but it defies a simple answer.

 
Much depends on factors such as how skilled is she at getting someone to come.

 
Then there is the receiver's ability to hold back.

 
I'm sure many of you will think of other angles to this.

 
For myself, I seldom come from a BJ, I need more stimulation than most gals can provide.   And so I look at the BJ as an appetizer, so to speak.  Generally I'll go no more than 10 minutes before asking to change to another position and activity.

 
An associated question if any want to discuss is how much time should be given to warn the gal that you plan to come soon. (Although if you are sure she is into CIM, I suppose this is not that important.

I prefer at least a solid 10 minutes of oral attention. This amount of time, +/- 3 minutes, seems fairly standard in my experience.

However, during recent travels, I sought out a few providers who advertised themselves as experts in this and offered cork worship sessions (CW). They were far from experts, did not offer anything even close to CWing, and were barely on the mic for 2 minutes before motioning like that should’ve been enough. This applies to all 3 of the ones I saw. While this seems off topic, I mention this because weak head game and unwillingness to take direction will cause me to stop or accept early stoppage. I make it pretty clear that the tip I have in mind depends mainly on the oral and less so on intercourse too.

But, returning to my opening paragraph, it seems that around 10 minutes of head is custom in my experience.

Can be comfortable for both for as long as you both enjoy being licked and sucked.

I don't expect her to take a deep throat face fuck all night long.

My sessions are strictly BBBj/CIM and I’ll usually last about 10-15 minutes before release.  I like to switch up positions for my enjoyment but I also think it makes things easier for the provider.  My GILF regular here at home once mentioned that switching things up a few times makes it much easier for her to deliver a longer and better blowjob.  

you get to decide how long to receive a BBBJ. My suggestion re DATY is, when your neck starts to hurt, stop. She probably wasn't enjoying herself that much anyway.

I guess depends on how long you want to enjoy yourself, and as long as the girl is willing to keep going.  No one wants to cum in 15 seconds, and I would think most girls can't or won't just keep sucking you for an hour..  

 
So I guess y'all find your sweet spot..  

 
P.S. Also there is nothing rude or uncourteous about ejaculating too early - as long as the it doesn't make you angry and bitter, then you got some other anger management issues.

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I am a connoisseur of the bbbj, and I love a prolonged bbbj tease if the girl is up for it! However, I am sensitive to the girl’s comfort as I want her to be happy while teasing! My routine has been to feel her out up front to find out if she likes to give bj’s! If so, I change out the positions frequently, sometimes with a little daty, fingering or kissing in between! My position progression might go like this; I stand and she kneels in front of mirror; I sit in chair or on bed, she kneels; she lies on bed on her back, head over edge, I stand; she stays on her back, I move close to her head on knees or all fours, lower cock to her mouth; she turns on side while I’m sitting on knees;  I lay on back, she moves in between my legs! For me a good session is if I hit 4-5 of these positions! I had one session with a provider who turned out to be much heavier than her photos! She claimed to be uncomfortable in every bbbj position we tried, so I guess she just didn’t like bj’s. I moved on and still had a decent session, but I did not return!  

As far as daty, my go to position is to have her on her back on edge of bed while I’m kneeling - good access and nothing uncomfortable about the position!

BBBJ

Time is one consideration.  
Good Hookers have excelled applications for the service and a flexible mindset to approach the activity with fervor.
I know of no better exercise for women to keep that fat-flopping, turkey- neck at bay than an extended bj session.
It’s better than a face lift for promoting a more youthful look.
Therefore, the job performs two functions and is often the preferred method for delivering happiness by some ladies.
~I can pretty much tell who does bj’s and who doesn’t by looking at the neck muscles.

As for your neck, WIC, relax, this is your time.
She’ll handle her orgasm.

I give extra points if she stays down while I cum.  Triple extra points if any cum spurts out her nose.

Just sit back,

Relax and enjoy the ride. It's your job to be comfortable and enjoy it while I pleasure you so you shouldn't worry about how long it takes. Ofcourse my neck may hurt after a while but it's my job to please and I love the reward I get from a job well done

It varies by situation or circumstance or woman or what has already taken place or what is anticipated to take place, etc.

Even having stated the above, I usually do not prefer to ejaculate at all when receiving oral, unless I know ahead of time that she is willing to swallow or is willing to take it in her mouth (and then spirit out). Shooting it on her face or her body doesn't do much for me, I'm not into it. As such, the majority of blowjobs I get are not for finishing, I move on the other acts for that purpose.  

For those times that it does lead to finishing, there is no "courteous" time limit for me. It might be a few minutes or over half an hour, it might be back and forth to oral mixed in with other acts over a long period of time. It's also a question of what we want mutually. One woman on a particular occasion might like it to be quicker, and the same or another woman on another occasion might want it to take longer. During a threesome, a second woman added to it brings even more possibilities of which outcome there is.

My clients are welcome to lay back and enjoy themselves for the entirety of the booking if that is what they desire, and I exclusively do multi-hour and extended bookings. Giving a long, slow, sloppy deepthroat BJ over the course of an afternoon or evening is my idea of a lovely time (especially if I get to tie you up with my stockings or make you cum multiple times). It's about finding providers who enjoy doing the things you want to do, and trusting that we know our limits and will let you know when it is time to cum

As far as I am concerned. You are not there with the Client to get sexually pleased by the Client, but to get paid to sexual please the Client.

Fill her mouth and don’t worry about it.  You’re paying her for it.