I travel quite a bit, and many times my wife comes with me.  When I'm on a trip I like to hobby.  There are endless opportunities:  sometimes we split up and she goes shopping for a couple hours and I have another diversion, sometimes I contact a provider at my destination and we agree upon a hotel - I tend to rise earlier than my wife, so I just go for a walk or down to the lobby to read.

Think about it.  If you married guys did what such women suggest, they'd be out of business. Sounds like they're putting themselves in your wife's shoes.

Also the providers realize that they are truly entertaining a guy for pure pleasure and not because he needs a release because he can't get sex.

She'd go off on the shopping thing and I would tell her, you have fun, I'll just take a walk or go to the pool.

Of course, I'd be looking for an escort the moment she took off.

It's like going to a bar and being lectured by the bar tender that I shouldn't be drinking so much; or going to a fast food place and being told I should only have a salad and some fresh fruit.

They are assigning you the blame for your infidelity...  and they should. You are the one "cheating" even if your wife is okay with it, it's still cheating. The ladies are just placing the guilt where it belongs, with you, and not them.

Not to hobby to close to home. I did a few times in walking distance from my house. I was lucky not to get caught. I had to go back to the gym at 0100 once to wash the smoke off my body.

That's like a restaurant owner telling you that you shouldn't go out to eat so much. If it weren't for married dudes, we'd be out of business.  

I can imagine that if I were a provider I would find it tedious if not a bit annoying if you showed up for an appointment with me and told me all of this -  

parks across the street and waits for one way to leave and then sneaks back to young and hung's room lmao

You are a cheater like most, and we hookers capitalize on it. The only double standard would be if you got upset if your wife was enjoying herself with a strange cock, tongue or pussy herself while you were out "walking".  

If I wanted a fantasy here I would be picking the hottest bodies I could find, not out of shape guys who are, for the most part, not my style in bed. For me it is a job that I provide the fantasy. Other ladies may actually be in this for what you described.  

I would never - ever shame you for giving me money and also giving me sex. lol

Johnny wants to believe that you think he's awesome an handsome and studly and that you can't wait to suck and fuck him

QV's he's seeing, I presume

and people who want to judge others. IMHO, this world should be an escape from that.  

In the younger generations some of the men are down right sorry. Very immature. They don't work, live at home with parents  and want the ladies to be sugar mommas.  Believe or not there is a whole industry of websites out there where the rich woman are paying the men lol.

The shopping thing lol. That hit me like a 2x4. What a fantastic idea! I need to find a rich guy who will cheat on me, and because he feels guilty will give me shopping money lol

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If you come to see me...
And somehow mention a wife (because trust me, 9 out of 10 times, I ain't asking) pretty much, it's duly noted.
As another provider mentioned, you don't need to go back to wifey smelling like "strange" anything- nor covered in "sparkles" (from cosmetics etc etc.)  
Married status to me, is hardly something worth chastisement.
Who the hell would I be to judge you?
(So let me tell you this joke the one about the hooker and the married guy, so he says to her....)

"Let's make someone else look bad so I don't have to look as bad."

And mentioned to a provider that I felt a little bad cheating on my wife.  She actually yelled at me!  she said, Dammit!  I've seen you 3 x in the past 3 months.  if your wife was keeping you happy you wouldn't be with me.  You'd stay home.  Now while I am not sure of that, I do agree that I'd be less likely to want to find a provider if there was more frequency in my marriage.  I am a fan of mixing it up once in a while and seeing someone new but if I am satisfied on a regular basis I don't get the urge to stray as often.
As far as double standard, well, if my wife was seeing a male provider it might explain a lot.  I sincerely doubt it though. A. Very little opportunity.  B. I control the household finances and would notice missing cash (more than her).  C.  She was never a high volume gal since the beginning, she just don't want it that often.  D. She doesn't want the D much.

I actually probly would just do the no comment thing and stay quiet when you begin telling me about your hotel wife personal detauils, Not my business, I certainly wouldnt care what your situation is, How tiring it would be if i mentally got involved with every customers affairs. I prefer we sync into a temporary autonomous zone and not mention our real lives, I need the escape and enjoy it just as much, Leaving your drama and personal affairs at the door is what makes this so fulfilling for both parties, If  some one cares to chat otc however only then do i go back to being me, not angel, Shame some review the otc time which was spent and shouldnt be included in a review of an appt. If a provider chose to engage you after the schedule and paid for appt.  
 humna to human as opposed to john to hooker, at that point the appt is over i have done my work but if i choose to socialize after and its not otc I dislike those that give detailed accounts of that interaction . I think it should be a review of simpkly thw actuall appt, not if you become friends or socialize outside of the appy, '
     If i do a FREE dinner date with a client and am not being paid my dinner date fee I will and do act like myself, Which is alot more fun and alot less work, On the clock i am a horny sex starved nympho that just wants to do everything to make the man happy , in real life i actually get sick and tired of it and want to talk about other things, and i like acting like a total kid.

I don't know if it's a double standard, but it certainly is rude of those providers to say something like that! Not to mention that trying to guilt-trip your clients seems like a pretty poor business strategy.  My point of view is, I am here to share pleasure with you, not to judge you!

They are entitled to their opinion,  and it's an obvious response to such situations  
But I'd agree that it doesn't help them with their business lol

Judgement should not have a place here. Who are any of us to judge? It would be like some guy as a client telling me I am too pretty, too nice, too intelligent, blah blah vomit, blah to do what I do.

I loved this

I'm not there for an interview, I already know all about my personal life... and since I'm not trying date the hooker I'm with, it's not like she needs to know about it any way.

If she can guess all of your handles that you've used....and in particular the one before BV...

Was my previous handle... Bwaahahaha!

This sort of OP strikes me as much less significant.

No offense but I concerns me self with one pussy and it's mine. I should pass judgement and feel sorry for HER? I'm the one fuckin ya

which is not about the gent not being able to talk to you at all -

Two of my most disgusting experiences at least from a visceral and not physical stand point....

Tobi-up to 50  Courtney-up to 70, Then I'm good to go! Otherwise, I'll need to get yet another fake ID! lol

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had the view point of "Why do you care what other people think of you?"

so even though I am an unmitigated bastard, I do not inflict this upon providers

they do not need to know nor do they care to know  -   it only makes things more difficult for them and creates more YMMV -

I love all men and I love it when they bring their wives but if they need a little secret fun, then so be it.  I accepted that about me a long time ago

I'll be right back...

Who the heck cares what Feynman or for that matter what Dr. Phil said about this topic of caring about what others think?