Greetings guys or gals. I am trying to get over the broken marriage blues and was thinking of an upcoming class re-union. I do not live anywhere near where I went to school and would like company if I went back. A beautiful partner seemed like a pick me up until I thought of all the nightmare lies that would need to be told or memorized. Has any one ever tried this and how did it turn out. Re-unions, conventions, weddings, funerals or any other get togethers would qualify.

No .. but I once brought some of the people from my Class Reunion to a provider.  Does that count?

If you're planning it there are a few things to consider:  If, for example, it's your 10 year High school Reunion, you have to remember that most folks there will be still fairly young and recently married.   If you bring Playmate of the Year to the reunion ... you'll be revered as a God .. but .. from afar - because most of the married men will know better than to get too close to you (as in "the length of a football field") if they ever expect their wives to fuck them in the next 32 weeks.

If it's the 20 year reunion, go for it.  The couples there are usually so sick of each other already that they don't care - most of the wives are thinking "Honey, if you want to do his laundry with the skidmarked underwear, you can have him"

I have attended a few conventions, a couple of weddings and a high school reunion with different gentlemen.  They all went over without any real problems.  Just make sure that the lady you choose is converstional and friendly.  And depending on the impression you want to leave, you may want to ensure that she is able to converse on a varietyy of topics.

This will work much better if you already have a repoir with the lady you are planning on bringing.  That way there will be some real chemistry, you know your converstion will flow well, and you will both be more comfortable.

You really don't need to have a huge script in place.  A few basics will go a long way, and will be easy to remember.

How did you meet?
How long have you been together? (about 6 months is ideal.  It shows the type of committment to bring to a reunion, but still allows for you not to know everyting about eachother)
What is your relationship? (married will be much harder to pull off - the woman will ask all sorts of questions about the wedding, honeymoon, etc.  Keep it simple)
Do you live together?  Where?
What does she do for a living?

Any other questions which may come up can will probably be benign enough to answer truthfully.  Remember, nobody is taking detailed notes for cross referencing.  Just be yourself, and have fun.

You will want to find out if she drinks, and if so, what her favourite drink is.  That way, you  can order for her, or go pick up the beverage of her choice without asking her exactly how she wants that martini.

Find out if she has any food alergies dislikes or preferences.  That way, if it comes up, you aren't left looking surprised, and you won't offer her something she can't eat.

If you are planning on dancing (and have never done so together before), do a dry run at hotel.  You want to make sure you look like you are comfortable and can read eachother on the dance floor.  Also find out which types of dance she is most proficient in.

Encourage her to mingle.  Get back together for about 10 minutes every half hour.  It will look more natural, and it will evoke even more envy among your peers.  A confident and friendly woman, who is mingling and getting along with everybody is more desirable than one who appears clingy and never leaves your side.  Shoot eachother 'looks' and smiles from accross the room, and pass one another with a kiss on the cheek, and a fresh drink for the other during the mingle times.  

Overall, just have a great time.  Avoid talking in detail about your relationship.  Remember, everybody likes to talk about themselves.  Be interested, and let them do the talking.   Talk about your secular accommplishments, hobbies, interestes and non relationship issues.  Let your chemistry with the lady speak for itself.

You never cease to brighten my day.  Thank you for some really funny stuff.

Still ROFLMAO!

F.

one of my former classmates let it be known that for the right price she was available.  Then promptly followed it up with an offer for a "3 way" with another.   Were talking a graduating class of about 125 kids way back when.  Not exactly a get-lost-in-the-crowd size reunion.

BTW, I declined.

I think that's a great idea. As long as you pick an intelligent provider (See Angel's post), I think you'll have a great time.  There's no better place to show off than at a reunion!

I ran into two different guys I had gone to school with a while back when I worked for an agency, and they were both at the class reunion...such a small world, they were both single guys, but I wasn't by the time the reunion happened.  We just smiled at each other a bit....it was kinda funny.....

Not to a class reunion, but took a provider to two weddings in the family..one local & one out of town.  Obviously I knew her quite well before that & she did nothing to look or act like a provider (actually everone seemed to genuinely like her), so no eyebrows were raised...although some heads did turn simply because she's such a beautiful gal.  No problem, I've dated lots of beautiful women.  

I probably would've been too embarassed to have taken a gal that wouldn't have been viewed by others as simply a beautiful 'civilian' but I had none of those worries in her case.

What a good idea! Go for it!

I think that's a terrific idea.

Do make sure you already know her ahead of time--you don't want to meet someone for the first time at the event and realize she is a flake or can't carry on a conversation.

I once went to a convention dinner as someone's "girlfriend". People only asked the usual simple questions like how we met ("mutual friends set us up); how long we'd been dating; if we were serious; my occupation (something respectable of course), etc.

What I enjoyed most that night was dropping hints to his friend's wives (in private girl talk) about how well he treated me, and how good he was in bed.  

I love your characterizing of reunions, but my experiences were the opposite. At the 10-year, everyone was on pins and needles and trying to figure out who we were. At the 20-year, we'd all settled in to happy lives. The women were really quite attractive and lively for 38-year-olds, the men more settled, it was nice.

But then, we were a unique group, a small inner-city magnet gifted and talented school, so maybe my experiences aren't typical.

I, myself have never taken a provider to an event like this, however, I went to a Catholic school. At our 25 year reunion, the current Principle(as well as a Deacon) of the school brought a Provider to the reunion.

I don't know this to be a fact except that virtually every scenario , ie "where did you meet?, etc" came into play here.

The lady in question was very lovely, very well dressed, and was very conversant in many topics. However, when asked what her relationship was with the Principle, she hesitated before she said, "We're, friends".

Moral here is just as every one else said, make sure you brief your provider.

A man (woman?) after my own heart! (eom)

It's absolutely necessary that both the guy & provider be on the same page about as much as possible, with particular attention paid to the questions that should be anticipated to be asked...where & how you met, what kind of job she has, how long you've known each other, what your relationship is like...serious? casual? platonic? too new to tell? etc, etc.

In the case I mentioned we'd already known each other for a while, so it was simply a matter of getting a few things straight such as those I've mentioned.  Everything came off without a hitch...not only because we'd anticipated the questions, but because she was so perfect in playing the part that several people made remarks about how much they liked her & hoped maybe the two of us would become an item.

I have a great HS class, 1975.  We have had a reunion every five years and all have been great.  At our 20th, a friend brought a beautiful, very fit woman whom he introduced as his wife. Now, he isn't and never was a great looking guy, but he has a personality that kills, i.e., he's great guy, funny, and outgoing.  He had moved far away (midwest to west coast) after HS and nobody had seen him since graduation.  That he was with this beautiful woman started a lot of "whispering" amongst some of us and we dediced that he bought her for the weekend (wouldn't be out of character, actually).  Well, she was with him at the 25th too.  Standing around, late in the evening of the party, another friend fessed up to him that "we" were surprised he was with the same woman, and blurted out, alcohol induced of course, that we thought he had bought her five years earlier.

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