....what percentage of your REGULAR clients, if any, would you say you are genuinely PHYSICALLY attracted to and why?

I am not talking about "good vibes" or he's a "nice guy." I'm talking, "holy shit, if he tried to pick me up in a bar while I was on vacation, I'd fuck him for free!"  

Someone on here told me many months ago that most providers couldn't care less about looks and only care about your ability to pay, follow directions, have good hygiene, and not be a sadistic psychopath (ok, i added that last one).

goes after the wrong information.  

Obvi, I am not a provider.  I've known a lot of providers, however.  What they tell me is that some guys turn them on and some guys don't. Attitude, hygiene and money can play a part.   So I really don't see why providers would be any different from anyone else.

Can't speak for all girls but for me I have bonds with regulars that are more emotional than just sexual. When you're seeing someone consistently you can't help but grow a fondness towards them that transcends just enjoyment of sex or desire for money. They become a part of your routine, someone you expect to see all the time almost like a romantic partner. So for me, I am attracted mentally to most of my regulars. And I think that's where your understanding of attraction differs from an escorts. When you are interfacing with men consistently (and in my case not just for escorting but for porn too) you are less focused on physical attraction. Over time that starts to lose some meaning. You become more focused on who stimulates you mentally or makes you feel safe and comfortable. So when an escort is attracted to you it's not always because you're the hottest guy on the planet; it could just be because she trusts and feel comfortable with you. At least that's how it is for me.

Maybe when I was young, dumb & full of cum I could relate in my 20’s. I do not go on free dates. I would say, I love my friends! The ones I gravitate more towards are very attractive to me because they care about my financial & emotional wellbeing.  

If they do not care about me as a human being there’s never going to be any physical attraction.

Im sure fat tips help immensely

Providers aren’t doing this recreationally. They’re doing this as a job for money. Would you rather drive a Ferrari or a Toyota Prius? Odds are you’d probably pick the Ferrari. Now let’s say you were a valet. The Ferrari driver doesn’t tip, is a rude asshole and keeps a bunch of trash in their car. Meanwhile the Prius driver tips well, is very nice and keeps a clean car. Which customer are you going to prefer?
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It is a similar situation with providers. They are going to prefer customers that pay well, are respectful and have good hygiene. That is their number one priority. Anything else on top of that is just a nice bonus. Now that being said… if a client paid well, was respectful and had good hygiene…. and was attractive and fucks like a champ… yea they’ll probably enjoy that client a little more than others.

Pretty sure there will be very little response from the provider community on this sensitive topic....all likely depends upon the circumstance that provides the opportunity for a gal to be a provider.......any negative comment---regardless of how they personally feel---their business could be negatively impacted....

This isn't an apples for apples type of question. Since I am not a provider, in the end I will defer to a provider. But I am also a skeptic and won't assume all providers would spill the tea with a question like this one.

 
That said, the luster of things can change over time, especially if your circumstances influence it. I would think that any provider, like any of us, has thoughts on who they find good looking and who they do not. That doesn't mean they are physically attracted to them. It's like a guy who isn't gay being able to recognize that another guy is good looking. Doesn't mean there is physical attraction. Heck, even when it comes to the sex one is more attracted to, good looking doesn't always equal attraction.

 
Now factor into this that providers fuck for a living and they fuck a lot. Even a low volume provider is still doing it for a living and fucks many more different people than the average person. Over time, how the person looks probably matters less and less. In fact, their average client is probably not the stud types. And the stud types they meet and interact with in their lives, are probably not as nice to them as their clients. It would be no surprise if physical attraction becomes less valuable to them. They become more interested in emotional attraction, good hygiene, generosity/kindness, humbleness, etc... And, of course, they are interested in their money.  

 
The men they spend time with are clients, not guys they met at a club and found hot and decided to bang for free. It's in their best interest to have a provider/client relationship and not get drawn in by good looks. This is their business. They are not built like the MILFs who snuck out from under their husband's noses for a wild night of drinking and debauchery at Chippendales. They are professionals. And, like any job, they have preferences for the types of customers they prefer. And guys who meet these preferences will be the ones they like the most. And, the more they like them, the more likely they are to enjoy fucking them.

