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RockOn72 5 Reviews 4117 reads
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1 / 38

Lately since I've gotten back into the hobby last year I notice alot of providers aren't MSOG anymore like they used to be, atleast here in LA.

Don't get me wrong there are still a few providers I know that do it but seems like it's dropped off?

Wondering what others takes are & how it is elsewhere? Wondering if the pandemic has effected it all as well??

Steve_Trevor 156 reads
posted
2 / 38

None of the providers I’ve seen in the past several years have a problem with MSOG. Now, at my age *I* might have a problem, but if I’m up to it so are the providers.  

nevertoolarge 30 Reviews 121 reads
posted
3 / 38

if you can pop twice in 40 min  god bless you .. but if you are an hour appt and its only 15 min to go most girls are not going to want to be trying for that second pop at the last minute.     use that time instead for a great massage or something else to wind down your time is my suggestion.  

Sheila Starr See my TER Reviews 125 reads
posted
4 / 38

Depending on  how long the date..booked ,
Put Your Money Where Your Mouth Is
Or in this case Cock..
Wink

Hpygolky 233 Reviews 147 reads
posted
5 / 38

On the 59th minute then it might not be cool to even try. I don't know what you "think" is your recovery time is but "Man's got to know his limitations"

lester_prairie 12 Reviews 96 reads
posted
6 / 38

I'm an old guy so if I pop once it is probably the last for the evening.  I try to hold it off to near the end of the hour.  Because one you pop some girls give up and go into down-time no matter how many minutes are left on the clock.  Just because junior is limp doesn't mean he doesn't like to be stroked and sucked.  

Theocrat 14 Reviews 99 reads
posted
7 / 38

The ladies I've seen are generally ready for a 2nd if I am and if there is enough time left. As for me, the last time I popped more than once in A DAY was probably 15 years ago.

trex44 9 Reviews 110 reads
posted
8 / 38

I'm pretty much one and done at this point, being an old dinosaur.

Under the right circumstances, I can make it happen twice in three hours with the right provider.

That being said, all of the providers that I've seen in the last 2-3 years are allowing MSOG here in the PNW.

SexyKacy See my TER Reviews 105 reads
posted
9 / 38

so if gent desires to try for MSOG during a standard sesh (hour or so) s'all good & i'll do my level best to provide assist on his scoring another goal.  
on related note, my clientele skews more "mature" & i feel bad (for lack of a better term) when gent decides he desires msog & wants 1st pop quickly to allow time for recovery and somewhere in 3/4 mark its apparent no further scoring will occur (have i tortured the metaphor sufficiently?). it gives the entire sesh somewhat of a "meh" feeling imho.
Happy hobbying y'all!
xoxo
Kacy TGirl

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 111 reads
posted
10 / 38

Offer MSOG, and its always been like that.  Unchanged lately.  However, at 61, its an issue for me.  If I want two rounds, I must book two hours.   However, that formula does not hold true if I book three hours.  Lol

Twoontuesday 11 Reviews 105 reads
posted
11 / 38

This applies to kgirls....

I had an RA tell me that the best time to ask about seconds is during the co-ed shower.  It's our responsibility to manage the clock too.

After a while you'll get the rhythm down.  It's a bit of clock and cock management.

Good luck on your journey!

YMMV

Twoontuesday 11 Reviews 129 reads
posted
12 / 38

Two Times or Bust

I haven't been rejected by an AAMP kgirl RA for seconds as long as I ask respectfully and manage the clock to be on my merry way at the hour mark.

Been mongering since I was 16 and I'm 54 now.

YMMV

flyboyluke 6 Reviews 114 reads
posted
13 / 38

Must be hard on the ego to only be half a man.

100ProofOfLV See Agency Profile 170 reads
posted
14 / 38

Nothing has changed here. Bring your man-size appetite for 100 Proof GFE. How many rounds can you go?

BathtubGin 32 Reviews 107 reads
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15 / 38
Debra_Hollander See my TER Reviews 150 reads
posted
16 / 38

I haven't read any of the above comments so someone else has likely already suggested this and I've been drinking this evening so bear with me....

 
It's because TER was down and has yet regain its former..... glory?   ;-)

 
Many ladies felt pressured to provide MSOG due to "review culture" so without it?   They are only doing that which they feel comfortable doing.   That's not a bad thing.  NO one should do anythiing in this realm which he or she does not want to do.  

 
Me?   I've been around forever, started out working for an agency back in the 90s and their policy was: an hour is an hour.  

Not a "one shot" attitude but rather, "give it your best shot" for the entire length of time for which the client paid.  

