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lungman 10 Reviews 2232 reads
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I can see why some ladies and gents decide not to deep french kiss. I've heard that it is "To Intimate", i now agree.
If ya do it for awhile with the same lady, well, i think you know what i'm getting at.
Do any of you ladies or gents avoid kissing?
Ya definetly have to harden yourself, IN SOME WAY, to not feel anything. ( correct ? )




crazyshit515 reads

Which I can defintely understand.  Having a guy put a rubber on and bang you is, to me, a lot less intimate than having a guy using his mouth to lick your holy of holies.

But I guess that's why DATY is my favorite activity, too.

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lungman591 reads

To me, kissing is the ultimate in intimacy.

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crazyshit498 reads

But it didn't lead to an intro between my cock and her pussy.  :)

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Posted By: crazyshit
Which I can defintely understand.  Having a guy put a rubber on and bang you is, to me, a lot less intimate than having a guy using his mouth to lick your holy of holies.

But I guess that's why DATY is my favorite activity, too.
It is definitely my favorite activity also... and I do think it is a very intimate act...

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mrfisher597 reads

(Here comes grandpa fisher again, run!)

kissing of any kind was pretty much verboten.  Then I met a gal who not only would kiss, she practically knocked my tonsils out.  She also loved bare back (This was 1976, pre-AIDS.)

That really reset the bar for me.

Today, I don't need to DFK, but if a gal is willing, then so am I.

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CubbieFan2428 reads

Hi Mr. F,

I live for those kind of DFK's!!!

Posted By: mrfisher
(Here comes grandpa fisher again, run!)

kissing of any kind was pretty much verboten.  Then I met a gal who not only would kiss, she practically knocked my tonsils out.  She also loved bare back (This was 1976, pre-AIDS.)

That really reset the bar for me.

Today, I don't need to DFK, but if a gal is willing, then so am I.

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lungman383 reads

Man i wish we were still in the "pre-aids" days.

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lungman320 reads

WTF, a tongue that just sits there??
Kissing is not "rocket science"...it's not hard to master.
When you are always told, "wow, that's nice", well i would say, that it is mastered!!
Their are some positives, to seeing us older gents!!

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HeadFirstIntoASwarmOfBees435 reads

so i'm using my alias. i  do not avoid DFK because i enjoy it and always have. the way i see it, if you are trading your hard earned dollar for a true GFE then DFK is a must and that's what you're going to get. of course if you say otherwise then i will save the tongue action for other places.

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2Magician502 reads

I posted a message on one of the regional boards about this. Everyone has a right to decide what they are comfortable with. For me, I am very oral, so, No DFK and No DATY , then no date. DFK is part of my fantasy. I pay a provider to perform, not a marriage proposal. I have to separate fact from fantasy. I admit that when the chemistry is right (AFT) I sometimes wish that a deeper relationship could develop.
But that is what reviews are for. Like minded participants engage in a date. Everybody's happy! Eom

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1192967374 reads

...have to "harden" myself against feeling anything while kissing. I enjoy it.

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London Rayne505 reads

My issue is more with guys who simply cannot kiss, which makes me not want to do it with them. When I find guys who actually kiss like it's 2012 and not 1970, those are the ones I actually get turned on by whilst doing it. LFK for some is DFK for others. This is why I don't advertise myself as a DFK provider, because too many assume it is just all tongue and no lips or skill. No thanks!

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lungman392 reads

Yep, the inimate feelings, are something i can have a tough time keeping at bay....it's just the kind of person i am.
I'm intelligent and not the whimpy type, but, something about women, that brings me to my knees!! ( yes even a provider )
ps, i did just met a beautiful russian women (nurse at work ) so i MAY persue that and leave the hobby....don't know yet?
Do i want fantasy or the real life stuff.....tough decision, atleast for me. ( since i was flogged so badly in my LONG 30 yr marriage )

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saturnsky447 reads

...the tongue that pokes out as far as it can get and wiggles like a worm on a hook. Or the fleshy tongue that gets pushed into your mouth and it just sits there. I have mastered the art of avoiding both those as there is not enough money to have to deal with that for the hour....sorry guys but really it's disgusting.