 
The average woman might look across a bar and see a guy they find hot, and that may be enough for them want to fuck them. But the average escort fucks enough on the job to not want or need a hot guy to fuck them. If he wants a shot at them, he will need bring a lot more than good looks to the table. Just my two cents.

So there had to be some kinda physical attraction..que no?
I know a few ladies who did marry their clients.
On a side note, I never bought into this whole "providers couldn't care less about looks"...C'mon now.
The first time a woman lays her eyes on a guy...she knows,

We all know men and women processes attraction differently in the civvie world, let alone in this one, so this question seems a bit disingenuous as it's phrased. I'm curious what you are really asking... if objectively hot men seek our company? Or since you capitalized REGULAR, if you want to know if objectively hot men like to stick to one lady and become a regular or if they like to taste the rainbow? Or something else?
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I can say I've never had an objectively hot man become a regular. That being said, I've most definitely been physically attracted to not-objectively-hot men who were regulars as well as those who were one-offs. Was I physically attracted to them before I knew enough about them to say that we had a "good vibe" and that he was a "nice guy"? NO!! Why? Because I figure that shit out before I even meet them to know if/how much I'm physically attracted to them. lol Hello, Venus here! *waving*
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On top of that, I have a fun lil mix of kinks that automatically raises damn near anyone's attractiveness level half the scale on its own - erotic capital, transactional arousal and the fact that I'm fraysexual. A gorgeous man who doesn't want to put cash in my hand is half as attractive to me (in a feral, purely sexual way) as a mid-looking dude who is eager to do it. It's NOT about the money itself, it's not even about what the money can do FOR ME (pay bills, create safety/freedom, etc). It's about what the money symbolizes and says about HIM (HIS power, HIS intentionality, HIS risk tolerance, HIS decisiveness, HIS priority, HIS determination) and the fact that he's chosen to aim those qualities in my direction. THAT is something I find sexy AF.  
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Trust, it's not hard for me to find hot, hung dudes when I'm in the US (the youngins really dig me, too) but I'm rarely interested (even the ones offering fancy trips, meals and other.... table scraps). I legit get physically hornier for low-mid looking, decent, kind/funny dudes who enjoy paying for my time.

This is actually entirely accurate. Nice work.

The OP is a troll. He has strong misguided opinions about escorts. I don't think he has really met anyone yet. No reviews, claims to have met many women now but he still doesn't seem to know how the business works. Take a look at his first posts from months ago claiming no one was replying to his inquiries. Faaake.

yep, i’m a total troll

Just noticed you dont have any reviews.  

Time to kick rocks.

Do you really expect that any provider will tell you that they are not attracted to some, or even one of their clients?  

 
Do you think they want their customers to wonder/worry that they are the pig in the pack?  

 
You may indeed get some honest answers, but how will you know?

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

You and another poster have made this point and it is a good one. Fantasy fulfillment is a big part of this business. That means sometimes providers are going to tell you what you want to hear. It isn’t really in the provider’s best interest to admit they don’t find certain clients attractive or that they enjoy attractive clients more than the average client.
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I get the feeling these types of questions are driven by insecurity and/or ego. Either way the question is irrelevant. There is only one reason why a provider is spending time with any of us, because we pay them to. This is true for attractive clients and unattractive clients.

Actually, I got exactly the answer I expected from Ms. Cole and the person above her.

Their definition of attractiveness is a lot more nuanced than just "omg, look at his jawline and those abs lolz!" and ultimately results in chemistry and them appreciating the time they are paying for.

A little bit attracted? Almost all of them. Maybe I'm just lucky!

All this talk about physical attraction; but where does skill / sexual prowess stack up?   How much Does it help for a guy to be good at (DFK / DATY / CFS / you name it).  

And…. What decides whether or not you’ll do some of these?   Particularly DFK has been super variable, where most providers don’t DFK with me, even after reading reviews with DFK…

Good at DFK? Doesn’t matter to me in the slightest. Good at DATY? Doesn’t matter to me in the slightest.

Good at PIV, like *actually* good at it? That’s nice and appreciated.  

Related: Men, please don’t do that thing where you move your hips in circles. It just grinds my labia into my pelvic bones.