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Great observation.
Babylongirls See Agency Profile 754 reads
posted
1 / 17

I’ve noticed people fall into two camps.

Some prefer familiarity. Seeing someone you already know, where the ice is already broken, the awkward first minutes are gone, and you can relax faster. There’s something underrated about comfort and knowing what to expect.

Others chase novelty. New energy, new chemistry, the excitement of not knowing how it’ll unfold. That first-time tension can be half the thrill.

Both have their appeal. Familiarity feels smoother. Novelty feels sharper. One is comfort food. The other is trying something completely new off the menu.

I’m curious where most people stand.

Do you lean toward seeing someone again because you know it works… or do you prefer the unpredictability of something new?

QueenBia See my TER Reviews 52 reads
posted
2 / 17

I always inquire when sharing time with a new friend and it does go two ways either they love to connect and hopefully repeat, or just the opposite it's a one and done. Everyone has their reasons. I don't mind either way. I cater to all regardless.  

I actually can relate to both sides because I adore the thrill of meeting someone for the first time it's the butterflies 🦋 for me. I get so anxious before we meet. It reminds me of a rollercoaster 🎢 ride. For me personally, I love it! 🥰

My friends who have supported me for years are the best. Seeing and sharing time with someone you truly love and enjoy is one of the greatest joys in life. I am blessed to have real lovers & friends! My attitude is gratitude.  

This is the best job in the World. Thank you to all the kind souls who make this hobby life better. TER is so much fun. I love TER!

mrfisher 115 Reviews 52 reads
posted
3 / 17

I like to build on a good start by developing a relationship with a gal that I am impressed with on the first date.

 
I will also seek out a new gal now and then because in life, stuff happens, and gals drop away for one reason or another.

 
I find this a good mix.

Laspho 56 reads
posted
4 / 17

. I’m very particular in what I like. So when I find someone who does what I like and looks how I like. I stick with her.

inicky46 61 Reviews 55 reads
posted
5 / 17

I love meeting new women. But it's also great to have a roster of great gals with whom to repeat.
Just not too often! LOL!!!

hehitshewins 49 reads
posted
6 / 17

Me personally, I prefer not being a repeat client with an escort. As much as I love a familiar connection that comes with a girlfriend, I don’t want an escort to feel the same comforts I give to a longterm relationship. The more comfortable a girlfriend becomes, the more she tends to want. A good girlfriend though also gives a lot. But IMO an escort is not capable of giving me what a real girlfriend gives, and I have found some when they get more comfortable just want to take more.

 
This doesn’t mean no repeating ever. A small number of repeats or ones spaced out enough can keep it at arms length. Nothing wrong with seeing a great provider again. But I like it to still feel somewhat fresh.

Hpygolky 232 Reviews 44 reads
posted
7 / 17

I like the adrenaline rush I get when meeting someone new. I’ll even take to a level where the girl isn’t reviewed. Doing the TOFTT.
Now I rarely see someone more then twice  
Old age creeping up on my ass so I got to see what’s out there🤷🏻‍♂️

Readytorock1 43 Reviews 57 reads
posted
8 / 17

This attitude going into this is paritally why you have ed.

hehitshewins 58 reads
posted
9 / 17

It’s become abundantly clear you have a brain the size of a pea. You can only think of one insult and you use it to troll me over and over again. If you could manage to stop trolling for a minute and just be the guy with a different opinion you claim to be, you would be much more welcome on these boards. But you do you and be an albatross.

Readytorock1 43 Reviews 59 reads
posted
10 / 17

Dont let the truth bother you so much.  

And work on getting the brain rewired so no more ed.

Readytorock1 43 Reviews 57 reads
posted
11 / 17

That was legit the best advice you have or will ever receive on this forum.

But you chose to take it a whole different direction. I think that says more about you....

hehitshewins 50 reads
posted
12 / 17

I understand it may seem that way in your tiny pea brain. Now make yourself useful and go find an escort who’s ran out of toilet paper and can use your ass cleaning skills.

FlaNoName 52 reads
posted
13 / 17

Good One!!!
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HaHaHaHaHa

Readytorock1 43 Reviews 56 reads
posted
14 / 17

Look man. I dont know what to tell ya. You once outlined classic porn enduced ed symptoms and i let ya know you had a form of ed. Its not rocket science.  

Why you choose to stay so butthurt is beyond me.

bofia 26 Reviews 37 reads
posted
15 / 17

Over my 15 years doing this I've seen quite a few providers at least ten times, a handful more than 20 and a few more than 40. One easily eclipsed 150 sessions.

Time, money and providers retiring are often the limiting factors, not seeking someone new.
I know what I like.

I tried the "novelty" of a different provider every week, but I almost always gravitated back to my regulars.

hehitshewins 50 reads
posted
16 / 17

Let’s not be confused. Butthurt is what you are after a session with your favorite provider.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 42 reads
posted
17 / 17

two years ago, which was actually a revisit from 4 years ago.  However, I used terms most mongers can identify with.  For me, novelty is a provider on the homely side wearing a clown nose to hide her face.  Lol

 
Is there anything NEW you would like to bring up?  Lol

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