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Hardcore side hmmm(e)
Larissa_Sweets See my TER Reviews 1828 reads
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Had a female hobbyist contact me nothing in regards to meeting me but telling me "they" exist. ( I always say providers and Gents never ladies. That will def change)  
For some reason I found that to be a huge turn on and I'm not even gay. It doesn't surprise me there are female Hobbyist because, I personally am one myself (from time to time) however, what does the rare female hobbyist look for? Is she sweet like a rose or as hardcore as the "Johns"?  

Interesting!!!

jelloman42 10 Reviews 706 reads
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Some day I'll have to introduce you to my sister...

GaGambler 576 reads
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She is hardly the only female hobbyist, but she is the most vocal on these boards. Not as vocal as you (or me) of course, but still a very regular contributor who can offer a rather unique perspective on the subject.

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 429 reads
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Posted By: RoxanneHeartNYC
Had a female hobbyist contact me nothing in regards to meeting me but telling me "they" exist. ( I always say providers and Gents never ladies. That will def change)  
 For some reason I found that to be a huge turn on and I'm not even gay. It doesn't surprise me there are female Hobbyist because, I personally am one myself (from time to time) however, what does the rare female hobbyist look for? Is she sweet like a rose or as hardcore as the "Johns"?    
   
 Interesting!!!

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 476 reads
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jelloman42 10 Reviews 526 reads
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...and still losing 5 a week...

And no, she's 5 foot 2 and in great shape...and she hobbys...

mrfisher 115 Reviews 543 reads
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It was at a M&G out in Vegas about 6 years ago.  Maybe some of the old timers will remember her from the boards, Webterrorist.

I'd say she was on the hard core side.  Lot's of fun to chat with too

Bill_Brasky 543 reads
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She mongers with her boyfriend and is bi-sexual.  I've spent some "Friends With Benefits" time with her.  She's totally cool in every way.  Sexually voracious like a guy and really cute.  Can't wait to see her again

GaGambler 505 reads
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I first met her at a M&G in Atlanta maybe 8 years ago, she was very good friends with the recently departed PT AKA "Phone Terrorist"

YairMarx 400 reads
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scoed 8 Reviews 533 reads
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And she is much more hardcore than me. What does she look for, well looks, and sexually open partners. She wants partners really  into pussy.

Larissa_Sweets See my TER Reviews 465 reads
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Larissa_Sweets See my TER Reviews 495 reads
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Larissa_Sweets See my TER Reviews 441 reads
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Ah.... I guess I'm on the hunt for the Unicorn Lopaw (love that username...paw I love animals lol anywho..) Wonder what she looks like?

Larissa_Sweets See my TER Reviews 445 reads
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I think they have been on a hiatus because I believe I would have noticed them by now. Nope, haven't seen them on the boards and even if I did how would I know they are women?

Larissa_Sweets See my TER Reviews 413 reads
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Larissa_Sweets See my TER Reviews 476 reads
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That far in between huh? lol

Larissa_Sweets See my TER Reviews 519 reads
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wow that's awesome! I could see myself becoming an official hobbiest after retirement hmmm, well more like seeing my SO with other women. So that's awesome!

Larissa_Sweets See my TER Reviews 413 reads
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She doesn't get turned on by seeing you interacting with other women as well?

Bill_Brasky 464 reads
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Three posts ahead of GaG.  Now you need to keep posting to secure your narrow margin.

lopaw 29 Reviews 564 reads
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Anything you'd like to know about me please feel free to ask, Roxanne.
I won't bite.....hard. ;)

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 479 reads
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In a year you will be only 40 lbs! 😁

GaGambler 462 reads
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If I said "I met a hooker 8 years ago" would you assume that was the only hooker I have met during the last 8 years? So why would you think those were the only female hobbyist I have ever known?  

You asked about "female hobbyists" I first mentioned the most visible female hobbyist on TER, Mr Fisher then mentioned another well known female hobbyist here, I just happened to know her as well. Just how does that make anything "that far in between" Bill mentioned another female hobbyist and guess what? I know her as well. Female hobbyists are the exception, not the rule, but they are not THAT rare. I am sure I can think of several more if I put my mind to it, but none of them would have the least bit of relevance to you as I am positive you don't know any of them.

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 388 reads
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GaGambler 631 reads
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I will gladly concede the dubious honor of being TER's biggest all around blabbermouth.

Come to think of it, you once held that dubious honor as well.

jelloman42 10 Reviews 482 reads
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I've never made a secret of my history, but you may have missed it...

5 years ago I lost my job and health insurance. I drove a taxi for a couple years to survive. During that time my weight, which has always been an issue, shot up well over 400 pounds. My blood pressure also went completely out of control and I became physically impotent as a result.

