In the past year I have to say the various websites that show local or touring talent has convinced me that the quality of providers (meaning looks and services provided) has not improved or even been maintained in the Covid era.  Both have decreased.  And now I am seeing more and more providers insisting on deposits if you want to book an appointment.  My view: this shit has got to stop.  I for one won’t agree to that and unless as a group we want to see that trend stop dead in its tracks we all need to hold fast on this issue.  I have some great ladies that are gorgeous and provide headspinning services.  It’s always nice to try a new provider but until this deposit craps stops I am sticking with my regular providers.

For your reading pleasure, a link to a recent thread with 133 posts about deposits.  Enjoy . . . .

..as long as it can stay in an escrow account, only to be released to the provider upon successful completion of services, or if the buyer backs out without cause.  Just like EMD during a real estate transaction..

make a dick grow,  . . . .  but saliva will.  Lol

Given the ridiculously long and contentious thread that has recently taken place on this exact subject. While you are free to vent your frustrations here, it seems like you already solved the problem. See providers who don't require deposits. *thumbs up*

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Wink wink, nudge nudge, know what I mean.

Gotta laff outa me!!

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great minds think alike

I don't reach out to providers that request (large) deposits anymore. They probably do not care what I do. Hell, they probably don't even know I exist.  

This post was not for you or about you.. I don't even know if you require deposit or not, and care too little to look at your website.. It was for manginas amongst us who need to grow a pair or three..

There are also plenty of overpriced "providers" on Twitter and elsewhere.  With almost 8 billion people on the planet you can find anything [in terms of service] you want, and even more that you don't want.

My response was not for you or about you. I don't care if the providers you see require deposit or not, and care too little to look at reviews you've written.. It was for the person who posted a discussion topic on the board... and caused a laugh because all I can hear it my head is a bunch of men yelling, "Hold the line!"

At least you can mirror your response after mine.. Good work... !

Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery you know.

Seems like you’re wasting time searching for providers who don’t require deposits in places where required deposits are almost universal (Twitter?). My advice is to stop searching their if it’s going to get you so frustrated.  You can find plenty of providers right here at TER who don’t require deposits, and most reputable agencies don’t require deposits.

I  have NEVER looked for hookers on Twitter, the only time I ever even view a Twitter page is when it's provided to me as a link and just knowing a woman is a Twitter ho makes me much less likely to book with her.

Why the quotation marks in "hobby brothers"?  

personally I refer to myself as a "whore mongering pig" and I do consider fellow whore mongers as my "mongering brothers" but I don't identify as a "hobbyist" which IMHO is politically correct way of trying to make what we do, which is to fuck hookers, sound like something more socially acceptable.

So it's the wording/semantics you don't agree with, rather than sentiment?

Lol that does make me think of Game of Thrones and Jon Snow. Does that make us the white walkers? 🤣

"hobby".  For him, its a career.  Lol

nudge nudge say no more ..... is your wife a goer ?   photographs ....

Unless he is a pimp or a gigolo... or somehow getting kickbacks, how can it be a career?

I had a similar conversation with my accountant many years ago. I spent several hundred grand traveling all through Latin America over a period of time, and at the same time i had a couple of small businesses down there that made next to nothing, I told my accountant "Yes, I am a businessman, but I never claimed to be any good at it" lol

Yeah its down there somewhere. I think it only comes out if the joke is good tho.

Especially since it was CDL's joke, not mine. lol

ice cubes my friend, ice cubes.

First of all, I got to say to the guys on here.....That most Hobbyists are being fucking cheap. The Hobbyists ask for the cheapest rates (Because they say that it's not worth the $$$$). If it was not for the Hobbyists asking to or indicating that he wants to fuck a woman's pussy then the rates wouldn't be so high.  And secondly, We are putting ourselves out on the line.   So, Shut the fuck up.  

Stay away from deposits. Especially from no-name escorts. You'll see a lot of ads go up on escort with these gorgeous women and only a number. No email, no social media, no website, no history, no reviews, nothing. Just a number. Do not do a deposit with them. It's guaranteed it's a scam.

Dude, quit your bitching and see your regulars already.  Deposits aren't going away.

The answer to this back and forth can be found in PB, a while back that solves the problem---a cartoon, of all things)  Young  fella feeling his oats has a hard on, bragging that he has one and  the lil girl, who he is trying to impress, pointing out that she does not,  , ---WAIT FOR IT!  She thinks a minute and THEN pulls up her dress to show him her pussy and says:  "Yeah, but with one of these (pussy), I can get all those (dicks) that I want!" Pussy and Saliva is a winning combination, that is, if you want to make a "deposit" in either of a lady's warm places ;P~~~  Making my "deposits" mostly now in lil waitresses, and store clerks, who are happy to augment their meager incomes, poor things ( S/Os do, at times, complicate their availability ;((  

Paige,
You forgot to ask them if they get exploited for their money, would they like to report the provider to the Better Booty Business Bureau.  That is the only thing that doesn't have you cracking up more.  If they had an entity to where they could go to court, they might be inclined because then they would have recourse.  Now since this is more illegal than legal they don't have any recourse except to use the pen which is mightier than the sword.

Don't discount the pen, in the time sof everyone being online. Many people have fallen victim to the pen, or nowadays I guess you can call it keyboard strokes.

I have to either TELL you I'm CDL, or else see the girls "in your circle" first.  I usually just give my last two indie providers.  Where do I find the "girls in your circle?"   I googled "girls in the circle" and got no hits on providers.  Lol

Deposits are a cancer to the Hobby.

I absolutely love it when I see a misspelled word in a words-of-wisdom tattoo. Anything like “No regerts” or misusing “their” and “your” just makes me want to take a picture and share their misfortune endlessly. Whenever a person gets a Chinese character that they think says something like “strength” but actually says “Kung Pao Chicken” is also a favorite but much harder to identify.

Life is too short.
This forum has practically ZERO influence on rates, deposits, etc. Do the math.
People tell me I gotta take a stand against vegans as if somebody was going to take away my meat. Get a fucking life!

Next time you see a prison tat, your dick will want to join the uprising.

The real women in prison are just like the men, losers in life... who tend not to be the best looking.

Women are all getting tats because most women follow the herd.

are gnot taking a stand?