1.Get a prepaid hobby phone.
2.If your like me sometimes you have 3 or 4 windows open while cross checking eros and TER etc.. Make sure you close all the windows before leaving your computer.
3.After every surfing mission delete your history,delete cookies and temp. internet files.
4.Never give out your TER handle.
5.Never leave your business card or give out any information that you would not want your SO to discover.
6.As tempting as it might be don't discuss with friends, never know when that friend is going to be an enemy.
7.Don't use a handle similar to your real world screen name and obviously don't use a handle sinilar to your own name. (Sounds stupid I have seen it)
8.Don't discuss on the board where you work (obvious I know) what you do for a living other than in very general terms, what kind of car you drive or the city you live in. Each point may not be significant but over the course of a year you could put together a nice package of clues. ie. Jim who drives a BMW, salesman for electronics and lives in Newton. Narrows the search quite a bit wouldn't you say?
9. Be clean and respectful to the ladies. ie. no nose hair down to your chin, less ear wax than you can find at the candle shop, use baby wipes for those critical areas and last but not least
10. Buy some new glasses. I'm so tired of reading 80% of the reviews that rate the ladies as a 9 or 10. It's based on the real world where you might see a 10 (once in a lifetime) twice a week LOL. Model material you might see once a day etc. Just because you like a BBW doesn't mean she's model material and conversely there is probably no need to rate a lady less than a 5. We'll get the picture,no need to humiliate anyone especially now that Fuzzy has gone soft on us and won't allow you so say fat chick.LOL

nice list, good tips...

The only one I don't quite understand is >> 4.Never give out your TER handle.   ... could you elaborate on this?   thanks

My reasoning is that I call abc escorts, give them my name, work phone #, home address, etc. I make an appointment and write a review subsequently. Now that company knows who I am on this board and in real life and can potentially cause problems down the road. I've already given the information they required, no need to give any more. Just my .01. If you check my reviews you can see that I don't use this to slam any providers in fact if I have an unsatisfactory date I will usually chaulk it up to experience even though I know I should write a review whether good or bad. Two more tips while I'm at it:
1.But Thera Breath mouth wash, works like a charm. Go to their website to find out why.
2.For us older gentlemen invest in whitening strips for your teeth, they work great. This is an update to a thread about "yellow teeth a few threads below this one.
Feel free to contribute other tips to help out the team.

But I think #4 is a big problem with this crowd.  They can't resist the White List.  I will pray for them.

Don't pray for them, pray for a hot Brazilian girl to visit Boston soon.LOL

you exit your browser. In way, you don't have to clear your history manually every time you log off.

Really, what are people thinking when they get an e-mail address like [email protected]?

the govt/your ISP is tracking the IP addresses of every site you visit, as was on the news the other day.  So the only truly safe way to surf is from a stolen government laptop on a open wireless network.  Then burn your hard drive after each session. (giggle)

I think your privacy depends upon the level you play at to a certain extent. The reason you go to a professional (as opposed to a ghetto girl)is that a professional considers it part of her "job" to protect your privacy.

The tips about posting private info are certainly wise.  But I don't think there is too much cause for concern.  Probably if you go back over my posts you could put all kinds of stuff together about me.  I live in San Diego.  I drive a Mercedez and I'm a girl who used to be a boy!

Giggle,
TS Jamie
PS - Who you callin "fat chick?"  

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I seriously agree with you on #1 to #9.   These are all good points.

But #10 I have a problem with.  You are basically saying that a larger women cannot be beautiful.  Well I have seen some larger women who were much more beautiful than the skinny little women who some men seem to hold up to high esteem.

So what you are saying is that a larger woman cannot possibly be a beautiful woman, and rate a 9 or 10?

Well sir, you are wrong.

I didn't say a big woman can't be beautiful. I've seen my share of "overweight providers" that I found very attractive/beautiful but that doesn't fit into the generally accepted definition of Model/one in a lifetime. Simply state in your review she has a little/alot of extra poundage but carried it well or you personally find that attractive.

See there is the problem.  Generally accepted by whom?  

To me there are some larger women who are truely "once in a lifetime" type women.  There are also larger women who to me are model material.  Some (like youself) in society look at larger women as one who cannot possibly be a model, or a "once in a lifetime opportunity", while I (and others it seems) think that the ratio of weight to height does not determine her beauty.

There are certainly those who see a 97 pound woman who is 5' 6" tall and think she is "just right", but I look at someone like that and think "eat something before you faint".

This is exactly like blonds versus brunettes, and red-heads.  Everybody has different preferences, and holds up to a higher level different women.

That is why the "looks" scale plainly sucks because I have seen women rated as a 9 by many, and plainly was not impressed by their looks.