I see all sorts of extravagant things on providers wish lists, and I am increasingly hearing girls talk about what they have been given. My question for the girls is: would you prefer a guy to spend money buying you gifts, or for him to spend the same money for more time with you? E.g, would you like me to buy you a $500 Agent Provocateur bustier at our $1000 date, or would you prefer I came back next week for another hour with you?
Saw one of my favorites before Christmas. Booked 1.5 hours rather than my usual 1. So the service was not as good (no DFK) and we did the same as we would do in a 1 hour meeting only talked more. She said that's what you are paying for (more time, not more sex) then she went on that I had better buy her something off of her "wish list". ??? I thought the extra $200 might make Christmas better. As always it comes down to the $$$.
Guess my standards are a heluva lot different than yours.
Shit pal...you should have told her to bend over...ram it up her ass and wish her a merry fucking Christmas. And then overstayed just for the hell of it.
I'd sure hate to know how your less than favorites treat you LOL
OTOH you may have already been the client who expected too much...and this was her way of telling your cheap ass to go away. I suspect you took the not so subtle hint?
Posted By: sympathyforthedevil
Saw one of my favorites before Christmas. Booked 1.5 hours rather than my usual 1. So the service was not as good (no DFK) and we did the same as we would do in a 1 hour meeting only talked more. She said that's what you are paying for (more time, not more sex) then she went on that I had better buy her something off of her "wish list". ??? I thought the extra $200 might make Christmas better. As always it comes down to the $$$.
But she definitely decided to stop treating you well.
How do you let a hooker tell you the extra time is for talking?
That only happens in Asia at the talking clubs...where's Udolt, to vouch for me? Lol.
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I always get a chuckle when I read "I prefer longer appointments..." on provider sites.
So they want to spend 4 hours with you and talk for 3.5 hrs? No thanks.
"I love morning trysts..."
So the woman loves to wake up in the morning and just LOVVVVVVES to suck strange cock !!! Wow !!! I understand the marketing angle, but poor chaps buy it all the time...
No sweetie... I love morning sex.. You love the money !!
Or she can get money but has to spend time with you.
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of donating for an extra half. Keep the gifts small. If I want to help out a lady... I book another appointment. Cash on the dresser each time.
Posted By: Thoracicsurgeon
I see all sorts of extravagant things on providers wish lists, and I am increasingly hearing girls talk about what they have been given. My question for the girls is: would you prefer a guy to spend money buying you gifts, or for him to spend the same money for more time with you? E.g, would you like me to buy you a $500 Agent Provocateur bustier at our $1000 date, or would you prefer I came back next week for another hour with you?
The last I checked you can pay a lot of bills with a five carat diamond.
and with a girl as low maintenance as you, I bet you could make it a couple of months on what a decent one carat stone will fetch.
go with more time. If you want to bring a gift, it shouldn't be tied to more/less compensation. It should just be a gift. Something you give her just to bring a smile to her face...not as pay, or to compete with her other clients.
This is my income... very little of which I spend on extravagances. Of my last appt (which actually was $1k)...here's the breakdown. 25% to a charity (a specific one...the number isn't always so high), 25% to savings, $250 to lessons/classes I'm taking, $50 for a yearly state park pass. The rest to gas/spending/food. So an extra $500 would be great...an extra teddy (or purse, or shoes), not so much
.....She was actually one of my ATF's at the time and told me she hoped he wasn't getting any bright ideas about hitching up UNLESS he bought her a House. Opened my eyes to the gift giving business in our hobby.
Though only the book value was 50k, and we paid nowhere near that. Saw the guy once, and never again. He gave gifts like that to all the girls he saw though, so nothing special about me for sure. He was a guy who liked to brag and would not ever go back on something he said he would do... that's how I got mine.
did you keep it? I'd personally sell that POS and buy a used Toyota Prius. My apologies to all the car fans out there.
My friend received a Mercedes SUV back in June and has already gotten into two accidents...one of them being with a parking garage wall. D'oh!!!
