I ask this because I had an experience last year where a girl came over with a pretty bad cold. She only started coughing after she phoned-in so at that point there was no going back. She was very sweet and I don't at all blame her, but I'm wondering how common this sort of thing is. Have any of you had situations like this?

apparently some clients don't like hearing that. I was really sick and didn't want anyone else to get it. So instead of hearing, "get better", they were more upset with me, saying things like "are you sure??"

I would rather be in bed trying to get better faster.

Shaye

That's unreal. I would never schedule a session if I was sick. I have to admit, since that session I've been hesitant to meet an SP during a period when I couldn't afford to get sick. It's alarming to hear that it happens to often. How many of you guys have caught colds from an SP?

If I'm sick... I think most of the reputable ladies do the same, but that's just my opinion. Usually if I have a cold or something the last thing in the world I feel like doing is entertaining! Luckily I don't get sick often

Hugs*
Nicole

I wouldn't goto a provider when I have a cold cause I wouldn't want to make them sick. I'd assume the same courtesy would be available to me, but if that's not the case, you've got to work around the cold. I've been with one provider when she had a cold and she was so apologetic, I told her not to be cause we're human and all get them.

The polite thing to do would be to inform the guy that you are under the weather with a cold, and give him the option of seeing you and risking getting sick or finding another provider.
Unless you are very sick, than just tell him you are to sick to work.
This should also be the rule for the hobbyist.  I once made an appointment with a provider a few days in advance (she books up quickly), but on the day a felt a cold coming on.  So I did this. I think she liked the fact that I was letting her know the situation before she saw me.

The Gyppo Man

you are beautiful!!!!!


Mel..meow

I just had a look at your website. Yegads Nicole, I must say that in your case I would gladly make an exception. It would be a delectable pleasure to catch a cold from you!

Since no one else will say it, I guess I will interject a little dose of the real world.

Hell yes, they come around when they are sick. I've turned several away in just the last year. An independent provider may not work when she's sick, but these agency girls, wow. For a girl to make several $100 a night I am always amazed at how poor some of these ladies live and only the money counts. When it comes time to worry about passing something on to a client, forget it. They got $$$ on the brain.

No offense, but all of you ladies who say, "I can't believe someone would do this." you should ask around more often. Believe me they do. Just like the old B&S ploy along with the "Cash-n-Dash" trick.

Oh, did I mention, some girls will show up on their period and then get pissed at you when you don't want a BJ or HJ.

Maxsmart has hit it right on the head.  Last two sessions (two different girls) she was on her period.

I would REALLY prefer that she let me know at the time of appointment what's going on.  I'm a DATY kind of guy, and if the timing ain't right, I'd like to know up front.

 



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I for one would be more upset if a provider showed up ill without letting me know.  I would in all likelihood send her home, and never call her again.  On the other hand, I live in a major metropolitan area, and getting a Plan B on short notice isn't entirely out of the question.  

The one time a provider cancelled due to illness, was fine since she did call to let me know.  She really was ill, and we have seen each other a few times since.

It was the date that wouldn't end.  After her fee and payments for meds and dr. visits it worked out to $2.08/hr.  Talk about mileage.  The point is that she never should have been working.  She knew she was sick yet still met me.  She tried to concoct a story but by then the kissing bandit had struck.  The superb service does not justify her actions.  Who knows how many others ended up sick?

You wrote:

>She tried to concoct a story but by then the kissing bandit had >struck.  

That's somewhat disturbing. Do you mean that she didn't mention that she was sick until after you'd been kissing? And what did she give you that knocked you out for two weeks?

That's precisely the sort of situation that concerns me.

I recently had a client...That hired me, knowing that I had a chest cold and head cold...It didn't matter to him...In fact he tipped me very well for coming out in my condition. So to some gents. It doesn't matter and to some..They don't want to take home a cold to thier wives...lol. Each man to his own.