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London Rayne352 reads

for guys who can't kiss in the future. They think you're being all domme on them, and in reality you're just avoiding having to kiss them bwahahaha. Brilliant!

Posted By: saturnsky
...the tongue that pokes out as far as it can get and wiggles like a worm on a hook. Or the fleshy tongue that gets pushed into your mouth and it just sits there. I have mastered the art of avoiding both those as there is not enough money to have to deal with that for the hour....sorry guys but really it's disgusting.

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saturnsky364 reads

The thing is women kiss so much better. I have never had a woman just poke her fat tongue out and leave it in my mouth  and nor have I ever had one stick her tongue out and wiggle it around. Women use lips and are gentler, using the tongue to titilate, not suffocate.

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1192967279 reads

...what you are saying is true. You have never had a women do those things when kissing. However in my experience a women ( more than one actually) did "just poke their fat tongue out and leave it in my mouth" and I have had a woman "stick her tongue out and wiggle it around".


I agree with you that using lips, being gentle, using tongue to titillate is much better.

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lungman300 reads

That's funny!!

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FilthyMcNasty435 reads

explain.




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saturnsky321 reads

If you know who I am then tell everyone. Re-read my post if you didn't get it the first time. What is wrong with your reading comprehension?

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FIDCUOF351 reads


I agree.  No tongue is needed!!!  I saw this one girl that stuck her tongue down my throat and I was NOT impressed

Posted By: London Rayne
My issue is more with guys who simply cannot kiss, which makes me not want to do it with them. When I find guys who actually kiss like it's 2012 and not 1970, those are the ones I actually get turned on by whilst doing it. LFK for some is DFK for others. This is why I don't advertise myself as a DFK provider, because too many assume it is just all tongue and no lips or skill. No thanks!

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lungman331 reads

No tongue, wtf??
Not possible to kiss without tongue.
It would be like kissing your grandma.
I though all guys knew how to kiss.
I guess their was some good, that came out of growing up in the ghetto. ( all we did was kiss, suck and fuck )

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saturnsky358 reads

People appreciate different forms of actual art and I am guessing that the same goes for types of kissing. There is no wrong way to kiss. Each of us has a way we like to kiss and be kissed. If two people get together and it does not jibe, it is merely a case of two kissing styles that are miss-matched.

The key is to be lucky enough to be with someone who has the style you enjoy and vice versa. In civvie life if a person does not kiss the way I like, I don't even bother to sleep with them. It's the kiss that is the biggest turn on or in that case, turn off.

Pay 4 play is a different animal...we have to make do as best we can. Sometimes it works out for the best and other times it's a disaster. How one deals with it is key. No-one wants to deliberately hurt someone's feelings but nor is it necessary to put up with something that is vomit inducing. As professionals we have ways to deal with that scenario always with the clients feelings as a consideration.

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Christian124410 reads

Agreed. Sometimes LFK is much more intimate and sensual than DFK. There are women I've met who just open their mouths and all you get is tongue and there is nothing behind it and others who mix it up with sensual LFK and then some DFK when it starts getting passionate. There is a time and situation for both.

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lungman344 reads

Wow, never thought i'd hear someone say they don't care for DFK.
IMHO, it's as erotic as fucking.
I am into "sucking" every inch of a women. The more parts of her bod i'm in touch with, the better!!

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lungman352 reads

Passionate kissing, can cause an attachment, due to the intimacy.
Hell, i fall in love with every lady i see, but, not gonna give up the best part. ( passionate kissing )
Thought about it, but, it ain't gonna happen. Feels GOOD to be in LOVE for a few days!! ( unreal or not, it still feels good )
Tiz what happens to a guy that spent 30 yrs in a loveless marrriage, we become like sponges!!
No it's not true LOVE, but at my age, it's good enough for me.

ps, ok, flame on!!

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