To you at any time...Your sitting at home watching T.V. or eating dinner what ever the case may be and your phone goes off from a text message. You look at it and it is a provider you have seen before, out of the blue asking hows it going?, If this has happened how did you react to it? I being single went ahead and chatted with her abit knowing what was comeing but really couldn't do it cause I had just seen a lovely girl acouple of days before. I did chat with her abit but as soon as she saw I wasn't biting she stop texting back.
I got one on Fathers day. It was a good thing the wife was out of town. It was funny because I had just come from seeing another provider for the first time. Another time while I was going work at 6:20 am in the morning (I would have saw her but that day I had to be at work at 7:00 am). Another time while I am driving on vacation on a Sunday afternoon (It was phone call to talk about a reference she gave) I played that one off. The other times are during working hours. Sometimes that is dangerous because I work at home. I keep the hobby cell phone all the time now unless I am making a appointment.
This happened to me a few months ago, from someone i hadnt seen in like forever, as much as i think it's cool she remembers me i thought it crossed the line, what if my phone had been on and i was out the house and my better saw a random message which in itself was harmful but gets the questions going. I thought it better to just ignore and it never happened again (yet)
I don't think I've gotten a text, but I do get emails like this from time to time. That is a much safer way of marketing.
Gals have got to be careful about this kind of thing.
The same phone I use to talk with these ladies I use to talk with my mama and whom ever else I choose.
I have nothing to hide, and don't give a fuck who knows WTF I do. It's none of their fucking business and if they think less of me they can kiss my fuckin' ass!
...lives in my hobby world only; it's never part of my real world. I have gotten texts and less often calls from ladies I know on my hobby phone and I'm completely fine with that. Not a problem. I don't always have the phone on me and if I do and I'm in a potentially compromising situation, the phone is out of sight and is either turned off or set totally silent.
I really appreciate the emails from touring ladies who I've seen so I know when they'll be around.
If you use the same phone for real world and hobby world and if, unlike Mikey, you have something to hide, well, that just sounds dangerous to me. And complicated.
There's a lady who every so often likes to text me her pics and I've got to say, it's a real treat to open those! I also like keeping in touch with infrequent texts. I haven't come across anyone yet who floods me with texts.
Besides, too many ladies flood me with texts and steamy passionate love emails with explicit of photos.
Wouldn't want my girl friend MP to find out about those... lmao
Dosn't hurt my feelers in the slightest bit! WTF is wrong when a lovely lady is thinking about your dumb-ass? Fuck, I'd be worried if they stopped.
You're a fucking bonehead and these ladies need to stop contacting you and start up with me cuz I'll appreciate it.
Dick. 
Look I don't care that she contacted me thought it was cool, but she wasn't thinking about me but more like running down her phone book of her regulars. But it looks to me that my point flew right over you small little head so let me spell this out for you as simply as I can ok pay close attetion now only gonna say this once. My point, which you seemed to miss is this, she was contacting me to try and set up an appointment because she needed money which to me that is wrong. I will contact her when I need to get my dick sucked or get laid not the other way around. Hell there is even a lady on here that agrees that the woman in this business should never contact the man because she could ruin his life and she could possibly loose a regular client And as far as calling me a dick think you need to take a long hard look in the mirror RICHARD CRANIUM!
Hmmm. Actually, Mr. Dick, I got your fucking point the first fucking time. What YOU fucking fail to get is that ladies contact me for the hell of it. I like to think I'm a damn charming guy, good fucking looking too, and some reason ladies like to talk with my dumb ass. Not just providers, either.
We talk about all sorts of fucking shit. Here's a little secret a few people know. One even asked me to sing for her. Yep, it's true. She was feeling down and asked me to sing a song. My singing voice is so horrid, but I did it cuz she asked. Then she did one. Then I did another. Then she did another. It was fun and I had to laugh at myself cuz I suck at singing.
YOU getting the fucking picture?
They're not fucking machines, pal. They're regular people. Just like you and me. I can talk with a provider just like I talk with one of my civvie lady friends. As a matter of fact, a lot of my civvie lady friends know I see prostitutes. They don't give a shit. Cuz I'm fucking me.
These ladies here, ANY fucking lady should feel free to call me. I enjoy talking with women. They're crazy, IMHO, but who am I?
