I think your plan is basically a good one that will keep you out of trouble if you were incorrect about her. What I would do, however, is when broaching the point about dating her and ".... trusting arrangement among good trusting friends...." I might be a bit polically correct, but more specific about the sexual component of this arrangement, if only to dispell any misconceptions later on. Again, like you said, you're just "brainstorming", and it probably wouldn't hurt.
Have a great lunch tomorrow, and I for one am waiting to hear the outcome.
WOW! The group's insights were useful, creative and terrific for helping me reading the signals of this down-on-her-luck mega-babe who's hinting she may escort (see 1/28 thread). My lunch with her is tomorrow, and I'll be using an amalgam of advice you guys gave. We both have pretty big reputations to protect in a small community (I'm married, and she's very well-regarded), so I'm going to take this one slooooow. I'm rehearsing my spiel now. I'm convinced the hurdle is that both of us are afraid to make the first move, so I'll take the initiative albeit in an oblique way. Let me think out loud:
I'll begin with a little innocent touchy, run my hands down her shoulders and arms when I take her coat. Check her reaction. Then, sit her down, chit-chat, get a glass of wine in her. Or two. Next, tell her SHE'S the one who suggested brainstorming and remind her that the spirit of brainstorming is that no idea can be held against you, it's non-judgemental and neither of us can take offense at any suggestion. Then, I watch her reaction. If she's enthusiastically agreeable, I move to Step Two: Do some innocent brainstorming, then JOKINGLY suggest what she really needs is a job that pays her $350 a week, but only requires a few hours of her time. If she's like, "now how do you suppose I might find a job like that?" then I move to Step Three: Tell a tale of a really good woman friend who got into a money bind, and got out of it by finding a couple of wealthy suitors who came over to her house a couple times a week to sort of, like, "DATE" her, and they in turn helped her pay her bills. Then, mention that it was a very respectful, trusting arrangement among good trusting friends. See how she reacts. Next step: Follow-up by telling her what she needs is a patron or two to help her out. If she says "how can I find one?" I'm home free. If she says "yuk" I'll remind her I'm only brainstorming. Then guys, I pull the ripcord. But even then, on the way out I'll slip her a c-note and whisper in her ear "I wish I could help you out more". Who knows? Maybe after thinking it over the light will go on in her head.
What do you think? I'd welcome constructive thoughts. Fortitude asked that I keep the Board posted on what happens, so who am I to argue? How often does a hobbyist get to turn a civilian on to the biz? I'll report back tomorrow afternoon. I'm cautiously optimistic. And if you guys don't hear from me tomorrow, you'll know Little Elvis is in the End Zone. Thanks again, guys.
I don't think you need any help. Well thought out and who knows, you could end up in the franchise business. The $350 might be a bit stiff (pun intended). Good luck, if it works out I think there would be a lot of TER members interested.
I think your plan is basically a good one that will keep you out of trouble if you were incorrect about her. What I would do, however, is when broaching the point about dating her and ".... trusting arrangement among good trusting friends...." I might be a bit polically correct, but more specific about the sexual component of this arrangement, if only to dispell any misconceptions later on. Again, like you said, you're just "brainstorming", and it probably wouldn't hurt.
Have a great lunch tomorrow, and I for one am waiting to hear the outcome.
I hear you! And I considered the possibility she might think she's so hot I'd lay a few bills on her just to watch ESPN in her apartment with my hand on her knee. I'm figuring if she's green lighting me all the way past Step Three I'd become more touchy with her. Then, I'll say something like "how about we get together at your place after work today?" Either she's a nod, or not. I figure if I get invited up to her place, given the foregoing conversation, I'm home free. If she says "why?", then I'm toast. Hey, no risk, no gain. Thanks for the support. I'll be in touch.
I've personally always thought that the only Reaganomics-style, "trickle-down" economic stimulus that ever worked was older, wealthy men helping out economically-disadvantaged women.
Wishing you all the best in your efforts to spur the economy...
LOL...this post is so loaded with politically correct euphemisms to pave over the fact you want to turn out a lady to commercial sex. A friend of mine once termed such ladies as "invisible semi-pros." He loved the relationships because they gave him an illusion of exclusivibility. Everything boils down to "you wanna get laid, she wants to get paid." If those wants and needs can be met, then all the carefully worded paragraphs you've labored so hard to string together will be met. Yes or No is all it boils down to. I'd rather see a low volume provider, pass her screening and take it from there. It's just a lot easier for me. You have a titillating "thrill of the hunt." Let us know if ya found your Invisible Semi-pro.
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