Just like most things in life it does get old after awhile. I'm more into the GFE and I've met some wonderful ladies but in the end the cold hard truth is that if there wasn't the money it certainly wouldn't happen.  So yes you can have some incredible sex with ladies you probably couldn't touch in the civvie world but after awhile you kind of have an empty feeling when it's all said and done. I know several hobbyist that have expressed that. You take time off or see providers less frequently and the edge returns.

Based on what I've seen, it appears to depend

From all the posts I've read, it seems some have come and gone and cum back again.  So obviously, it either got old or they got tired of paying or something else happened to cause them to walk away....and subsequently get back in the game.   I'm sure some have quit never to return.  

I also think I could come up with a rather lengthy list of posters who might actually shrivel up and die if they weren't able to continue hobbying.  Obviously, it doesn't get old for them.  LOL.  But you do read some of these reviews and you can just tell that some guys jones for a sex fix just like someone would for heroin.  

Probably guys on both ends of the spectrum and everywhere in between.  

I lose the feel for it when I hobby "too much." Proly a lot of guys would read that and say, "How the fk can you hobby TOO much?" When one date rolls into the next, when you dont remember which girl told you what story, when you forget the girls name your with or mix it up with the girl from 2 nights ago. etc. yeah, thats happened to me...but no its never boring but it loses its excitement if I dont space out the dates. I find every 2 weeks is just about perfect. I relish the last date for a week and I look forward to the next one for a week. And there are so many mice crawling all over the place, that also keeps it fresh and fun.

As cute as you are London.....

If you ever grow a dick I will suck it for you at no charge.

To be honest I did get board with the screening, the emailing and other associated work that goes into setting up an appointment. After doing this for a while I realized that I liked the connection I had formed with a few of my regular gals and wasn't really getting much satisfaction on the "new girl every week" plan that I had been pursuing. The sex is never boring but the experience is more enjoyable for me when there is a bit of familiarity with the lady.  A new experience or two each year suits me fine.  The rest of the time I stick with my two long-time regulars.

London,
It does.  Let me say that in HS, a priest of all people, said you will get bored sex.
WTF!!! as A HS Male in an all male catholic school I was confounded.
LMAO recalling the sex ed class.. Never believed him one bit.  til not long ago...sex got boring and ....then discovered hobbying.
even in the Hobby  with different ladies.... hot or not, traditional sex got boring, variety or not.
Though strange is a welcome change, The Same old Same old, (slam bam thank you ma'am) was boring.
Now I need to get my rocks like everyone, and perhaps more often, and on a higher plateau.  and Being on the cusp of becoming an old Fuck, lol.....This requires openness to new adventures, exploration, and experimentation, and a willing partner.  This where the Hobby loses its tendency to become boring.
I recently attended a seminar (at a local sex toy shop) on the male orgasm..... hhmmmmm interesting!!!!! learned a few new things about my anotomy.. lmao.  even attended w/ a provider friend, my treat of course, no free bees.  
So a hobbiest needs several provider friends w/ special talents, and a willingness to be open, as does He/She, a F*** wad of Cash, and have at... Now it not boring.

Sometimes I binge and other times I cut back.  Right now I am binge-ing for my birthday in Vegas.  A couple of times I've had two-a-days.  Tomorrow I'm doing doubles with two French Canadian Model Mayhem girls.  I was walking with them through a casino the other day and guys were almost literally walking into walls.  I think I can review one of them but the other's completely UTR at the moment.
After tomorrow I'll probably need to recuperate for a while.  Perhaps I'll go to Cali for a penis transplant.

No, it hasn't gotten old (I know I'm a relative newbie).  I've always been able to get the mouse to take the bait, but got tired of the chase at the bars etc.  I know what I like and what I want.  In my limited experience, I've had nothing but fun and prefer this far more than the chase.  Also, the providers I've seen have been exceptional in that they exude passion and sexuality.  they aren't mechanical and cold.

As far as paying..honestly.. you pay for it one way or another

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Even though the women maybe different, it seems that everyone reads the same escort manual. Most times it feels scripted and regimented, and I get it because of the inherent emotional barriers that need to be set up. But once, just once more in my life would love to have the feeling of both people opening themselves to one another without worrying about performance, acceptance, etc.

wine, musical instruments, and sexy bald men (hint, hint).

But it not getting boring for me, that's for sure.  I see a panoply of women, and I add to it all the time.

I have the inverse (or is it converse, or reverse, whatever) fantasy of as you have.  I think everyone is curious what it is like for the other.

I've only been "hobbying" for 6 months now and it is starting to get old. I'd be willing to bet the experience is different for those who have an SO at home but for me (single) it does get old waking up alone. Don't get me wrong, I've had sex with some of the most beautiful women I've ever met and wouldn't trade those experiences for anything in the world but I've been thinking (quite a bit actually) that this scene is seriously fucking up my view on "normal" women. Haven't even asked out a woman since I've started doing this and when I even consider it I end up comparing them to providers I've seen. Def not fair to civie women since I'm very selective of the ladies I see ( main rule is they must be unobtainable for me in the real world). Have one more date scheduled for this week and then gonna take a break for awhile to get my head right. Do agree with the previous poster that you pay for it one way or another so that aspect doesn't bother me at all, so long as its between two consenting adults. Pimped girls, druggies, women who work for agencies and are foreign, are all examples of what I consider non-consenting adults. I've read too many stories about sex trafficking and what not to support those types and a girl on drugs is at the mercy of her addiction. Just my opinion.

