show that you took the time to notice something about the person or listened to their interests, hobbys. In your case I guess that would be drinking lol. Women just want to know you think they are special in some way.

I'm guessing mrfisher...

...but I'm not going anywhere near the appreciation advice!  Peace out, Mikey.

I love buying gifts for my ladies!

Only one made a habit out of buying gifts for me as well. Guess who my all time ATF is?  She had my loyalty locked in but has since retired.  


Note to all ladies: Let your date know you appreciate HIM and you may have a fan for life!


PS...The gifts were minimal but the thought alone earned my undying gratitude!

Oh, that's lovely.

I would guess who sent you the gifts, but there are just so many possibilities it would take too long.

Just the fact you shared those thoughts is a gift to us all.

Thanks.

and I have received a lot of nice gifts in return.

Often it is a piece of clothing, or some tasty gormet snacks.

One gal gave me a very practical gift:  A really lovely leather overnight bag, that I still use frequently when I check into a hotel for a date.

Giving and receiving gifts is a very enjoyable part the hobbying experience.  I definitely give more than I receive, but I really don't need much to keep me very happy.  Tonight I'm having a belated Valentines dinner with my ATF and there will be gifts involved.  I try to give her things that I know she wants and will use over time.  I want her to remember where she got the gift.

somehow, I think that since it does show you that you are special and not easily forgotten, there becomes a connection and being that it warms up the ladies heart (well it does mine) the session tends to get more exciting. Don't get me wrong, every session is special of course, but when a lady is handed a special gift whether it be gold, diamonds, perfume, lingerie, sexy toys, candles, bubble bath, flowers, her favorite drink, chocolate, or anything the gent knows she would be happy to receive, if he knew that from her personally, or obvious gifts all women love she should appreciate it with her heart.  And for some ladies like me - it makes me horny!

Also, such as the gifts I mentioned, it is always fun to turn that into a sexy part of being together.  Seeing her wear that necklace you just bought her wearing it naked, lighting the candles for ambiance in your suite, bubble bath to enjoy in your jacuzzi/ tub together, perfume you smell her wear next time you see her, lingerie to wear for a short time (lol) etc. I'm sure you get the idea.

However I don't have a gift list, never have.  But I have received some fantastic presents (thanks sweeties you know who you are!) and each one became memorable for me.  Even a trinket from overseas that stays on my nightstand.  I always remember what he gave me vividly, and I remember being extra horny that day.

SweetestLay