Fast forward to late 2014, I had a new job and restored health insurance. I decided at that time to sign up with the Bariatric program at my healthcare center and hospital. Went on a hardcore diet and had most of my stomach removed on August 6, 2015 (a procedure called a Sleeve Gastrectomy).  I have to date lost a total of 110 pounds. As well, about 3 months ago full sexual function was restored, which also marked the start of my "hobbying".

jelloman42 10 Reviews 458 reads
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Just so long as everything still functions! ;)

impposter 49 Reviews 396 reads
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BigPapasan 3 Reviews 417 reads
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mrfisher 115 Reviews 451 reads
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lurking around these boards for each one that posts on here.

Gals are usually more reticent to post than guys, being less egotistical and opinionated.

(To quote Billy Joel, sorry if that's a sexist observation, but it rings true to me.

scoed 8 Reviews 443 reads
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We do doubles about once a month. We have done FFFM, FFM, MFFM, MFFFM  and MFM together, I being the only none pro, though my wife isn't getting paid of course.

Durhamdrew 19 Reviews 481 reads
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Something tells me she likes biting, or passion. ;)
And you know damn well it wasn't your "ears" LOL

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Larissa_Sweets See my TER Reviews 376 reads
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Baby I didn't say those were the only ones you knew.

lopaw 29 Reviews 422 reads
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Larissa_Sweets See my TER Reviews 421 reads
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LOL, don't tell me to post I'll feel pressured and get writer's block ;-) or all of sudden I'll get smart and not have any more questions lol.

skarphedin 440 reads
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scoed 8 Reviews 391 reads
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Posted By: jelloman42
I've never made a secret of my history, but you may have missed it...  
   
 5 years ago I lost my job and health insurance. I drove a taxi for a couple years to survive. During that time my weight, which has always been an issue, shot up well over 400 pounds. My blood pressure also went completely out of control and I became physically impotent as a result.  
   
 Fast forward to late 2014, I had a new job and restored health insurance. I decided at that time to sign up with the Bariatric program at my healthcare center and hospital. Went on a hardcore diet and had most of my stomach removed on August 6, 2015 (a procedure called a Sleeve Gastrectomy).  I have to date lost a total of 110 pounds. As well, about 3 months ago full sexual function was restored, which also marked the start of my "hobbying".

scoed 8 Reviews 448 reads
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I find a larger variety of women attractive from heavy to thin to built, small boons to large strange things turn me on. My wife is into very feminine looking spinners. Though she will play with taller big booed model types as well. And of course if she is paying any type.

GaGambler 406 reads
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GaGambler 451 reads
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You might want to buy some cream for that until the burning goes away. lol

skarphedin 384 reads
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jelloman42 10 Reviews 381 reads
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Larissa_Sweets See my TER Reviews 415 reads
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No baby I never imply, if you read my posts you know I'm blunt! i never implied. Seriously GAG never. My apologies if I came out that way baby.

Larissa_Sweets See my TER Reviews 420 reads
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Wow, bless your wife for trying to keep you happy. I do the same and of course the situation is different. Very happy for you

Larissa_Sweets See my TER Reviews 419 reads
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Its so weird being in the hobby and having weight issues and insecurity not just for a provider but also for someone seeing providers. I got the Gastric Bypass done 5 yrs and haven't looked back. Very proud of you. Keep up the good work and just know I know (more than a provider that was THIN her whole life ) what you are going through and your struggles. Occasionally (don't know if your surgeon asked you) my surgeon wants me to participate in the discussion groups and let prospective people see me so they know they can pull though as well.  

Kuddos to you

Larissa_Sweets See my TER Reviews 491 reads
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LOL perfectstorm you are right, give me a break I've only been on for a week or so ;-) of course this was an attempt to be Ms.TER but I doubt it. I fell in love with the conversations though so I'll keep posting regardless and now I will be more attentive as far as reading. Doing good so far, I think....

xoxox

Larissa_Sweets See my TER Reviews 484 reads
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Don't worry when I become an official hobbist I'll be on the boards 24/7 ;)

scoed 8 Reviews 393 reads
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Larissa_Sweets See my TER Reviews 509 reads
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You are the forbidden fruit, now I'm just all over you... I SAID IT on the boards in public, I'm not even into women but what's that saying....ah yes, the forbidden fruit is the most enjoyable one.

Larissa_Sweets See my TER Reviews 451 reads
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Larissa_Sweets See my TER Reviews 473 reads
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Make it a year supply lopaw I got an eye out for the unicorn!

GaGambler 410 reads
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but I will accept that your post read differently from how you actually meant it to read.

