i have the full legal name, email address (for many, more than one), and phone number of every man i have ever seen. in addition, i keep any significant correspondence between the two of us, as well as my own personal notes. for me, maintaining this information is absolutely critical, but then i have never claimed to be a "professional," business-minded provider.

and btw, the men who have seen me happen to appreciate this. i once forgot a long time friend's exact birth date, and he still hasn't forgiven me for it, lol.

oh, EOM

I have simple procedure. If someone contacts me using their work email, that address does not make it to my list. If I see that it is disposable email address - it gets added to mailing list.

End of story. All other info is deleted day after appointment.

Combination of low volume and good memory allows me to recall if I ever actually had a date with someone based on email addy.

Lina

Some new cirque de strapon venue?

it's bullshit to rely on someone else for your security

so after various events early this year that were "interesting" (mostly involving a lady NOT in my profile) i took matters in my own hands. i changed hobby email and cell phone. this was a little bit of work since i had to coordinate with the ladies i wish to remain in contact with. but it is worth it for your peace of mind.

all were good natured about it and understood it was good for their safety as well as mine.

OSP is correct, ladies keep whatever info that they need.  They may discard your work info, but they may keep cell #s, safe email addresses, etc. If they did not they could not give references, keep track of favored friends, or alert fellow providers about psychos.  

Also, it's been at least 3-4 years since I've seen a website in which a lady stated that she discarded the information after the visit.  Even if she did say it who would believe it. Of course, you could visit ladies that do not screen or ask for any info or you could utilize a verification site which would cut down on the amount of info needed to secure a visit.  

Or you could structure your life where this shit just doesn't matter.  I prefer the latter.

Lets see, a 5 guy show? Another who didn't even wrap you up? And you think these Einstein's represent professional providers? Really?

Just because you seem to have a talent for finding the bottom of the barrel, doesn't mean all ladies dwell at the lowest common denominator. Some of us actually are, yanno, *professional* and exercise discretion.

Is that you shouldn't be having sex with anyone you don't think you can trust with your personal data.

That solves the problem too. Of course, I admit it involves a fair degree of selectivity.

to find out who I was & if she should save the address.  I told her I had no plans to return.  Funny thing is a year later, met up with a friend of hers who borrowed her place.  It was very uncomfortable when I came out of the bathroom after...  found both girls there.  Scratch #2 also.
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