And, no, I'm not saying who it was until I hear from her and see what she says. Here's what went down.
1) I'd been on a very hot-looking gal's web site and really liked her pix and reviews. Only 7 reviews but universally raves. Saw she was touring through the area and would be nearby today. In the late morning I contacted her through her web site and via PM on another board. Said I'd like to see her between 2 and 6, and provided all the usual screening info.
2) Just after noon I got a PM back suggesting a 6:00 PM date, telling me the town (but not the hotel) where her incall was. I said that would be fine and asked her to give me the hotel name and her cell # so I could contact her for the room # upon arrival. No response.
3) Now it's 4:30 and I'm about an hour's drive away. I PM her again saying "Getting nervous" and explaining I needed to get confirmation and the info above. No response.
4) At 5:00 I decide to roll the dice and drive toward the town where she was. I send a final e-mail telling her I was on my way and would need a call-back with her info. I included my cell #.
5) At 6:00 I was close but turned off the highway, filled my tank and waited briefly for a call before turning back.
6) Got home and sent her a note saying, "Sorry we didn't connect" and telling her I'd driven nearly all the way to her before the appointed time was reached and I turned back. Asked her to let me know if we should try another time. If I don't hear from her, or get a bad response I may inform folks about her, but maybe not. She does have a good, though minimal, rep and I don't want to get into a pissing contest.
C'est la vie, I guess.
PS: At no time did I mention any sexual act or her donation, which I'd gotten from her site. Never even made a clothing request.
like she got a better deal, and decided to blow you off. Sorry this happened to you Nick.
Swim
Could be,swim! Maybe I'll find out, maybe not. No biggie. It ain't like I got ripped off or B&S'd. I'll surive to fuck another day.
Happen to the best of us..just move on.
I agree
she was busy
I would never have driven w/o the confirmation
Swim
decided, WTF, see what happens, have no expectations. It didn't work out, no biggie. I've moved on.
She could have at least called you.
Also, you should have stayed home.
I probably wouldn't have gone out at the 5pm mark and booked someone else instead.
I agree that theres no point in getting into a pissing match. If she doesn't give you a good reason by today, Might be best to just warn the guys you know, and move on instead of blasting her online. She is either in a big emergency (doubtful) or just being irresponsible. (more likely).
I'd hold of on outing her until theres sufficient evidence. This gives her the benefit of the doubt and prevents you and her from doing something both of you might regret. Plus, Irresponsible girls like that might even put the client on a black list, calling YOU the time waster or a no show, lol
Last time I blasted someone, it was almost always counter productive. However, I felt VERY satisfied and relieved though... ROFLMAOooo
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=14266&boardID=51&page=1#14266
Drama.... 
Yes. I was on that thread. No further comment!
And, as I said, I decided to risk it and not stay home just to find out what would happen. No expectations at all, so no big disappointment when it didn't work out. Lots of fish in the sea. And you are very right about the blacklist possibilities, which is why I didn't just out her. Besides, she might even have a reasonable excuse. I just have yet to hear it.
I guess even though it could be considered she flaked, it was a mistake on your part to start the long drive to her town without her confirmation at 4:30pm. I would not undertake that risk if my text was ignored for two hours......
But I guess, sometimes the little bro gets it all (DFSD: Dissapointment for a standing dick).....It has happened to me too...
I, too, have learned the hard way not to make the drive if communication has stopped.
And I wouldn't have even bothered to get ready if I hadn't gotten a confirmation about an hour or more before. You never know why the communication has stopped but it is not a good idea to assume the appointment is still on when you stop hearing from the other person.
It's very typical for guys on here to always assume the provider's reasons (when they aren't known) were petty, selfish or about money. There was a post here recently and the guy posted about a NCNS before he heard from her. And it turned out she had gotten a migraine, took some pain meds and was asleep. Why is it so hard for guys to give providers the benefit of the doubt? Assumptions are always worst case scenarios.
Normally, I wouldn't make a drive like that if it wasn't confirmed. I had the time and decided to do it as an experiment, with no expectations. So I wasn't really surprised or terribly pissed. But since it had never happened to me before I felt like writing about it.
And we had a gret time...OTC dinner...chatted about TER and some pathetic fellas...
But she is a hottie...don't wait so long next time 
I have booked a flight to Chi-town and am comin' for yore ass! Be afraid! Be very afraid! LOL!
its happened to all of us..i think they get their kicks out of screwing with peoples heads..i could never figure it out..set up a session..she will let you know..call again. no answer..never tells you where..she will not contact you..now i deal with legitimate agencies who give the hotel info beforehand..believe it or not these two women are still on the same site..i just feel sorry for the guy who books these losers..without mentioning their names..one reviewer just got ripped off by one of my no-shows..be careful gentleman..all is not what it seems to be..
