I just saw a girl I'd seen a few years back.  She's now only seeing clients she knows (ie. she's not on any sites).  She's my total ATF.  After my hour with her we went to the local climbing gym for an hour and then went to a 24hr spa (we paid separately but drove in her car.)  We didn't get home until 2 am.  What does this mean ? I'm confused.

Although there are a lot of jaded hookers and brokenhearted johns who cry out that it's all business and after getting your ashes hauled no one (except them because they're special, doncha know) ought to relate to each other as another human being.

And consider yourself lucky! Sounds like you enjoyed some OTC time for only a hour donation! Most definitely the exception rather then the rule.

I'll repeat my theory: this little world works backwards from civvy dating, where you get to know someone and then you fuck.  Here we get the fucking out of the way first and sometimes, if there's a connection, OTC socializing takes place.  I've done it lots of times.  Just don't make more of it than friendship and don't get romantically involved.  That rarely works.

Sounds like you've got one. (Why try to read too much into it?)

Nice!

First, congratulations; when one of these girls (assuming she is a good one and not a gold digger), seeks your companionship after business, means you've treated them with respect.    While allot of guys on here will disagree with me, they (girls) truly appreciate not being treated like an object.

..never saw Seinfeld. Haven't owned a TV since 1988. Last thing I remember seeing was Kirk Gibson's HR.

Thanks everybody !  Good to know.  And no, we did not have another round at the end of the night.

which is why she is your ATF and why you keep coming back.  She has you hooked

What happened with you occurs every now and then, and you probably shouldn't read anything into it.  Since you're seeing her on an ongoing basis (right?), she probably just wanted some company rather than going out alone, and you were at the right place at the right time.   Fortuitous is how you should interpret it.  

She could of have genuinely wanted to spend time with him Off TC.

If I spend OTC with a john it is because I like his company. It does not mean I want to date him, or I want to give the sex for free, it simply means his company is fine and that the reason I am doing OTC is a marketing reason, in other words I want to keep him as a client because the BCD is easy.  

to treat a client.

On our first date while in Vegas after all the fun and play time was over this special woman wanted to go gambling with me so off we went. Long story short, we didn't end our evening till 7am. We gambled, crashed a party and just hung out. No intention was made for anything other to enjoy our company. So did she hook me? Hell yeah...It's now to a point that whenever I'm in Vegas she's the first person I want to see and yes we've had one other night similar to the first. But NOTHING will ever beat that first night. But I know what it is so I have no expectations other to see her again and again...and let the chips fall where they may. And I would hope that she knows that she's always invited for some more craziness

I'm really just trying to figure out if she really does want to spend time OTC on a regular basis and how do I approach that if I'm up for it to.  She even mentioned meeting somewhere down in Mexico when we both might be there at the same time. . . .  

There are a couple of layers here but its not complicated.

Makes sense business wise.  It is also smart for both parties.  If you are comfortable off of the clock then the on the clock experience will be excellent and more frequent.   This can work for the divorcee or single guy who might enjoy the of the clock. For a married guy, this could be a problem unless you are far away from home.

Proper advice.  Good to have a few female friend hobbyist.  Sometimes they can give you some insight on women that can help your civilian relationship.