So is booking longer than you normally do with a lady that you've seen quite often a gift? From what I've observed the "work" part is over in about the same time and then I am paying for the acting like it's a GFE.  You can stretch out the time which is basically talking and cuddling but let's face it. For most guys after 2 O's thet are done. As for the ladies.....could be 0, 1, mulitiples who knows. So if yo stretch out the time it's easier. The prep work is done (makeup, primping. room) etc.  

Oh I forgot. Time payed for is only for companionship.

So if you've seen a lady several times and it seems you enjoy each others company wouldn't paying for the extra time be a gift to each other?

Or to quote a famous line from Fast Times at Ridgemont High..."Well Mr. Hand. If I'm here and you're here, isn't this OUR time"?

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I have no doubt that I view this differently than you. But, seems to me, breaking out the "work" part from everything else (whatever that is), might diminish your overall experience.  

If all you really want is the "work" part, and you see no value in any "other" part, why would you book any time beyond that?  

You're under no obligation to do so

A while back I went on a dinner date, which I ended due to unruly behavior and constant negotiation.  

I was so worn out by this guy just by dodging his numerous attempts to get my real name and information about family, while trying to make sense of his drunken conversation, I consider that the hardest date yet.  

I ended the date early when he started getting too weird. Good thing bc he ripped me off. Blah

Most are a blast to chat with, however.  

Random thought of the day lol.

can be more difficult than the sex part.  

For something that is supposed to be as simple as P4P, it's a head scratcher to see how some guys go out of their way to complicate this.  

You would think there was some invisible force driving them to book longer than they really want to, or do things they don't want to do, or make some kind of commitment, or not be able to write honest reviews, or….

I'm pretty sure saying "no" would fix these problems.  

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and then running off, so be it; there are plenty of gals who offer HH sessions for that segment.

As for more than two shots being for guys under 30, I'm over 60 and can do two in two hours with the right gal.  It's all how you treat your body.

I also find that the cuddling and conversation are worth every dollar I pay for that time with the right gal.  Sensuality is a broad pallet and sex is just one color.  Fine company is a sublime pleasure.

must be a lot easier than trying to pretend a drunken dullard is really "interesting" for a multi hour date.

I can imagine a turnaround where the woman is thinking, or even saying, "If I put my pussy in your face, will you shut the fuck up?"

Of course that would never happen to me, I am quite the charming drunk. That's my story and I am sticking to it.

I'm a chatter box, lol. I think it's funny, but always finish my sentence.

I guess sex can be hard sometimes when we feel we're being evaluated. I feel kind of like there are guys who come in and look at every little crevice, like they're going to tell the world about every imperfection. People who have a big speech sometimes feel as if they're going to get hit with tomatoes if they stutter, lol.  

The sex is hard when I get very nervous, knowing who someone is or who they know, if they're used to seeing extremely hot, high end providers. I drop my marbles, lol. Those appointments are very intimidating, no matter how confident one is in their own skin. Sometimes there's no chemistry, or we're not sure there's chemistry on the other end because it's hard to read the guy. It's humiliating to show a naked body to someone who may go tell all their friends. If I feel they're not happy, it screws everything up.

Either way, I did not act like I thought that drunk guy was interesting. In fact, I kept telling him to behave himself and he was getting out of line. It's hard to do that; however, this was ridiculous. I think I even slipped away to the bathroom for fifteen minutes to call a friend and ask what the hell I should do, lol.

o Courtney.
For what it's worth... I pay for the time to be with you, and it's because I want all of you.  I want the complete, whole Courtney experience.    I want to know stuff about you, and maybe you about me.  
First date is just that.  It's the first chance to see if we really click.  I prefer multiple encounters, to build on what we first see.

FYI, If I need to quiet you (seriously doubtful), it would be my lips and nothing else.  Class, baby, class.  
xox

… but I don't mind if you put something in my mouth, teeheehee

WAs that bad?  

Oh well. *Post*