and as I recall her diagnosis is that by masturbating, you lose your ability to have sex with a woman.

Try not masturbating and seeing real live women for sex, and in time you should reset your sexual settings to enjoy them as opposed to your hand.

I suggest asking her about this in case I have left out some salient points, or go and use the research feature on "masturbation" and "no mas".

Don't know if this is the right place to post this, but hope you guys could help me.

Few days ago I meet a well review provider in NYC we did almost everything dfk, cg, rcg, etc. It was like the reviews says in TER about her very energetic and eager to please. The issue was that I feel like was putting my thing inside her, but I wasn't feel the pleasure in all those positions and in bj I feel little of pleasure but nothing like makes to cum. So it is impossible to maintain the erection without feeling any pleasure, so I lost my erection like 30 min after we began the session. Sometimes it comeback when she give me dfk and kissing my my nipples, cuz I feel exited and she try some positions when my thing get hard but I didn't feel pleasure. After the session end I feel like a waste my money not because the problem was her instead it was me, cuz my thing can feel the pleasure

When it comes to masturbating myself watching porn, I cum in less than a 1 min and I feel the pleasure of doing it. I do this almost every day. I don't know if this is the main problem for what is happening to me.

I want to know if you guys know a method to recover the sensation of pleasure to my thing.

P.S: this had happen to me twice. I am in my mid's 20 and asian.

your correct and if he does a search first say going back at least a year he should get more then enough information about this problem. Its too bad the discussion board doesn't have a FAQ section as this would definitely be in the top 10.

I would recommend seeing a good tantrika provider.

Some of your problems could be performance anxiety based, and with a tantrika you don't have to concern yourself with that.  She is in control and is responsible to open up the energy centers in your body and let you find the sexual release you want, all the while being very caring and suppportive.

It could be just that transition you need between masturbation and intercourse.

The link below will lead to a national organization of tantra providers and hopefully you can find one in your area.

Best wishes with this.

Medical conditions cause lot of issues, diabetes and cholestrol are two culprits you need to watch, depending on your age-range.

Whatever you do, don't get taken in by the shit on internet promising anything. Going to a urologist is cheaper in the long run since insurance pays for it, including ED pills.

Self stim is very intense...  and you target your hot spots...  this is opposite of partner sex.  I  recommend laying off the self-sex & relearn partner sex.  Condoms decrease sensation so is another down side.
In my experience, friction is what causes sensation.  There must be movement to create friction...  between you & the condom, not just the condom & her!  The condom must fit light enough to stay on  but loose enough to allow some movement.  There must be some lubrication inside the condom but too much, especially modern lubes, can reduce friction to "zero".  Zero friction = nothing is happening.

I know i have to stop masturbating, but there is a way to recover the sensibility on my " thing"? fast?

If you had said I have already stopped masturbation, you would be several days closer to the solution. I was not as bad as you described but I found even laying off 4 days helped. Have you read fully LG's No Mass program? That's no masturbation, or self stimulation (porn). You can go to a real woman as soon and as often as you want just no HJ to completion. I found a provider with a 30 min rate who was not GFE but good otherwise. The short time meant concentrate on sex and leave. I would then spend several hours doing something else and then go see her again. Practice does make it better just as long as it is with a real lady and not self stimulation. I have included a link to one of LG's many responses on this subject just in case you haven't done your research yet. You know the answers both medical and masturbation just go and actually do something with them.

men often masturbate using the same method repeatedly. A change in your masturbation style could help as well. That could explain why you felt moments of pleasure, but nothing sustained.

The less you have orgasms the more impactful they
will be when you have them, plus porn raises the bar
from crazy visual stimulation so overtime real partners
can't match up. It is a syndrome or name of this which
I heard of before and is more common than you think.