I have an adult friend finder profile also. I'm wondering if anybody has put something like " Pay for play is ok"  in there ad.  I was thinking of trying this. I've heard some stories of local providers.  I live in a very rural area, theres no ads anywhere for any providers.  I was wondering if anyone had luck trying this on adult friend finder?

I won't put P4P in anything associated with my email. Even a gmail or yahoo account can be traced back to your computer.

Look for ladies ads, that way you can first check their reviews. If anyone contacts you, who could you ever trust them?

Just my .02

they turn you into the board admin for soliciting you are automatically gone.  

On the other hand I have found two wonderful men who I dated in my civi life years ago on that site but alas there are way more men than women so it is good for us.

totally a waste of time.  After I deleted my profile, I regularly got "call me" notes on my e-mail.  

From my 6 month experience, I encountered several women who wrote me asking if I would be interested in p4p. They were completely unverifiable except for one who posted on CL regularly but not found on TER. Others were flaky and would chat, write but never meet.

I sent plenty of messages but the rate of response was dismal. Perhaps if I were in a younger demographic with bulging muscles and a 12" schlong, I may have enjoyed some meetings.

Some women were looking for "meaningful" relationships or love. I think their expectations were incompatible with the very reason for the existence of AFF.

Quite obviously, the number of available women depends upon your location. I am in a smaller market but, a populous region i.e. NY/NJ/CT or others,  would increase the possibilities. If you are in a smaller city or rural area, choices are limited.

Caveat Emptor.

A woman from AFF contact me and said she and her friend would like to to play with me at the same time. Here's the catch ... they said they would do it if I had my cock suck by their male friend. That was their condition.  I said "WTF, are you joking, I'm not gay".  This woman said, our male friend is not gay either.  But that's our requirement, before both of us girls will go to bed with you.  I said "Go fcuk yourself".