Something that London Rayne lady said.
My question is why

I work as a hooker because I want to pay my bills. But I am also categorically opposed to the idea of monogamy for myself, even if I wasn't involved in this business. Waking up next to the same person day after day and listening to them mouth breath... for all eternity? That sounds like a special kind of hell and I want no part of that shit.

I don't know about other providers, but I enjoy seeing my regular clients! I love meeting new clients but I have a relationship with them. It's more comfortable during our sessions and I don't have to worry much about safety. I love knowing that guys enjoy being with me enough to keep calling back!

Recently one told me it had to do with avoiding getting overly attached. Brain chemistry can be a bitch, no? What with the dopamine, oxytocin, testosterone, serotonin all firing off in each others heads, that could put a crimp in somebody's lifestyle...

If you were to fall in love, would that change the monogamy thing

It definitely isn't for me. I don't know how married people can even have a sex life after years together. I hear men complaining about their wives not wanting to have sex. I would be relieved. If I'm ever married I wouldn't mind a platonic relationship as long as I could hobby. But I'm not typical. Lots of people like monogamy, or something close to it. Men who repeat with the same provider are evidence of that. They could be with hundreds of different women for the same price but instead they choose to see the same one over and over again. I don't understand it. Providers are like movies to me. If she is really good I'll see her again. But it won't be a regular thing. But to each his own.  

Some guys, over time like to think they can have or are entitled to a lot of extras because of this and this can go from being mildly annoying to downright taking advantage of.  

I've never had a Provider drop me cause I was her Regular Client. It's Great being a Regular Client. We know each other and know what the other expects to do. From the other side, I like seeing a favorite Provider over and over again. Not that I'm against meeting a new Provider, it's that once I hit the comfort zone with a Provider, I just see her. I stay loyal to an Awesome Provider.

I love seeing "some" clients for years, but others I am glad live out of state and I only had to deal with them once. Just the facts.

It is probably totally natural for a man to want to possess a female who is desirable and available to him. Which is why a hobbyist needs to know his own proclivities. Some guys can have a pseudo-boyfriend/girlfriend relationship with a provider, and still keep things in perspective; whereas many others can not (as evidenced by the way some guys talk about their ATF's). Personally, if I repeated too often with the same girl it would be very easy for my judgement to get clouded. Maybe not in a romantic sense, but in an MYOB sense. So I don't do OTC stuff with providers (a few have suggested it) even though some may be cool to get to know and I stay diversified. It's better to learn to this stuff about yourself before entering the hobby.

Nothing at all wrong with that.
I've had many people in my life I was GLAD I only had to deal with once......your right, just the facts.

...there is something to be said for sharing the moments that make up a life -- the key is finding the right person to share them with.  Marriage can be sort of like home base, but I think life is meant to be shared with others outside a monogamous life.  Otherwise people become too complacent and too possessive.

that's the exact same reason I never repeat with some providers.... -lmfao-

He does seem rather smitten with you though, I can only imagine how annoying he could become if you lived in the same state

I agree. Some ladies I like to see frequently but variety is the spice of life

Dare I say he will become a stalker?

as if he wouldn't know

Dungie pretending he's an internet tough guy...stomping his tiny legs in protest  LOL

We can be just as painfully annoying and take the guys for granted. So the door swings both ways.

No. But I do remember seeing the video for it during the early years of mtv and thinking it was funny/corny. I think it was the after the fire version, just now watched a few seconds of each.

Interesting and "Note to Self"

O yes I love to see my favorites as many times as possible Hot Hot as much as I can lolllll  
Then there the ok guys I love them to it just some are so extra nice .

How much less dangerous can this be emotionally

Let me sleep on it and I will set a line in the morning, but let me say this, the chances of our little Dungbeetle NOT acting like a skinny, spineless little rooster are going to be rather long

You are the designated driver.

Thanks London I added a new word to my vocabulary.

The more I saw a provider, the better we fucked like rabbits. No inhibitions after the third visits

the ladies (some of them who are in this as a business) get just as big a "kick" out of the clandestine, white knuckle ride that this "Hobby/Business" is.  they Want the thrill of opening the door, and seeing what is on the other side, it is an adrenalin rush.  When they KNOW who is on the other side, the only unknown is "are his underpants clean this time" or "will he have "olive garden" breath.  Those are quite tame compared to "is this dude a serial killer" or "brad Pitt on break from Angelina and all the kids."

the lady found herself wondering if she was in balance.  For after she had journeyed to Audubon Park, she sat under an orange tree, and when she looked up, she took to herself an orange and tasted it.  And it was good.  She saw the veins in the leaf, and understood that when she was angry…

Depends, if a guy is coming for a good time and he has a healthy attitude to it, you are just his paid shag bag he doesn't have to take home to his mother then great. If you feel a guy is coming to see you and bringing the feelings best to not see him and take his money.