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Great article on cuddling!!
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Found this piece while doing some idle browsing. Amazing!! Just another "Men from Mars" "Women from Venus" aspect on the differences between the two sexes. This article deals with the different "after-sex" hormones released and why women crave cuddling. It's not purely emotional but biological as well---fascinating!!

http://lovendar.com/articles/Why-Women-Love-Cuddling

I find quite a few gals who don't. Perhaps they see it as too intimate, and so shy away from it.  
At least I know some cuddle bugs, so I'm glad for that.

Cuddling happens much less often in paid encounters than RL encounters. Even providers I have had as outside GF's will cuddle more when not getting paid.

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I love cuddles too - but when I'm sleeping I need
my space. I just can't get properly comfortable with someone's arms around me. Am I alone with that need?  Cuddles and super light stroking of my arms...the type that is usually far too ticklish for most...LOVE 💜❤💚!

Posted By: mrfisher
Re: I love to cuddle and yet...
I find quite a few gals who don't. Perhaps they see it as too intimate, and so shy away from it.  
 At least I know some cuddle bugs, so I'm glad for that.

One anecdote doesn't "shoot a theory to shit" Lopaw.

 
I would however love to see data about lesbians wanting to cuddle or not after sex.

It was said rather tongue in cheek.  

AFA lesbian cuddling..... haven't you ever heard of "lesbian bed death"?  Apparently we don't have sex after awhile and just become "buddies", if you believe that old stereotype. Then I'd guess cuddling would be all that's left ;)

Ah, I guess I missed that.

 
I can see how Lesbian Bed Death could be a thing if you're not conscious of it. I don't think that's exclusive to lesbian couples, but probably more just couples that don't have one or both of them regularly initiating sex.

I like cuddling ..and even rubbing feet "..its like saying I like you...thank you..for the nice experience... Xo

I'm just happy to be spending quality time with my gentlemen's Suitor friends. If that's where it takes us I am not opposed. It's a very interesting article though and I see what they're saying

So my partner and I release different hormones during sex. Duh. Different hormones is why she's a woman and I'm a man. I still like to cuddle. Why would I want to get up and get a snack and a beer when there's a woman in the bed who just fucked me?? :-)

... cuddling, foreplay, and anything that increases the probability of connecting on a more meaningful level.

men love to give cuddling, and women love to receive it. Men like to be the rock, and the protector who shelters the softer, more fragile creature from the storm (it makes him feel like a man inside), and women like to feel safe and warm in the arms of their lovers (especially if it's raining/snowing outside, that's why they call it babymaking weather) while she nurtures him with her love in return. It is during this moment of physical intimacy that Oxytocin is released into her brain and solidifies their pair bonding, and no straight guy in his his right mind is going to want to interrupt that moment to go grab a beer and a sandwich from the kitchen, so this whole business about prolactin causing men to deviate from cuddling is just a whole heap of nonsense based on a negative male stereotype. For this reason, and as a gentleman myself, whenever I order GFE, I always tell the girl that I want to make the hour stretch by splitting it up in 3s. 20 mins foreplay, 20 mins sex, and 20 mins cuddling. But the thing of it is that many providers aren't really too keen on offering cuddling as a service. Many of them will flat out refuse. Perhaps they save it for their civvie boyfriends because they feel it may be too intimate for a business arrangement, and they don't want to confuse the client's feelings as well as their own. As for the article itself, I think it was too oversimplified and poorly written, and it's a propaganda tool that serves to perpetuate the above mentioned stereotype (it was probably written by a feminist). It's a lot of damn garbage being published on the internet these days. Be careful about the kind of misinformation you're helping to spread to the unsuspecting masses.

Too add to my previous comment, the Oxytocin that gets released into one's brain during pair bonding is also responsible for stress relief, a boost in one's immune system and overall mood improvement. Think of all the wars that could've been prevented if world leaders were cuddling (no, not with each other) more often. It also helps with focus, concentration and virility. With that said, any member of either gender could use just a bit more cuddling in their lives more often.

An entire world of men and women snuggled in each others arms...ahhh, let the Oxytocin flow...let there be peace throughout mankind...the sheer DIVINITY of it, I tell you!! Language would no longer be necessary...just sighs..(and perhaps an occasional grunt or two when shifting positions.)

Don't think you've got the market cornered on smartass!!

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