Should you "expect" it? Absolutely not. Most ladies aren't going to change their boundaries just because   the session is of longer duration.

It could evolve naturally, but to expect anything more than advertised will happen is setting yourself up for a bad vacation!

"BBBJ or more"

I really hope that you're not hoping she'll provide unprotected full sex just because you're spending more time together.

If you have specific hopes for your vacation then discuss them with her.  But do not expect her to change her behaviour or alter her limits because you're going on vacation.  For you it's a vacation, for her it's still work.

Go to Plan C: save your money.  It won't work.  Her boundries aren't going to change.  

Spend it on a lady who does do BBBJ's.

as one who has done many an extended overnight, sometimes for as much as a week, if you are harboring thoughts of a wild non-stop sex orgy allow me to disabuse you of that notion.

While it may seem natural to expect that this will be just an extention of the regular 60 to 120 minute session, instead you will find that the sex to other time ratio will be markedly different.  Be glad, also that this is so.  Ever hear of too much of a good thing?

You will instead spend time doing what you both enjoy, i.e. touring, shopping, going to shows, going to dinner and preparing (shower, makeup, shaving,dressing, etc.) for all these activities.  You will also find that life for your date goes on and she will need to be on the net and/or cell phone for long periods of the day.  Be sure to bring along a book, seriously.

In short, this is a totally different experience than the short wham-bam TYM type of date.
Not bad, mind you, just different.  I enjoy them and will continue to engage in them.

As for levels of service, that is irrelevant to the length of time you spend with her.  If you want that, then find a provider who has higher levels.  Just make sure your will is made out and that your insurance premium is paid.

-- Modified on 9/23/2006 5:44:27 AM

Well, I guess I got lucky.  I took my atf to Hawaii and she let me have greek, outdoor sex, hot tub sex, dinner sex and we started using all kinds of toys.  We were in the room so long that the hotel assumed we were honeymooning and sent up a fruit basket!  Treat her well, buy her gifts, romance her and maybe you'll get lucky too!

Don't expect it! Ask her if she is

willing to bbj? Don't pressure her to do BBFS(it is not safe for you or her, so don't be stupid). I have traveled with many of my client/friends and before I agree to a trip(first time with a client I have already seen a few times)I tell them what to expect and what my limits are for example: how many hours sleep I need, warn them that I sometimes snore lightly after a few cocktails LOL, how long it actually takes me to get ready, what kind of "story" should I have ready if people ask if we are married, that I need at least 1 hour of the trip on the net to check emails etc. One of the BEST times I ever had traveling was with a client/friend. We were just like any other couple but I got paid and covered activites where part of our private time. Just be honest with her and tell her what you want, she may compromise with you on a few things. If you really want BBFS take an ex-girl friend that has a recent HIV test to show you and I would still advise you NOT to do BBFS. Hope it works out for you two. Devin Taylor

It's likely that you two have a level of comfort or one or the other would have put an "iksnay" on the whole matter. Given that all is safe and other then getting it with a bit more frequency, as in no clock, I would not ask for expect any favors. It's a sure ticket to a ruined trip.

-- Modified on 9/24/2006 6:07:58 AM

Why did you ask this Particular lady?  I gather it is because you enjoy her company, and as such, all that comes with her company (as in, her rules).  Otherwise, you would have selected some other lady who does offer "BBBJ or more."  Hopefully you can understand, that ladies put limits for reasons clear to them- and that is all you need to know.  The result of their limits is a more comfortable relationship with you, if you force the removal of a limit, then you force the lady into an area in which she is uncomfortable, and she will "act differently" towards you.... in short, the very personality that attracted you, will change.

Will that make for more fun? I doubt it.  I suspect that by asking this question, you already have "advanced expectations" - I would offer that you should try an overnight prior to an extended trip to see how that goes...  

Right now, it is difficult for me to do an overnight even...  I as suggested above have traveled to see ladies in other cities... but it is difficult for me to do an overnight... just is!  but before I would take an extended vacation  (few days or few weeks) I would REALLY need a level of comfort for me, but just as important, from her!