OK - all you married guys out there - a question:
Would you pursue the hobby if your wife was giving you what you want in terms of intimacy and sex?

No

Seems like you get addicted to hobbying, so no matter how the home life is, I would continue.

I would hobby maybe once every 2 years if my wife was into sex as often I would like...*which was about 1/day and these many years later about 1 time every 2-3 days.  Maybe not at all.  I probably would not post on this board and use TER merely for identifying a good escort.  
However, one thing I have learned on this board is that it is not my wife who doesn't want sex as often as I do but it is almost all wives that have this issue.  I guess I should have read the Kinsey report.

You're getting it a couple of times a week at home?  Here I am considering myself lucky because I got the number up to once every couple of months.

I began in the hobby just because of the fantasy fulfillment--screwing beautiful young womem--which I have wanted since I was a kid.  I am married 42 years and the wife wants more sex and more intimacy with me than I do with her.  She is actually quite attractive with a good figure for her age, but she is 62 after all.

It is my fault, not hers.

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No.

I meant I would like it once every few days.  Unfortunately I am in the same boat as you...about once per month and then not even that high lately.

Hell, once a month? How about once every quarter, at the most. I would even be somewhat satisfied with a hand job every once in a while. I sure with I knew what gets into wives once they have a ring on their finger. Must be that ring sits on the finger that has an on-off switch when it comes to sex. But saying that, I really love the wife and would never want her hurt by finding out about the hobby. But, then again, what would she really be hurt by? It takes all the pressure off of her regarding having sex with me. Makes a guy wonder..................

Except maybe for the boards, of course.

Thanks for sharing this with us, Kornlover.  Maybe being able to see younger women once in a while is a factor actually helping to keep your 42-year marriage (to a now older woman) together.  Total loyalty may not be a trait built into our evolutionary biology. If we really knew the truth behind every Golden Anniversary reception...  Congratulations of achieving 42 years. You're a few years ahead of me.

I've asked myself this question. The primary force is not only lack of quantity but quality. I married later and had a very active sex life before. I find myself with a decent life partner with the glaring exception that she just isn't into sex or sensuality. And I'm not a jamb, bang, slam kind of guy. I believe in satisfying my women... if only she desired it.

Yes. I don't get as much sex as I would like from my wife, but we have a good sex life. There is only one thing she can't do for me, be another woman.