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If you know a person who you care about who has been traumatized, the linked video (six minutes long) has some good, helpful information, which comes straight from a woman who was herself traumatized and is a survivor.  Sometimes, well-meaning loved ones do things that are not helpful to the trauma survivor.    

Yes, trauma happens to sex workers and their clients, and to the loved ones of sex workers and clients, just as it does to every other demographic.  

Alicia is very right when she mentions how people with PTSD often respond well to others who they know have also themselves been traumatized.  This is certainly true with vets, who can benefit from peer group meetings overseen by qualified, state-licensed therapists

I cannot begin to imagine what that hell was like for those women, and CHILDREN. I hope what they run to is not more abuse, help us all.

The whole families will need therapy...  It will be a long process.  A shame that it can not be at the abuser's expense.

It's outrageous that this guy got a pass on beating his wife. She suffered abuse for many years. Our sometimes feckless "justice" system allows people get away with too much for too long until they eventually commit the ultimate crime.  

From the New York Observer: "Given that he had been beating the hell out of his wife with full legal impunity, despite her repeated visits to cops and hospitals, for 10 years before his first abduction, why on earth would Mr. Castro have doubted he could get away with caging and beating some other judicially invisible poor females?"

Reading about this side of the story, I was shocked to learn that domestic violence is the No. 1 cause of women’s emergency room visits. Most cases are not reported to the police.

Does not the sad story in Cleveland point out how violence against women is a serious problem -- a plague -- that needs much more attention

Wow...just pathetic. Yes, our justice system tells victims they pretty much have to wait to be in a coffin before anything can be done. "Get a restraining order." Yea, that helps...they just end up getting more pissed off and the children are victims too.

I remember going to vigils when I was 15 for them and wondering how the families could cope and if and how the girls could survive. I'm very excited they are safe now.... Very happy about it.

One of the worst CD's I ever picked up if anyone has ever had a bad choice in buying a movie it was
titled Girl Next Door with a picture of a girls face on the cover looking kinda wild. Without reading the preview o the jacket I bought it thinking it was a GFE movie.Not the case. This movie is sick and shows a girl held hostage by her aunt who has neighborhood boys come rape her , she is treated the exact same way tied up and having to sleep on bed coils she dies in the end . I couldn't sit through the whole movie without fast forwarding it hoping for a somewhat decent ending . What puzzled me is who would produce something like this and for what reason? Flicks like this one are sometimes what triggers a sick person to do the same.

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