blowing it by requesting a discount for when you don't want the FS.

Only if she has a massage rate on her site should you consider asking.

Otherwise, you'll create some bad feelings and that will impact things.

"Providers, would you consider this haggling? Would you be offended if someone asked you this?"

Some will, some wont. Some will become indignant and refuse to see you after asking.

You can get a feel for this by a lady's website.

I'm surprised that a lady is your "ATF" and yet you may not have a clue how she would react to the question. I would call her your "go-to" lady, not an ATF.

If you are concerned, ask about this with a SHORTER TIME. That allows everyone to maintain politeness and dignity. No reason to put a lady on the spot accidentally by asking for a "reduced" rate.

Just say "Do you offer a 45-minute massage and oral only? And what woulg that rate be." That opens the question respectfully without "haggling" and allows her to state what she offers.

Good Luck


HH

I may be mistaken but if she anted those appts shed have it on the menu on her site. i wouldnt get into buggin her, just find some one that goes thru trouble of havin it o the menu. they obviusly wantthose style appts. In fact if she likes you she l probly say oh ok anyway and end up irrataded she did it after if its not on the menu dont even bring it up.