Hope this didn't go over YOUR fucking head...?
Sincerely,
R.C.
Hey Hey MP67 Wake up with some off the stuff you said your dreaming and no you didn't get my point my point was calling a hobbist to set up an appointment cause she needs money not just to shoot the shit.
Either way you should never contact someone who has not asked for your attention. It could be just what sends a red flag up to ruin someone's life.
Texting anyone you have seen before is not good. Copies of Text messages can be dug up very easy and have been done for murder trials. Any private investagator can do the same with a little know how and their never ending connections.
Kisses Haley
I think it's an invasion of privacy.
xoxo
To includ in my first post. What is your opinion about a provider contacting you to come and see her because she is in need of money do you like it, not like, do you think they should or shouldn't. thanks for the responces so far seem likes mrfisher and GuiltyMarriedMan it doesn't bother you two.
It does bother me. That is why I keep the cell phone off. Yes I have had ladies ask for money and I just ignore the message. The ones who ask for money made a fatal mistake of raising prices, not a wise thing do in this type of economy.
I see ok guess I misstook your first answer. yes it kinda of bothered me too when she contatced me and I knew right away what she wanted.
Yes, the one time I got an explicit request for money, I declined. That, in my opinion, is unreasonable harassment.
I don't mind wives calling me if they want to drop by and FF.
I don't "usually" answer or reply when providers or sales people call, text, or email out of the blue.
There are exceptions to every rule , when large discounts are offered.
Providers are not GFs.
it is pretty clear that my point did not get across to everyone. It is not about a hobby phone or keep the lifes seperate or even the girl calling you. But more do you think it is ok for a provider to call you looking to see if you want an appointment because she is need of money.
they don't cross over to stalking behavior.
It would beat 99.9999% of the other spam I get every day.
she needs another goddamn line of work. I don't have Unicef plastered on my fucking forehead.
It wasn't a provider I had used, she was a dancer at a local club. In the course of chit-chat as she was working me up for some lap dances we figured out she lived 3 doors down the street from me! At least temporarily (long tawdry stripper story goes here). She knew my damn DOG! Life went on, I saw her in the club ONLY despite her letting me know more was available. A couple of months later one night after dark the door bell rang - YOU GUESSED IT. I'm standing there turning purple and she can hear my spousal unit asking 'who's at the door?' I'll give her this much, she carried it out like a trooper and made up a cover story about wanting to know where we got our pup. Wife did comment after she left about the 'plastic stripper heels' and the skin tight jeans with the (then fashionable) cut slits across the bac of the thighs... Of course she was broke and needed money just to get to the club and was hoping I was alone so she could work a deal.
MVR
There have been a couple of girls who travel and I told them I want to see you again, when you are in the city send me an email. The flip side of that is a girl who keeps emailing you to try and pressure you to see her. It is a fine line.
My wife got to my phone before my and the text said "Wed at 3 is great for me, see you then Baby"
Needless to say a shitstorm followed and it has made hobbying very difficult for me since. I am now watched like a hawk
If your phone doesn't get a new one.
No problem for me since there aren't any serious SO at the moment and when I decide to have one I will stop playing but not anytime soon. Having too much fun at the moment.
Yes plug = to plug a hole. if you plug holes then you are a hole pluger.
If a lady is reaching out to you because she is low on money that is unprofessional.Many gents are married or have SO this is the reason why they are seeking companionship from ladies such as myself is for discretion.I have seen this topic posted so many times on this site as well as plenty others about the guy who gets the text or phone call out of the blue asking for the gent to see her.Many gents have gotten caught up this way not expecting a call/text to come through and their wives see it.Not cool!Now,that the guy has his wife on his back I am sure he is going to call the lady in the future for an appointment.Even,if a guy is single and the lady knows this she should not be calling,texting,or emailing out the blue trying to drum up business.IMO,it comes off as desperate if a guy wants to see me he has my contact info to set up an another appointment.
The only time I can see a lady contacting a gent first is if he has seen her before and asks her to contact him again when she is in his town.Some people do not have a clue on the meaning of being disreet and professional.
Jaydalee I must thank you. You seem to have gotten the point of my post. Thank you for your comment.