considering so many of those guys already getting this "service" for free, I don't know how many would be willing to pay for it. Not to mention I am sure the guys who are most interested in this, do it instead of making the appointment rather than doing it as part of the appointment, as I am sure you are already quite painfully aware.

As for me personally? NO, I have zero desire to pay a woman to flirt with me on line, so the amount I would be willing to pay for such a service would also be zero. My idea of a "build up" would be a thirty minute drive to see the woman I just booked 45 minutes ago. I rarely book any further than one day in advance and I am one of those guys who buys the steak, not the sizzle. I do concede however that it's not me that you would be marketing to, but you did mention single, and I am quite single TYVM. lol

I notice that a lot of single guys very much enjoy the pre-date build up.  Ex: telephone calls, sexy texts, sexy emails, etc.

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and the same reason I think you might have trouble monetizing it.

Why a guy would waste a hookers time, simply to cancel at the last minute is beyond me. If he wants jerk off material, the web is full of it for free, and without wasting the time of some woman trying to make a living.

Yes, I understand your predicament, but other than being a "mercenary bitch" that jealously guards her time, I really don't see any way to completely do away with this.

Just out of curiosity, do you really find that single guys do this more often than married guys? At least married guys have an excuse for being time wasting losers, single guys have no excuse for not being able to find someone else to keep them company without bothering hookers to "flirt with them"

If I were interacting with you on a somewhat regular basis, I might expect it.

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bbbj when you posted this? I'm guessing "yes" and an orgasm got in the way of a coherent post. Of course, this only made sense prior to your edit! lol

To me, part of the thrill is trying to get the other person to like you without money.  If I know the girl is flirting back because of money, it's just not fun at all.  I don't flirt with providers prior to the meeting because I think it wastes her time and it's not fair.  I also don't want to have too much emotional attachment to the providers since I do have a family and I don't want get attached just so I can break up after.  Too emotional also creates stalkers.  I don't suggest these services.  Hard to get paid and for safety reason.

I guess those 1-900 sex lines are still around in some fashion.  That's all you're trying to sell here.

And yes single guys want to communicate more than married guys.  Not that ALL single men want it (some never care to speak with me before or after the session for that matter) but most married men are trying to be discreet.  Single guys don't have to be

..they want it for free.

I agree with russbbj's post.

One of the more flirty emailers I had NSNC'd on me. Go figure.

at "http://fakegirlfriend.co" (no "m" at end of addy.). It's just a texting service, I think.

I can just imagine the reviews, "I would have rated her higher but I paid for spank mail and I waited the whole day the Tuesday before our appointment and nothing!"

...along with other various non face-to-face services.  The only one that was worth it was phone sex, and adjuncts that went along with that because people were paying a set rate per minute, or a set rate per other service.  None of those services were in real-time, so there was no expectation of an immediate response.

I allow for texts or calls on my private cell after I have met with a guy, single or married. Some take me up on it some chose not to. It's an easier way for them to rebook as well, why be so formal with email if you've already seen my birthmark and I've tasted your cum? Lol! Only had one overly excited client make me question what I am doing, but better communication equals better sex. ALWAYS!!!

I'd flirt with you anytime  Jstgttnstrtd...ooohhh am I doing it now?  
To answer, I don't find it that intrusive once I have a connection with a guy, but if we haven't met yet, all I've determined is that you are "safe" as far as checking let's me know. Keep it to a minimum I suggest. Flirting after someone has made your head do the exorcism dance is way more fun and natural. Anything before feels contrived a tad...unless your initial correspondence was ridiculous good.  

I stay in contact with favorites, but I am beyond the stage, I guess, where I need to stay in constant contact.  Then again...  

a little woody every time you post - now I'm also going to have these sexy little daydreams whenever I hear someone mention horseback-riding or even Netflix!  Sometimes having a good imagination can really be a drag - but I guess there are worse things I could have rolling through my mind as I lay my head down and turn off my light than you riding through the mountains, looking vivacious and sexy as ever, holdin' on tight, mesmerizing with each bounce (here is where the slow motion replay really comes in handy)... Oh fuck, maybe if I turn off my light now, it will ALL come together in some strange lovely dream... I can see it... you in yoga pants doing your thing, as a Polka band serenades you (hey, you didn't say what KIND of live music, and it IS my dream...)... ahhhh...

Like so much other, we overthink everything! The bottom line is very simple what ever works, we are just adults seeking what has been around since the beginning of time and relationships. These things always find a way to work or not!

although I couldn't tell you how many takers she got. Your takers would most likely be your longtime (lonely) regulars rather than new clients. Give it a shot, I see no downside to posting it as a supplementary offering.

How are you going to get paid?   I think you need to maintain some distance...  a little mystery...   You can not be available to say text instantly without destroying your business.  Unless you want to change your business model to include phone sex or chat on a paid line??    

My ATF doesn't mind the occasional call or text out of the blue to see how she's doing or vent about something.  I probably do it once or twice a month, and it usually revolves around something like a holiday greeting, happy birthday, or happy "anniversary" LOL

Wouldn't pay for that...My regulars usually send me a pic or text now and then to stay in touch and it's nice, don't think I would want a steady diet of it....

Yep! (eom)

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I usually exchange a few emails just to be certain my information is current re. date, time of appointment, length of appointment, etc.

I can't deny. I was turned on!
She had this thing where she would call your work. Prentending to be someone related to your job...figure out a way to come over.. Fuck you in your office!  
Or wherever she was a master of disguise!
You. My friend are a exibonist. Good for you!!
Welcome.

If I were looking for that? I want flattery to the max! And for everyone to know who I have to daunt on me. To some people it's flattery. I call it embarrassing.  
My definition of being a man is different... Keep your secrets yours.
We are better than flattery.

That sounds like fun!  Way too risky but fun nevertheless!

No offense, I'm new enough that I've never said that before.

If a guy keep talking sexual on the phone it is pretty clear that he just want to j..e..r..k off for free.
He is not going to pay you a donation after he is done c..u..m..i..n...g. So don't bother to ask for paid flirting.  
Just send him on niteflirt for paid phone sex sessions then hang up the phone.

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