As I gingerly approach 50, I find this hobby rather entertaining and rejuvenating, makes me feel as though I am back in my mid 20's; probably because I am mostly meeting ladies in that age range, and they seem to enjoy my company (for a price of course). However, it would make sense that those same ladies would much rather spend intimate time with young studs (like the one I once was) that may be stronger, have more stamina, and probably less cushioning over their six pack.  

I prefer the company of gents in the late 30s and up range.
I have seen gents in the past who were in their 20s and a couple I still see.
But for the most part I find in my experience the younger guys tend to not be too serious about booking an appt.

There just isn't.  

These ladies aren't attracted to us because of our six-pack abs and stamina.   :-

This reminds me of what Hugh Hefner said when someone asked if he was concerned that all the beautiful playmates and bunnies were after him just for his money: I don't care why they are after me

You older gentleman tend to be more polite,professional and better company IMO. Most young guys that contact me are time wasters that never actually want to meet...  

and fall in love with providers, and sometimes vice versa.

his long career --particularly when he was American Ambassador to France-- pointed out that women age more slowly from the neck down so still had exciting bodies when older and that older women were so much more grateful of his attention than young ones.
In my mid 70s, I am so much more appreciative of the beauty and company and attention of the ladies I get to spend time with than I was in my teens and 20s.

The very same reason some of us guys prefer to see MILF's rather than ladies in their early 20's.

In my best politician voice:

older guys treat you better

Young guys become infatuated or worse, obsessed, more often than over 40 men.
  Young guys are more inclined than over 40's to sneak/demand/force  items not on the menu.
  Young guys are usually not as mellow and polite as older men.
  Young guys tend to be more judgmental than  older men.  
  Older guys aren't usually looking to become a pimp.
  Older guys rob and steal much  less often than younger guys.
  Older guys don't no call no show  as often as young  guys.  

i like men over 40 and also prefer men over 200lb...but chemistry is the most important...i can go sometimes for younger geekier looking guys

Would you rather be with w/the 23-year-old version of yourself, or the person you are today? Over the years, you've hopefully become more considerate, respectful, tolerant, worldly, interesting, reliable...and, hopefully less egotistical, stubborn, condescending, less of a know-it-all, less inclined to look down upon others (i.e. sex workers)...

Unless you count the ladies who have never returned my email requests.

I'm 30 and I just recently joined the hobby. One of the biggest surprises for me when I started was how challenging it is to come is as a younger complete newbie. The lack of references aside, it seemed difficult to schedule with with some providers once they knew my age, but if I had known that were so many stereotypes and preconceived notions about the "younger, under 35" crowd in this hobby then I wouldn't have been so surprised by my experience.  

Chalk it up to the minimum date requirement, but I get very few inquiries from gentleman closer to my age. I have no problem when I do and would welcome them. I've had very few bad experiences and the ones I've had are not easily singled out as any specific kind of person so I don't feel it's necessary for me to make that kind of rule.

As a 55 year old that has been in this hobby for the last year, I have found that the ladies that I have the best time with have also been mostly over 35. I said mostly, of course there have been exceptions. I enjoy the intellectual connection as well as the physical. The exceptions have been exceptional young ladies who had wonderful personalities on top of exceptional skills.

These are my feelings.

The greatest thing about this hobby is the discovery. Once we figure out what we enjoy the most about a session, there are ladies and gentlemen out there to fulfill that discovery. I'm sure the ladies will agree that when I sometimes get tempted to go against my discoveries, I usually end up very unhappy.

I would imagine if they made it a rule they have already gave us under 35s a chance? As unfortunate as that may be, I never press it. It seems desperate and I also don't want to go to a get together with negative preconceived notions about me. It will probably negatively affect the experience.

...50 and 270...and Boston is about a 4 hour drive...

Which one of me would I rather be with, exactly as you described?  

hi there

Although, after one particularly heinous experience, I did post an over-35 rule. I kept it up for a few months.

A sane, successful provider doesn’t need or want to give a great time to just anybody who has 2 references, or 7 OK’s on p411, or whatever.  

G'day Alley,
so do you like the vibe of 55 year old Aussie men, who have lived in the US for a few decades?
Wouldn't mind a little taste of home.

Vodoo I love reading your thoughts, I find this very insightful. I never thought I would have an effect either positive or negative on anyone who I came across. I know the demons I bring to the table but never really considered the emotional toll that providers would have to handle by being with someone my age. Thanks for opening my eyes to that realization.  

where are you?maybe one day i will be in your area or close by

Posted By: jelloman42

...50 and 270...and Boston is about a 4 hour drive...

Is that younger guys tend to want to prove themselves as "studs"...in other words, "I will show this hooker how good I am". And the poor lady is then in for a pound fest, which, in some cases is not welcomed. This is only known once the young guy is with the hooker. Your manners and maturity can be discerned beforehand, not this.  

Personal experience counts in this business. Not unlike a guy who might have visited 4 unreviewed ladies and had sub par experiences from them all. He then makes a conscious choice to only see reviewed hookers, based on his previous experiences. Is that fair to ALL unreviewed hookers, no BUT in his eyes, he has done enough due diligence and does not want to risk it again. I have no issue with his choice.