This is a message to all gentlemen out there!!!  If you visit a lady at a hotel and she tells you the door will be open, just come in, please don't stand outside the door and knock!!!  I know, you are trying to be polite.  Thank you!  But.... the more guys that stand by the door and knock vs just coming in, the more attention it draws to you and the lady.  So.... just walk in, shut the door and lock it,  and get be ready for an awesome time!!!  

Leave the door unlocked so there is no need to knock.  There is almost always a hotel maid in the hallway a few doors away.  My last meeting the maid was in the next room.  I was tempted to steal a few towels...ha ha!!!

For my private incall, I actually tell them "the door is unlocked for you, so don't knock, just come in" and some will STILL knock. smh.  lol

With the student's cell phone, investigators wanted to catch Xxx in the act.

I mostly do outcalls to my home and often text the provider that the front door will be unlocked and to just come in. Almost all of them ring the bell and stand outside until I go to the door.

Don't loiter in the parking lot at my incall. Geez. Don't sit in your car and call me to tell me you have arrived and are sitting in the parking lot. Don't look around shifty eyed as you enter and exit. Pass quickly and quietly. Don't stop to pet my neighbors dog. When you're leaving, don't turn back at the open door for one last kiss and an ass squeeze. DO bring a file folder or an envelope so that you look like you have a reason to be here... dropping something off, picking something up.

My private in call is my home in the country, so I do not have any neighbors that are near to see.  My pups are usually barking up a storm, so I usually meet my gent at the door.  If you are not sure,  just ask your lady what she prefers!!!  

.... only one escort I have seen would leave the door slightly ajar so I could just walk in. A great idea that makes for a seemless entry. I can’t count how many times I have knocked and waited while an employee is on the scene watching. Once room service arrived with towels at the exact same time as me. The two us waited together.  I am immune to it now.  

I almost always carry a back pack when meeting a lady at a hotel location.  Makes me blend in and appear to have a room at the hotel or, in the larger hotel's, going to a meeting.  

Once I get a room number after parking I’m always told the door is open and to just walk in. It could help to add that line to the text along with your room number

Hi, I'm just her probation officer.

... I admit to being flustered and usually mumble something incoherent then scoot to the elevator.

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though it occuse to me it could be defeated by a card to block the latch so the door could be pushed open.    

Got to admit it, but I'm guilty.....I've done it a couple of times in the past....sorry.

Crap!  As soon as I posted I saw mrfisher’s post. 🙄

Sorry, just being a smarty-pants. :P

maybe she's in the bathroom or on the phone.

I promise, you will be greeted with a warm, favorable welcome upon a quiet, seemless entry.

open the door and it I die a little inside when They knock LOL

Yes, also a great idea!!  Bring in a backpack or a messenger bag.  Thanks to the gents that have been doing this!!!!  

....like it being on the hinge like I told him/her it would be is not an accident.
Yet a few have still knocked lol.  I want to chalk it to their nerves tho I guess lol.
Another one is if they don't knock and come in quietly but they let the door slam back on the him. Oy vey.  
But again....nerves I guess lol.

Posted By: WIMissScarlet

This is a message to all gentlemen out there!!!  If you visit a lady at a hotel and she tells you the door will be open, just come in, please don't stand outside the door and knock!!!  I know, you are trying to be polite.  Thank you!  But.... the more guys that stand by the door and knock vs just coming in, the more attention it draws to you and the lady.  So.... just walk in, shut the door and lock it,  and get be ready for an awesome time!!!    
   
 Xoxo  
 Scarlet

Have always practiced leaving the door unlocked for my date... it’s the only way I’ll do it tbh. It takes away from the discomfort of my guest just awkwardly waiting outside the door for me to answer and it draws less attention. Double win.

Ever since I read on the boards about this, I started asking the women I visit whether I should knock or just enter.  They all say to knock please.

Or just walking right in ( usually left unlocked if I’m expecting company) , not a fan of knocking.

I absolutely agree! Be casual though. Pretend you're not nervous. Have a story in mind. Dropping and picking things up is perfect!

I try to watch for them so that they don't need to knock on the door.

Oh yeah....im planning on dropping something off!

I know someone that works in a hotel. They honestly don't care what you're doing. They sometimes have to do 12-14 rooms, each only 15-30 mns at a time. Gosh, my friend was just listing all the things she has to do! Lol. Sometimes they wonder about that. Leaving the door propped open is probably more of an indicator of what ya'll are doing than knocking. But it really isn't that much of an indicator. For all they know, you could have traveled with them, and somehow they placed your rooms apart from one another. You could have forgotten your card within the room. You could be visiting a friend from out of town. You could be in a secret love affair. The possibilities are almost endless.