It makes me miss what could be in my regular relationship. But, that's the reason I hobbied in the first place. So, maybe "no change", other than to confirm that it was no great in the first place.

and really good question, BTW.  I'm very happily married and got into "play world" because my wife has a physical problem that makes intercourse painful for her.  We do a lot of other sexual stuff, she is really open and willing and we have fun, but not to the frequency I prefer (and I like good ol' fashioned headboard banging fucking too).  I was getting frustrated and it was affecting our relationship.  There was some insinuation by my wife that I should "do what I have to do" for my sexual fulfillment.  Mind you, this is not discussed at the kitchen table or anything.  I keep it utr and discrete, and it's not discussed.  (Although, I've really cut back the last 6 months or so after being pretty active for about 3 years--I think it might be a somewhat natural aging factor of less interest in sex generally).

Anyway, I got the aggressive fucking that I wanted (to the dismay, I'm sure, of some lady friends, but what the hell, I'm paying them for MY fantasy), at the frequency I wanted it (the misses has no clue how frequent it was at times), and it really released the tension at home.  I wasn't constantly frustrated with my wife anymore and when the mood hits us, it isn't forced or negative because of things I can't do with her.  I've even brought some things to our sex life I was able to hone with playmates, that might have been more awkward initiating at home.  My hobby experience was a real win-win for me.  Kept my marriage together and allowed me to relive my college days again.

I think the more sex the better. . .

More = wanting more = cumin' more and it just goes on and on and on

XXX-Giselle

Definetly better!

I've been at this hobby thing for about a month, and my sex life with my non-hobby girlfriend has gotten spicier.  

In the movie "About Last Night" is a line that goes something like, "Nothing makes you more attractive to the opposite sex than getting your rocks off on a regular basis."  

It seems that even the girls I meet out in public are giving me a more flirty eye, and I think it's cause I have more spring in my step.  YMMV