....process.  If you do not want to provide the information I ask for: move on.  I do not have the time to exchange multiple e-mails, about why I ask for the information I do.

Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly

...The worst part is trying to get out the door with a provider holding onto my leg.  It's a real drag.

As nice as that might be, I will not say it back..I don't love you, I might like you and this is a fantasy...you are paying me to be there.

This is where the guys need to take stock and deal with whatever emotion they have. I cannot and will not take any blame for doing a great job. Go into this realizing what it is and not make it something it will NVER be.

Ah c'mon ladies.  At the risk of damaging my cherished reputation as a Mangina, I must say this seems like unjustified whining.

The first time I was with a really, really good GFE provider, I became pretty much bewitched.  I did not become delusional enough to think she was in love or to suggest. OTC  time, but if I could have been able to speak coherently  I might have been tempted to mutter my own feelings.   This is the effect you are advertising (or some of you are).  It's kind of like a good stage magician complaining that some people in the audience thought it was really magic.

I can see why constant emails or actual (as opposed to virtual) stalkers might be a real and very serious problem, but just some poor schlub like me who temporarily thinks he's in love?

Your websites may tell us you are educated sophisticated and elegant, and advertise GFE (yes, I know the "E" is important).  You post on the boards and justifiably insist on being treated like real human beings.  

Yet you're saying it's a major hassle for a guy you have just fucked the brains out of to act like he has no brains? , and to not act like he's involved in a real interpersonal interaction as well as a business transaction. WTF?

If you think that that is major business hassle, you are leading sheltered lives (lol)

Ps.  Experience has made me more rational in these areas.  I suspect that that is common.

not get dumbass! "How much for an hour?" Um, I don't offer an hour to start with, and why the fk are you contacting me if you don't know the rate!!! I don't even give a second thought on these....no reading or writing skills is automatic DNS. Let the girls who "appreciate the business" deal with that shit. I have other stuff to do...like post on TER all fkin day.

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... for a bite afterwards occasionally. It's just a polite offer since I'll be grabbing something anyway and I found her interesting for more than just her tits and ass (assuming I actually did).

I bet you would find most guys really could not care less if the provider accepts or not. Sometimes lunch/dinner is just lunch/dinner ... not a thinly veiled attempt to get free pussy or get married.

That's so far different than what I'm talking about.

The most serious hassles are when a client--or real life acquaintance--becomes delided that they are her BF; or her "protector", AKA pimp.

Often if doesn't make any difference what she does or says, some guys go off the deep end when a sexy, beautiful lady treats them nicely.  They lose all sense of reality and think her smile and kindness means she's in love with him--and she is now rightfully "his".  He turns into a stalker, a preditor, and in the most extreme cases he assaults her, injurs her, or even kills her.  I've been to too many hospital bedsides and too many funerals.

It is the ones who want to walk you back to your room hoping for another round, that drive me nuts. Um, you just fed my ass Mexican and you really want to be in the line of fire lol. Perfect!

The greatest hassle for my business is when traveling out of town and have a lot of cancellations/NCNS. I don't mind cancelled appointments when I hobby at home because I didn't have to make as many preparations, but when traveling IT REALLY SUCKS. To have paid airfare, hotel fees, transportation costs, food, etc. I get frustrated when guys cancel. I was just talking to a lady who is traveling and 50% of her pre-booked appointments cancelled 1-2hours before their appointment. That makes it difficult to return to a city.