Now you've really confused me. You just comment that you
"i just feel sorry for the guy who books these losers..without mentioning their names..one reviewer just got ripped off by one of my no-shows"
And you won't out who this was to help the next jackass to book a gal you KNOW is a rip off?
Seriously...you are a piece of work.
You are a terrific hobbyist...unfortunately you have no clue what this whole site is for 
And you are in Chicago? Scary thought for the gals there...but keep on posting your nonsense. This is a very small world indeed!
Late morning you contact a touring provider, wanting to arrange to see her a few hrs later, between 2 and 6.
Just after noon you get a PM from her suggesting 6PM. But she shares no details other than the city she's in, and does not confirm anything. You ask her for the hotel she's in and her cell#. No response.
At 4:30, you PM her and still get no response.
At 5, after receiving no confirmation from her earlier in the day, or any response to your PM at 4:30, you still decide to drive an hour to go see her?
What is there to get into a pissing match about? What is it that you may inform other folks about? That you tried to schedule last minute with a touring provider. And then choose to “roll the dice” and drive an hr to meet her, even though she had never confirmed the appt in the first place?
I like your posts and I know you're a lady who likes to post here. That's cool. I dig it. I don't know what your scene is and I don't care. All I decided to do was roll the dice. It didn't work out. I'm not all bent out of shape. I'd never had this happen before and knew the risks. Just wanted to see what would happen and I've shared the results (or lack of same). I'm not whining, but it's an interesting and useful subject to explore, that's all. I'll let you know if I find out more. Nothing so far.
How about naming her and posting it on the appropriate regional board?
I may, depending on what I hear back from her. Nothing so far. If that's all I get, you will be hearing from me. I am not interested in harming anyone's rep if she has a reasonable excuse. We shall see...
Please do not get offended by what I have to say. Even though (#2) you got a PM back with a confirmation and a general area, your mistake was assuming that the appointment was finalized. You responded and you requested her specific location and her phone number, and she didn't responded. So, you drove to the general area hoping she will contact you before 6:00, which is your other mistake.
Okay inicky46. I for one would have given up if the provider didn't give me the specific location and her telephone number. Those two pieces of information will confirm that she will follow through her appointment. You've went on a wild goose chase, which no concrete evidence to solidify your appointment.
It is not good to justify your actions and your intentions to inform other people of your failed appointments. Stuff like this happens all the time. However, it was you that lead yourself down, and not her. As mentioned previously, she never gave you her specific address or her phone number, which are two concrete clues to solidify the appointment because you can just call her to confirm it. I don't take these types of chances, I need to know her incall address and her phone number before I even jump in the shower.
1) I'd been on a very hot-looking gal's web site and really liked her pix and reviews. Only 7 reviews but universally raves. Saw she was touring through the area and would be nearby today. In the late morning I contacted her through her web site and via PM on another board. Said I'd like to see her between 2 and 6, and provided all the usual screening info.
2) Just after noon I got a PM back suggesting a 6:00 PM date, telling me the town (but not the hotel) where her incall was. I said that would be fine and asked her to give me the hotel name and her cell # so I could contact her for the room # upon arrival. No response.
3) Now it's 4:30 and I'm about an hour's drive away. I PM her again saying "Getting nervous" and explaining I needed to get confirmation and the info above. No response.
4) At 5:00 I decide to roll the dice and drive toward the town where she was. I send a final e-mail telling her I was on my way and would need a call-back with her info. I included my cell #.
5) At 6:00 I was close but turned off the highway, filled my tank and waited briefly for a call before turning back.
6) Got home and sent her a note saying, "Sorry we didn't connect" and telling her I'd driven nearly all the way to her before the appointed time was reached and I turned back. Asked her to let me know if we should try another time. If I don't hear from her, or get a bad response I may inform folks about her, but maybe not. She does have a good, though minimal, rep and I don't want to get into a pissing contest.
C'est la vie, I guess.
PS: At no time did I mention any sexual act or her donation, which I'd gotten from her site. Never even made a clothing request.
You're right, but here's what you didn't get. I knew it was a risk when I decided to drive there anyway. I did it just to see what would happen, with no real expectations. It was a WTF moment. When it didn't work out I wasn't even that pissed because I knew it was my risk to take. I shared it because I thought it was an interesting story, and it was a first for me. No biggie. Still waiting to hear from her. Not bent out of shape at all. I hope this clarifies things. It was kinda like an experiment.
