Based on another thread being about being caught. Does anyone here have the luck of being married and allowed to see SWers?
My wife's medications kills her sex drive and we've come to an agreement. Was wondering if others had the same arrangement and how rare it is

After all, she was an escort and that's how we met.   Plus we live 1,500 apart - talk about having room!

....and perhaps one day I will share it with her.

I never had the desire to see anyone else when I was married, but it's because after many years of marriage, my wife was the same weight and dress size (4), as when we married, and never lost her sex drive.  Ever since she passed away prematurely, I have found myself with a lot of providers as real life girlfriends, but I will not consider it unless they agree that transactional sex is not considered cheating.  In other words, she can continue to see her customers where she is getting paid, and I can see other providers as long as I'm paying.  Nevertheless, none of these relationships have lasted more than a year due to jealousy . . . . . not mine, hers.  I find it unacceptable to be with a provider who wants to continue to see her customers, but expects me to see only her.  There has to be a level playing field, or I'm not interested.

Wonder if it's more popular with that group. Which I am apart of.

No need to lie. If your blessed enough to have an understanding with your SO more power to you. Communication is everything when you have a real relationship.

For me, i believe monogamy is such a odd construct that's against what i beleive is human nature and not practicing monogamy. Very few very few animals practice it.

Very few animals have offspring that require so many years to become self-functioning individuals.  But the alternative to monogamy is not everybody with equal sexual opportunity.  It is harems where most women would rather share a rich guy than be the only one associating with a poor guy.

I think you meant "mammals" and not "animals." 90% of bird species are monogamous. Birds are animals. But birds are not mammals.

Specifically about "It is harems where most women would rather share a rich guy than be the only one associating with a poor guy." In many Muslim countries, polygamy is legal and it is the "rich guys" that can afford to collect many wives. A consequence is that poor young men have fewer and fewer opportunities for finding a wife ... and that drives down the age of marriage to include very young girls: marry them before some rich guy carries them off. Young men w/o any chance of getting a wife, getting married, or getting laid are more likely to become radicalized.
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In the US, polygamy usually centers around cult leaders or domineering men who are seldom "rich."

Or at least mine does. Providers tell me its common.  It can be a rough road but over time as they figure out you are not going to leave them. The good life they live is not a being threatened. You can never throw it in there face or embarrass them. She gets to do almost anything she wants. Travel ,time with girl friends, go to the gym, nice car plus we are great friends and truly care for each other. There is a lot to said about the old saying. You know why brides smile as they go down the isle ?  " because they know they have given there last BJ " Lol.    

Turns out women are cheating more than men according to this article.  Because they're bored.

but she suggested that I see other women for sex.  The luck involved was having a wife who is caring and trusting enough to do that.  

during the last three years or so of her life. I was cooking, cleaning, changing her diaper, bring her liquids and food, available 24/6.5 hours a day to take care of her medical needs.

Oooook. Well......I'll assume that she's only asking that you pay for everything from household bills to her "ALLOWANCE".