ML 350, so not the best Mercedes, but hey... it only cost the same as a Toyota 4 runner lol. I never paid a car note in my LIFE, and never will. If I can't afford to pay cash, I do without. Had my friend had a Toyota to sell, that's what I would have got... drug repo ha ha.
Oh, and I did get in 2 wrecks since I got it (13 total since age 15) so whatcha gonna do? My attorney loves me.
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Gifts are great, and always appreciated, but a repeat customer is the greatest gift of all. An extra hour can make sure I get the lingerie I like, or pay rent an extra month ahead 
What's the big deal about this discussion? Why is it constantly brought up and why do people think their answer is right?
Men get off on different things.. That's the easy answer.
Some men like only oral.
Some men like to cuddle.
Some men like to do it in the dark.
Some men don't like to do it, period.
Some men like chit chat.
Some men like dirty talk.
Some men like to hit it and quit it.
Some men like giving gifts.
Why think any more of it?
Just do what makes you happy and be happy.
Wow! That's a relief, Alyssa!
I was beginning to think I was strange!
Hos can I ever thank you enough?!
Jk jk.. I know that was a type-o.
Exactly! why sweat it?
Posted By: Alyssa Marie
What's the big deal about this discussion? Why is it constantly brought up and why do people think their answer is right?
Men get off on different things.. That's the easy answer.
Some men like only oral.
Some men like to cuddle.
Some men like to do it in the dark.
Some men don't like to do it, period.
Some men like chit chat.
Some men like dirty talk.
Some men like to hit it and quit it.
Some men like giving gifts.
Why think any more of it?
Just do what makes you happy and be happy.
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RodTidswell writes a "yes I fell for her thread"?
That is, of course, if he didn't write the one this morning... Lol.
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You're very sweet and thoughtful, just thought I'd say that.
I'd prefer for you to come back for another date.
XOXO
Valeriya
Buy it and they will remember. I've been told more than once I don't have to, but extra treats the next time we schedule something. If I'm dropping $400+ cash, another $50 not going to kill me and if it does, I shouldn't be doing this.
Then next week make time for another client with gifts and donation. Rather than see same guy trying to stretch his money out and get the most time and energy he can out of me possible with what money he has.
I like the guys that are generous.
I rarely see the same guy twice any way unles he was really good to me.
I have one that gives three to 900
Every time. Its nice he is a fun appt , fun for both and easy. As in not over an hour ever. Usually alot less. I always get gifts up tp 100 from him. He also is young, all italian, nice clothes, nice car and really funny. He gets to see me every sat.
I ask for seltzer water as gifts. I do appreciate small gifts. Maybe water, chocolate. Order me food for that day and next day so I dont have to cook. One guy gave me this hand blown glass ball that is a tradition folklore the sailors wiuld have them on ship to ward iff evil spirits. Then one gave me a pashmini scarf from his trip to India. The guy thats not thoughtful. I may try some one new as opposed to answering his email for second session at all. Cuz with new customer granted they arent all gonna be bug spenders with gifts. You may land one though trying new clients. I had anither obe a week agi. 700 and bag of san pelligrinos in the glass. Thats always huge cuz I take cabs to grocery stores and its a pain. I think be generous for the one time and make some ones day. Instead of trying to stretch the money out and get every last pennys worth Usually the guys that dont have alot money act like this. You can telk they are the ones that wont cum til a few min after hour. They like to be sure they get the full hour. The guys with tons of mibey are easier dates. They dont act so sex starved , like they can only afford one appt a month so they are super annoying to service. You can tell thry have sex like never they seem so sex starved
I guess it depends on the girl. Different girls like different things.
For me, I am trying to retire so extra appointment time is more beneficial to me for saving for school and the other job I'm working on. I never splurge on high price material possessions so it would be a waste for the client to buy.
Posted By: Thoracicsurgeon
I see all sorts of extravagant things on providers wish lists, and I am increasingly hearing girls talk about what they have been given. My question for the girls is: would you prefer a guy to spend money buying you gifts, or for him to spend the same money for more time with you? E.g, would you like me to buy you a $500 Agent Provocateur bustier at our $1000 date, or would you prefer I came back next week for another hour with you?