Said I'd like to see her between two and six, and provided all the usual screening info. 2) Just after noon I got a PM back suggesting a six o'clock PM date, telling me the town (but not the hotel) where her incall was.
Six you say ?
PS: At no time did I mention any sexual act or her donation, which I'd gotten from her site. Never even made a clothing request.
Any wonder why we ALL grow a bit cynical/punchy over time.
I truly empathize; nicky.
Live and learn. My experiences in this game have been almost uniformly positive, so I just thought I'd share this outlier. Party on!
PS: MP67Lurker.com gave me shit about it via PM. What a fucking punk! I just hate that dood! LMAO!
There is no reason to resort to name calling about someone you don't even know. There could be any number of legitimate reasons why she wasn't able to keep the appointment.
I had a guy tonight, after I had screened him, after I had confirmed, after I had gotten ready just stop communicating with me. I have no idea why. Maybe it was something really legitimate. Who knows... but I'm not going to run around and throw up insults all over this board about him when I don't even know what happened.
Is every guy who is a NCNS a d*ck-b*tch a**hole?
It's easy to be mean. No challenge at all.
and that's if your "challenged" in any way".
There is NO Excuse.
She is an unprofessional, inconsiderate..... TWAT!!!!
Maybe someone warned her about you. It happens sometimes.
1) I'd been on a very hot-looking gal's web site and really liked her pix and reviews. Only 7 reviews but universally raves. Saw she was touring through the area and would be nearby today. In the late morning I contacted her through her web site and via PM on another board. Said I'd like to see her between 2 and 6, and provided all the usual screening info.
2) Just after noon I got a PM back suggesting a 6:00 PM date, telling me the town (but not the hotel) where her incall was. I said that would be fine and asked her to give me the hotel name and her cell # so I could contact her for the room # upon arrival. No response.
3) Now it's 4:30 and I'm about an hour's drive away. I PM her again saying "Getting nervous" and explaining I needed to get confirmation and the info above. No response.
4) At 5:00 I decide to roll the dice and drive toward the town where she was. I send a final e-mail telling her I was on my way and would need a call-back with her info. I included my cell #.
5) At 6:00 I was close but turned off the highway, filled my tank and waited briefly for a call before turning back.
6) Got home and sent her a note saying, "Sorry we didn't connect" and telling her I'd driven nearly all the way to her before the appointed time was reached and I turned back. Asked her to let me know if we should try another time. If I don't hear from her, or get a bad response I may inform folks about her, but maybe not. She does have a good, though minimal, rep and I don't want to get into a pissing contest.
C'est la vie, I guess.
PS: At no time did I mention any sexual act or her donation, which I'd gotten from her site. Never even made a clothing request.
Keep it up, MSH! Based on the previous responses, you continue to not be making any friends here. Odd, considering you were the one lobbying for a "kinder, gentler board." Keep the old adage in mind: "Sow the wind, reap the whirlwind."
I infortunetly realized I dont handle stress and fast paced anything I get overwhelmed and then do what she did flake . I know it stinks but now I avoid doin the hotel stuff because it can get confusing packing a bag of all the candles massages oils outfits baby wipes. Then scramblin to make the money back youve spent then do appts after, I am not puttin myself or her down but some people just arent cut out for the whole mover and shaker aspect of it an , once she realizes that maybe she l find a better system and try sticking with slow and steady wins the race mindset. I realized if i try and go in for the kill book alot get hotel then every thing seems to get really confusing and I end up makn mistakes like getting confused with all the dif numbers and people.
I'ved had five over the last six years or so.
One was caused by the fact that the gal had an auto accident on her way over to see me.
One was caused by a gal having to be hospitalized for an mental condition for a few days.
The other three I never heard from again and have no idea.
I'm sure it's going to happen again.
It's just part of this hobby.
Still, I'm glad you posted this and started a thread as people have to hear these stories to know how to cope when it happens to them.
Also, this is the place to vent. It's a necessary part of getting over it.
I'm really not bent out of shape about it and enjoyed the funny responses. I've decided to just let it go and not post a "Flake Alert" on her on another board. It just ain't worth the pissing contest. Anyone who wants more info can just PM me.
I had contacted her through another board via PM. She claimed the automatic alert system that told her she had a PM got turned off. I said OK, thanks for contacting me, we'll try again another time. Not sure I will, but at least she took the trouble to contact me.