So I just wanted to thank everyone for their advice. I used a couple of the tactics that were suggested in the other post.  
First off I did not bring a donation with me this time. I was staying the weekend and she invited me over so I didn't feel like it was a set meeting.  
I kind of let it go with the flow Friday night. Everything was great, dinner was spectacular that she had prepared. Desert was even better.  
The next morning we both got up and because she knows that I have been working out and getting my body in shape she asked if I needed some time to do that. Little did I know she would join me in the gym at her town house community center. After a little work out we went for a walk down some trails that she knew around her complex.
As we were sitting around one of the ponds on the trails taking a breather, I initiated the talk.  
Long story short, most of you were right, and some of you were wrong.  
She has drawn up some feelings. She has not been sure herself how to approach it so she was glad that I brought it up.  
She and I agreed on some  plans for future progress with the relationship.  
Before people start to ask, no I did not tell her she had to 100% stop hobbying and she didn't ask me to either.  
But after the conversation later that night and some things that we had both wanted to see in a relation ship, plus the action of the rest of the weekend, I don't think either one of us will want to see anyone for a few days at least.  
I thought I had lost some of my stamina after turning 30 but she sure knew how to bring it back.

Always keep it real. No real relationship can ever thrive if people aren't honest and open with each other.  

you never know where happiness is... so why not?
try and fail is better than live with de doubt about how about if????....

Good Luck!!!!  I really do mean that....

walks on the beach together and poking dead things with a stick.  However, you should always have an eye open for signs of fakery.  Remember that working girls are masters at getting you to suspend disbelief and making you believe fantasy is, in fact, reality.  The good news is that even the best of them can't keep up the fakery 24/7 for very long.  A month should reveal whether its real or not.  This is the time I can usually spot the ones that have an agenda.  If you get past that, as I have with several, then you can put your guard down and enjoy the ride.  

Nah, just kidding. I actually like your chances, great move on both of your parts to NOT "demand" the other quit the hobby. I have never "insisted" that a provider or ex provider GF quit working, it has to be her decision, and it seems like you two get that.

...have an expiration date. We never know when things are going to end, so you do your best while you can and decide at some point to stay fully committed to the person, or end it.