 
And that's still how I do things.   I also still wear high-wasted jeans, which recently regained their popularity so perhaps MSOG will too.    :-)

GaGambler 117 reads
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17 / 38
coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 134 reads
posted
18 / 38

Cock and Clock its tough to make two rounds work in an hour.  This is what Kgirls complain about the most, and that is a guy taking 45 minutes for the first pop and THEN saying he wants seconds.  As you heard direct from the horses mouth, during the shower is the time to tell her one cup or two.  Most will be able to accommodate the customer with the advance notice, but not so much if you spring it on them much  past the halfway mark.

Y0j1mb0 22 Reviews 122 reads
posted
19 / 38

"Many ladies felt pressured to provide MSOG due to "review culture" so without it?   They are only doing that which they feel comfortable doing."

Or maybe without "review culture" to maintain baseline standards hookers are only doing the bare minimum.  Is it "comfort" or a sense of accountability?

Debra_Hollander See my TER Reviews 115 reads
posted
20 / 38

And really, isn't this potato vs potahto?

 
The ladies' personal comfort levels, attitudes and opinions of this site will differ but the result is the same.  

 
No matter the reason (whether going more than once was personally upsetting or she just doesn't think she should HAVE to do it) the absence of TER has led to quite a few companions no longer doing so.

mrfisher 115 Reviews 131 reads
posted
21 / 38

and about 75% of the gals I met had a "cum and done" policy, so even thought they advertised an hour, if you got off in fifteen minutes, you were out the door.

 
I do remember getting up to get dressed after I came, when the gal said to me:   "Where do you think you're going?   I'm not done with you yet!"

 
I couldn't believe it, she bade me to stay in bed with her until I got my boner back which probably was all of ten minutes (Ah, for the good old days.) and she then had her way with me until the hour was almost up.   She became a keeper for sure.    I wouldn't doubt that gals who gave guys their full 60 minutes had a lot less trouble holding onto customers that way.

 
Review culture has it plusses, but it isn't necessarily the only way that things get better.

Debra_Hollander See my TER Reviews 122 reads
posted
22 / 38

Yes, in the pre-review days, one and done seemed to be the standard.   I heard it many times.  

Although I've been independent for quite awhile,  in the past I worked for several agencies and had difficulty due to the way I was taught, and prefer, to do things.

One agency would book appointments back to back (no time in between) or even overlapping, advising the ladies to "get him in, get him off, get him out" as quickly as possible.   ;-)
Posted By: mrfisher
I wouldn't doubt that gals who gave guys their full 60 minutes had a lot less trouble holding onto customers that way.  
You are correct.   :-)

100ProofOfLV See Agency Profile 102 reads
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23 / 38
team_rocket_qwerty 102 reads
posted
24 / 38

From customer point of view, MSOG gives one peace of mind. If you pop early, this means you wont have a 10 minute session instead of an hour. I don't think many mongers like a 10 minute session.

 

I used to frequent storefront amps a lot, and there the policy is one and done, if you want MSOG you pay the hour price again. And so, one shot policy makes providers there try to make you cum ASAP and move to the next guy. It wasn't a big issue for me because I usually don't cum fast, but there sometimes were girls who were great actresses or had excellent kegels, and my hour session became 25 minute session or something like that.

I can see how two pops can be challenging for providers, especially if uh, well, they are ok with playing recklessly, but imo its almost a standard thing, many customers just wont see providers who only do one shot.

GaGambler 120 reads
posted
25 / 38

Not with all providers of course, but without being held to any kind of standard of service, many of the "lazier" hookers have done just that, gotten lazy.  

 
Hopefully the guys will start holding providers to higher standards once they start rediscovering TER and all the "woke" hookers who tend to dominate the Twittersphere,  charging outrageous prices, demanding deposits for even short dates and providing substandard service will become a thing of the past.

 
I wonder how long it will be before this post of mine finds it's way to one of those "woke hookers" Twitter Page? lol

TheVoiceOfReason 110 reads
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26 / 38

Well put.  It definitely provides peace of mind.  I remember decades ago when I first started I could last anywhere from 1 to 12 minutes.  Pretty large variance.  Changes as you age.  MSOG has become the expectation and the norm.  It allays concerns related to performance such as not lasting long for some guys and is a good indicator or the ladies attitude and whether she is truly GFE.  Most guys are reasonable and let the situation dictate it, but it definitely provides peace of mind.  

-- Modified on 8/9/2020 5:42:00 PM

TheVoiceOfReason 97 reads
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27 / 38

I remember when I was in my early 20's.  I called an escort agency out of the yellow pages.  Back then as soon as you finished once the lady would leave.  A super hot escort came and I was done within less than 90 seconds and she was out the door within the first 10 minutes of the first hour.  I was very annoyed, but she was super hot.  So I just did what any reasonable young man would do ... I scheduled an appointment with her for the following weekend ... except this time before we met I ensured that I jerked off 2X within the 90 minutes leading up to the appointment.  We used the full hour from then on (all future appointments) and she had to work much harder than if she would have just let me go 2X in the hour.  

