What is the best and most discrete way of sending either a cancellation fee or expense reimbursement to a provider?

You buy the card anonymously, and send her the code number on the card, and that's all there is to it.

It is really the cost of the hotel. I had scheduled an in-call in Las Vegas and the provider, who normally does only outcalls, rented a non refundable room to accommodate me. I wanted the cancellation fee info if in another instance, I with less than 24 hours notice.

account , then she can use them for advertisements. If she would want that that is. I know i run featured ads and top ten placements there for 100 a month quite often. Then the cool animaTED GIF IS 25 BUCKS WHICH I ALSO UPGRADE TOO. then VERIFIED PHOTO BADGE IS 50.

After months of setting up, cancelling, and rescheduling, he finally admitted he was too nervous and cancelled about an hour before our date.  He offered to pay a cancellation fee (I didn't have one but appreciated the gesture) so I asked him to email me an eGift card from Whole Foods.  Super easy.

Could dream of being nervous around YOU?

not that I blame him of course. lol

GiftRocket is great. it's super discreet, and the lady can use it however she wishes.  Just another option.

If you read USG's review of her, it looks like he did a lot more sucking than just "sucking up."

I'm glad you liked the eGift card too.

A few months ago I had one cancel on me, last min.... then she has the nerve to keep calling insisting I pay a cancelation fee.

presumably it involves swiping a credit card at the store.  Has anyone tried it?

Could this be done with a gift card thus assuring anonymity?

and charge her a cancellation fee.

You'll be even!

(She's a bit unclear on the concept, as they say.)

I have used moneypaks in the past and it has been really convenient. Unfortunately it seems like they made the change to do away with the anonymity part.

That was as good a 3 night stand as I've ever had in my life. I'll suck up to lovely Lila as often as possible.

FWIW According to BBB Gift Rocket is not approved. Google "review of Gift Rocket" and you will see it has problems.

That would not be nice and I reelly like her. I am sad becase I do want her to call me like she has been. She just does not understood that I want to meet and hang out, not just gave her the money for nothing.

I don't think I saw this mentioned above, if this is a repeat....sorry!

Now go stand in the corner with quadsy.

I didn't realize that you were the Grammar Police. Of course your correction was 100% accurate, but totally useless.

Two consecutive replies that say almost exactly the same thing.  Now that is the definition of useless.