....before my marriage went to shit one complaint that I had with our relationship concerned over doing her cell phone use.

She would walk through the door at dinner time while talking on her cell phone, hang the call up to sit down to dinner, jump up to answer any call that came in while having dinner, then call the rest of her daily list (mother, sister, oldest friend) afterward. And this was every single day.

Its no wonder we never found the time or energy to fuck anymore, there wasn't any left.

So my point is, when I am on a date with a provider please don't remind me of my home life by ignoring me for a phone call.

The fact that your paying for a "session", hows that... is that a better word than date... and what... your beating off as she's gabbing on the phone on your dime.

Awesome !!!

Lolll... fiddy.....

I agree Hobby, accidents happen where we simply forgot to shut the cell phone off.

That's happened to me while with a lady, she apologized, shut the phone off and we went on with our date/session, whatever.

I was referring to the ladies who stop to text a possible next client on my dime.

Tell me its an important call from your kids and I am fine with that. Family first.

Very UTR massage provider.

After 2AM at her incall, hadn't even flipped yet.

Special ring indicated it was her SO. Even before she answered, she told me that and said "It MUST be an emergency" in a somewhat panicked voice.

She was quite short and terse with him on the phone, as it was not an emergency.

She apologized profusely and indicated it wouldn't happen again.

I don't think I would have wanted to be on his end of the phone after I left when we were done.

and she answers it!  I can never understand why a provider would answer an incoming phone call when with a client!  It is the height of disrespect for a provider to lose focus when with a client!  Whenever a provider and client are together, both of them should be totally focused on each other, creating a sanctuary from the stresses of the world.  The client and the provider should have communicated enough with each other before meeting to ensure they are good matches for each other and both will be very happy with their rendezvous.

I'm just there to get off and I can do that while she is on the phone. But I can understand why it would bother those that think of it as being on a date.

I've had that happen to me once and needless to say that provider never got another dime from me but she did get a bad review.  If I'm going to shell out 3 c-notes for someone's time and affection, she pretty well better pay attention to me.

Although I have had providers forget to turn off their phones.  Some try to ignore it while the others only get up to turn it off.  The good ones will apologize and move on.  Now in those situations, it doesn't bother me nor does it affect my perception of her.  I think everyone with a cell phone have forgotten to turn off the ringer when they should at one time or another.

a post that talks about provider-hobbyiest interaction, the OP reveals they HAVE NEVER SEEN A PROVIDER.

I hate that! I can never understand why a person would post as a hobbyist when the are on a hobby board and they are not a hobbyist!

It is the height of disrespect for civvie-joe when with another actual hobbyist. It wastes BOTH of their times, not to mention leaving a bad taste in a real hobbyist mouth.

And what does it do for civvie-joe??? Just shows he's an ASSCLOWN.

Why doesn't he just post on a newbie board, where they'll cut him some slack?

Oh well!

HalfHour

Damn! Post was meant for your other silly post: The Positive Review

Regardless, welcome to reality...

Shut up hound_dog69!  I've been following your posts for some time and you are one of the biggest bleeding-heart manginas this side of of the Prime Meridian!

MINOHunter

to learn how to shop better.

If she is available only by phone you are going to get this treatment sometimes. If she makes appointments via email, and MOST IMPORTANTLY - SCREENS - you ill very very rarely encounter this.

PM if you don't know, or would like to....

You've never seen a provider?  

I have been in meetings where the phone rang, and she had to answer it.   The land line in the hotel room cannot be turned off, and occasionally will ring...it is usually hotel staff, and not answering may lead to knock on the door shortly thereafter.  Other interruptions can occur as well...once had room service deliver to the wrong room.   Also, sometime ladies will forget to turn their phone off, and calls come in.  Usually, the lady will ignore it, or get up to turn if off.  But if her kids calling, and I've been there a couple of times when that happened, she is going to answer it.  Note sometimes we hobbyists forget also, and the call coming in is on OUR phone.  Maybe it will your kid calling, possibly with an emergency...do you answer it?    

Interruptions happen...part of the game.  Most are apologetic when this happens, so you learn to roll with it.    

You need to stop reading reviews and fantasizing, and get your feet wet.  The hobby is not always the romantic place you fantasize that it could and should be.   Real life can intrude, as you will learn if you ever decide to partake.

Are you referring to the OP as an "ASSCLOWN"?

After all when you look at the OP and your user names it looks absolutely the same. That is both have the envelope for PMing but neither of you have any reviews.

He opened up and exposed himself with all his recent postings as a newbie. However, regarding level of credibility with neither of you having reviews, it appears to be a very even level.

It's over between us, Smarty. We both know it. Its time for you to move on and find someone new. I have, and I'm happy. I want you to ge happy too.

no longer curious

HalfWitt LOL!

First, for all I know you are sincere and a really nice guy. You've been posting these things all over the DC board, and now you come to the GD board to espouse about things you have yet to experience. You have not written a single review, and yet we hear all your philosophizing about how to treat women like princesses. 90% of TER guys probably basically already agree with you. So, what is your purpose???

Makes me a mangina, then I proudly wear that moniker

I feel this is so rude of a provider to talk or even answer the phone while in a session.  They have options like vibrate and silent, but don't put it to use.  A couple of new friends have run into the same problem of ladies holding phone conversations.  I think it is rude, unprofessional and very tacky.

Not an alias genius. I am not beating off while she talks on the phone. I tell her to answer it while she is on her back and I continue to do what I am doing. I don't fall into that silly category where "hobbyists" fantasize about it being a date or a girlfriend. I couldn't care less about it being GFE or whatever. I am there to get off and even if she falls asleep (couldn't care less) I can still get of no problem whatsoever. Its a business transaction, nothing more at all.

No I don't do reviews for personal reasons but, if someone posts a question about a "provider" that I have seen I will try and help them. When I want to see someone I rarely look at reviews, I take a chance and book an appointment. If its good then great, if its bad then on to the next one. At least I don't cheat on a significant other like most here do. I consider a person that does that a lowlife, no matter what the reason! If this bothers anyone then so be it because, its no sweat off my sack.

You say you don't use the reviews on this website to help protect yourself from getting screwed.
You just take a chance.

You look at the "meeting" as a business transaction and nothing more and could care less if she falls asleep or talks on her phone while your trying to get off.

Gfe means nothing to you.

You obviously don't write reviews to help others from getting screwed.

I'm not sure why your on this site at all.

What more pathetic the way I see things (reality) or the morons that fantasize about the prostitute (cause that's what they are, reality hurts) being their gf? I don't write reviews because its a personal choice but like I said before if someone posts a question about a provider that I have seen I will give them my input. As to why I come to this site (and its none of your fucking business) I enjoy reading the posts about all the bs drama that prostitutes and johns post and enjoy the laughs that I get from reading them.