I would suggest that you never become as "blunt" as me. I doubt it would be good for business. London Rayne was/is a bitch on wheels and somehow gets away with it and even thrives because of it, most of the other ladies here who are brutally honest do so under an alias or a "posting envelope" Some guys/customers can't handle women who are "too" honest or direct on the boards, and you are here to create business, not chase it away.

skarphedin 406 reads
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jelloman42 10 Reviews 410 reads
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I am addicted to the monthly support group at the hospital...

I got up in front of the group 3 1/2 weeks after my surgery and showed the pre-ops my incisions...yes, I actually pulled my shirt off in front of a group of 100 strangers so they could see how small and unfrightening it is...

I'm not at all shy...;)

Congratulations to you...I've seen your pics on your site...you have much to be proud of, and I am very proud of you for the person you are today!

jelloman42 10 Reviews 406 reads
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scoed 8 Reviews 393 reads
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It is all her idea. I am just enjoying the ride.

Larissa_Sweets See my TER Reviews 369 reads
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lopaw 29 Reviews 550 reads
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Yes, Miss Roxanne - you have voiced your yearning publicly, so there is no choice but to see it to fruition.
And I can make that happen.  
I am....after all.....a giver by nature.
:D

Bill_Brasky 413 reads
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1) Depreciating means becoming less.  You meant deprecating.
2) Sence is not a word.  You meant sense. Spell check (on which you depend) doesn't even recognize that as a word, so how you managed that is a mystery.
Please check your posts before you put them up.  
Thank you.


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impposter 49 Reviews 428 reads
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BMI 61 down to BMI 44.  

Congrats! Keep up the good work!

scoed 8 Reviews 392 reads
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Posted By: Bill_Brasky
1) Depreciating means becoming less.  You meant deprecating.  
 2) Sence is not a word.  You meant sense. Spell check (on which you depend) doesn't even recognize that as a word, so how you managed that is a mystery.  
 Please check your posts before you put them up.  
 Thank you.  
 

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WilliamKidd 11 Reviews 421 reads
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Posted By: impposter
BMI 61 down to BMI 44.  
   
 Congrats! Keep up the good work!
Jelloman42 - Great job and very impressive.  Keep up the hard work!

jelloman42 10 Reviews 425 reads
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Thanks...I was wondering about the numbers...

hbyist+truth=;( 476 reads
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Who knows just what to do with your body...so in this case might you be "giving" in?

lopaw 29 Reviews 410 reads
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Yes I do enjoy and prefer a take charge gal- my last session was awesome in many ways, and the provider being very sexually aggressive was icing on the cake. But if a gal is hesitant or submissive, I have no problem taking the reigns. Sometimes a gal will start out submissive and become quite dominant once the juices start flowing ;)

hbyist+truth=;( 424 reads
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I swear, you make me want to have a separate website for women only.

AnastasiaKane See my TER Reviews 422 reads
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Well, I think like anything else, a client's personality will dictate how the session will go. I have only had one female hobbyist and she was very nervous and shy. We still email on occasion because she's a nice gal but I think some women find the appointment setting a bit daunting or unnatural.  

I am a provider, of course, but I am also a female hobbyist. Since I know both sides of the situation, I try to be the model client. haha! Or at least I hope I am such. I am pretty laidback in regards to appointments and I like long appointments, usually dinner dates because I'm not someone that just likes to jump into things. My only complaint, if you want to call it that, is it can be exceedingly difficult to find a provider who is actually bisexual. Many ladies have "really bi" in their profile because it'll give them access to a higher numerical score and they may do a duo once in a blue moon but they don't really enjoy it. I have unfortunately booked providers for myself who were lovely and we had a nice time overall, but I felt really uncomfortable because they clearly were not into it.

Larissa_Sweets See my TER Reviews 384 reads
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I like a challenge personally, am I bi? No not really but there are women that just turn me on. I would love an encounter with a female hobbiest it's different and not ordinary  and unlike a double it's little old me with someone whose done this before. Almost like popping my bi cherry if you want to call it that because it wouldn't be an act.  

I'll be honest it entices me the thought of a female booking me.

MalikaFantasy See my TER Reviews 308 reads
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I've had a few over the years!
They don't post as often on public boards probably because of the stigma why would a women need to for it?  
I've had a regular for about a year who saw me each month for 2 years. She stopped seeing me because I wasn't "butch" enough for her taste.  

I've meet a few women part of couple that hobby together at some local meet in great in Toronto.  

I currently have a regular lady client who is from out of town and fly to Toronto about each 2 months to play with me and a few others girls.  
She is quite active on twitter.  
PM if you want her twitter handle

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