Been hobbying off and on for 15 years and it has yet to get old. I have gone through stages where I go long periods without seeing anyone though. It was more because of changes in my personal life than being sick of the hobby. I've been much more active the past few years and not even close to getting bored.

I tend to 'binge hobby' a few times a year. At the end of a binge, 3-4 girls in a week, I am bored.
After 2-3 months I am excited to meet some new girls again.
If I hobbied a few times a month, I'd get bored. I think if I were single, I'd hobby only on rare occasion, because I would enjoy LR's proverbial challenge to get a mouse much more than paid for mice.

That's why it's the oldest profession.  

It never gets old if you see the right people, unfortunately, you don't always connect with the right person on every 'date', so it can seem to get old.  

I've gone through spells where I've seen several highly reviewed ladies in short period of time, yet I was bored out of my mind.  Great sex, but no anticipation, no enthusiasm.  I've also gone through spells where I've seen just as many lovely ladies and been totally enthralled with each one and couldn't get the evening(s) out of my head for a week.  

What's funny is the sexual activity was pretty much about the same, but there was a certain intangible that was a combination of what she brought the table and where I was mentally and emotionally that made all the difference.  When you are going through the motions at $800 per hour, it makes you wonder why you are bothering, but then one day things click and the entire game changes.  

Best date ever was an overnight with no sex (believe it or not).  We never got around to it.  We made up for it later, but that set the stage for several amazing experiences.  I wouldn't necessarily recommend it as a cure for boredom, but since that night I've yet to be bored.

I would have stopped, and saved my $$$.

Swim

The hobby gets old, and I've taken some breaks of up to a year at times. Not sure if it's money or you just don't get the rush like I used to. Usually it's a new lady who is getting great reviews that I come back off the bench to see

Variety is the spice of life, but variety is defined as the quality or state of being different or diverse; the absence of uniformity, sameness, or monotony.  

Variety does not have to mean different partners every week or every month or year. It can simply mean taking it out of the bedroom, doing it in the shower, or in the woods. Don't do the same routine, sometimes a quick fuck in the kitchen is all you need for variety.

I agree there are times when the person you are with can aggravate the shit out of you, but you still want to fuck their brains out. Which is where I agree with you, time apart makes it better.

As for as being a man for the day, if that ever happens, I hope you get your dick sucked and get to slide into a tight, wet pussy like your's.

Boredom is simply complacency, get out with the person you like to spend time with and just do something different. Take a quick 2 day vacation at the beach, you get the sex in a new place, plus most of the time you get to leave all the bullshit behind and can focus on what you like in that person.

MM

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I treasure my ATFs and it helps that I don't get to see them very much because I really do appreciate the rare time with them. Variety can be exciting but it comes with the price of being screened yet again, the occasionally awkward first meetings, and worrying about how visible they are on LE's radar. Meeting someone new today is more challenging than when I started and I'm not particularly fond of jumping through hoops for a new lay.

Can't tell you how it feels to enter a new vagina for the first time since the cover takes pretty much all of the sensation away. I can vaguely recall way back when I first got married, lol. I think it was great but my memory is fading But I do love female globes and take full advantage of them.

While I don't always want sex 24/7 like I used to, there are times after a lot of sex or seeing many ladies that I need to take a break. I always come back to one or the other.  I also get tired of the process and searching. I'm on a break from the hobby now.

I do crave variety though and I think that's what brings some or most of us here. I like meeting new ladies and getting to know them. The beginning of a hobby relationship is almost as exciting as the beginning of a civie relationship. Sometimes it's better because you have sex at every meeting.

Now doing the same thing with the same lady over and over could get old but that is the case if it is in the hobby or not.  Providers are a little more open and easier to suggest new experiences to than most guys find civie ladies to be.  If I got tired of sex with beautiful women that I picked my first step would be my doctor to have my head checked.

As far as your question of how it feels to get your dick sucked and enter a vagina that's an easy answer.  Its fucking awesome.  If it wasn't ladies wouldn't be able to charge for it.  Its probably like chocolate or shoe shopping for a lady.  lol

Every guy remembers the first d*ck suck and first f*ck.  I experienced both on the same date.   The suck felt really good warm wet hot pleasure but when it came time to f*ck, it was like spinning out of control.  It felt like I was being completely ingulfed, the hotness became strong hot tingles, I felt like we melted together and as her pussy muscles contracted, I lost it completely.

For years, I could get sucked forever.   I never came from a blow job until I was well into my thirties but now it is just the opposite.   I can f*ck forever but a good bj will get me off in less than 5 minutes.   Don't know why the change.  It just happened over time.

It's easy to remember London but hard to describe.   HTH.

But I don't really care too much about the chase.

This is about sex, not really a relationship.

On the other hand, once I'm in a relationship, I get out of the hobbying thing.

I am chilling out right now.

I guess I go through phases of hornyness. I mean sometimes I want to fuck fuck fuck.
It's bad. An open toe shoe will get me hard.
Others, I can take it or leave it. I'll walk right past a hot woman checking me out, and not even notice.
So I wouldn't call it bored really. It's my dick telling me what to do again.
Speaking of dick....
What is it with a woman's fascination with trying out our equipment?
You are not the first girl I have heard that from.
A girl I dated for years loved to hold my dick when I took a piss.
She said she liked to aim it?!? That she always wanted a dick for a day so she could pee like me.