-- Modified on 8/9/2020 5:55:17 PM

36363jensen 4 Reviews 93 reads
posted
28 / 38

I suppose to some. I thought you were going to say "I scheduled another for the same hour knowing she was available." ;-)

For me, however, when I was young I would have just kept at it and popped twice without stopping. Sadly, no longer an option for me at this feeble age... Should I cry now? lol

team_rocket_qwerty 101 reads
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29 / 38

How does one pop twice without stopping and the girl knowing? Lol. Maybe I misunderstood your statement. Do you mean with another girl?  

 
The only time I could cum without the girl knowing is when I party and see 5+ girls and Im shooting blanks.  I remember I ended one of my wild nights at an amp. I was kinda bored but popped inside the bag. Girl looked at the bag there was like maybe one drop and she said you didn't cum, come on let's go, and I was like eh I did. Probably the only time where I refused more fucking but I knew I'd go limp soon.

TheVoiceOfReason 101 reads
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30 / 38

Shit starts to hurt after a while.  Shooting blanks is generally when it has shifted from pleasure to pain.  Time to roll over and get a massage.

team_rocket_qwerty 100 reads
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31 / 38

Doesn't hurt for me. Feels pretty good still. Lol.

Debra_Hollander See my TER Reviews 140 reads
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32 / 38

Some ladies don't allow more than one round (or in some cases, more than one FS round) within an hour, or even longer, date because it makes them feel objectified.  

So to say it's being "lazy" is quite  a generalization.

 
Even if it's not due to feeling uncomfortable with it? Everyone's entitled to limit their own offerings to that which is comfortable for them.   Whether it's kissing, CBJ vs BBBJ, rimming, anal or doing an interpretive dance.... offer or don't offer whatever works for yourself.  BUT!   Be honest about it.  Don't promise someone something you won't deliver.  

 
IOW (ha!) they should find a way to discreetly disclose such a preference/limitation in advance so as long as they do?  
 The client is then making an informed decision and should not attempt to pressure her into going again.  

 
Everyone should be giving the full amount of time for which the client paid too, not ending the session as soon as he's finished once.   If a companion is going to do that, she should offer an a la carte menu or quick visits.  ;-)

GaGambler 122 reads
posted
33 / 38

but doing it twice is. Gotcha ROFLMFAO

 
BTW this rarely affects me personally, by the time I have finished the first time there is almost never enough time to even think about a round two in a one hour session, but for those young "two pump chumps" who are ready to go again in five minutes, they most definitely walk away feeling cheated if their "one hour session" only lasts ten minutes.

 
I remember booking a session with an "up to an hour" girl once several years ago and just for shits and grins I asked her very directly if that meant if I could "go the entire hour" I would get the entire hour and she swore up and down that I could take as long as I wanted to "up to" an hour,but that she did offer only one pop,  fucking lying bitch tried to throw me out at about the 30 minute mark and when I reminded her of our agreement she responded that "just because I claimed I could last the entire hour didn't mean she believed I could actually do it" lol In all fairness she did say that I could finish "if I hurried" which I did, I obviously never saw her again.

eastside70 47 Reviews 162 reads
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34 / 38

Isn't that the entire point of providers posting provocative photos of themselves? To entice the prospective client into wanting to see them, to objectifying them. But then once the client is in the room, it's not ok to continue to objectify her anymore? Nice premise, but doesn't work in practice.

What can occasionally happen is that the client's objectification of the provider turns into an appreciation of them as a business owner and person which is a direct result of the provider's professionalism during the date.  

If one is going to do a job, in any profession, do it well or find something else to do.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 106 reads
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35 / 38

to a provider for a fantasy GFE, not to appreciate them as a business owner.  I want to forget its a business while I'm there and pretend she's my girlfriend. I want sexy, flirty, playful, not business acumen.  Flirty and playful are not things that can be objectified because its individual human interaction, and isn't that what GFE is all about?

 
I agree with your statement about objectification regarding photos, but I don't pick someone on the basis of photos anyway.  For me, the photos are only a starting point to tell me she's not automatically disqualified by being old, fat, or heavily inked.  Reviews will tell me whether I want to see her or not.

GaGambler 120 reads
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36 / 38

When I go on "fuck fests" I often start shooting nothing but air, and it doesn't hurt a bit.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 99 reads
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37 / 38

had women suggest I am "faking it" when I get to the point that I'm cumming but no ejaculate comes out. I agree it still feels pretty good.  An O is an O.

WICardinalfan 107 reads
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38 / 38

I have spent the majority of my prime years married to two conservative women.  First one passed away.  In between marriages I learned, thanks to a very sexual lady, that I can pop twice.  She was the only one who could get me to do so.  

Marriage number  2 was at the back end of my performance era, and she was not interested in hanging around for seconds.  

So my best years of repeating are long, long gone.  Which is ok.  

With regard to being in the hobby, I enjoy the journey just as much, and sometime more than the destination.

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