I know there's a lot of legit debate over what GFE means, and some even assert it means bareback. But, to me, it has nothing to do with wine, dinner and conversation. It has to do with her menu and her attitude. Re menu, it means DFK, BBBJ, DATY, CFS and MSOG. Yes, all the acronyms. Re attitude it means she makes you feel she honestly enjoys being with you and enjoys the sex.
I do lots of dinners, but they are afterwards and OTC. Dinner is not part of a session. It just happens spontaneously.
to clarify the generalities of the OP's description. I've done dinners, too... usually as part of a clock-free "Dinner Evening" package. Sometimes spontaneous, too.
You in "beeg troubles" now! LOL!
valid with your description personally. Then again, to each his own here.
Posted By: inicky46
Re attitude it means she makes you feel she honestly enjoys being with you and enjoys the sex.
Dinner is still part of the 'package' no matter where it fits in but it is typically included in the rate breakdown and most GFE gals don't watch the clock in this event. But it IS included. Key word he said...non-rushed.
Btw, nice thread pull below Nick. I mean really.
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Never pulled a thread and never will.
Wow, that was quick! You finally got a post right but immediately reverted to your losing ways. You are so far below The Mendoza Line you'll never get your head above water.
Just so you'll know, Minnie Mendoza was a career Minor Leaguer who never hit above .200. Here's how The Mendoza Line was created:
"I have always heard the expression the Mendoza line as originating with George Brett. He supposedly looked at the weekly batting averages in the Sunday paper and saw that his was lower than Mario Mendoza's, causing him to say something like "I knew I was off to a bad start when I saw my average listed below the Mendoza line" which was usually around 200. This must have happened very early one year since I cannot imagine George Brett being below the Mendoza line except during the first couple weeks of the season."
Your batting average with me is probably not even .100 so comparing you to Minnie Mendoza is probably an insult to Mendoza, but you get the idea.
From now on I'm just going to refer to you as Minnie.
Like the way pitchers are not held to the Mendoza batting line...This is not a comment on intelligence, more about time and personality.
I know the counterarguments are HTG, Cosette, and CO.
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Agree- about menu of services and attitude.
Zero to do with dinner- that's something else.
Posted By: inicky46
I know there's a lot of legit debate over what GFE means, and some even assert it means bareback. But, to me, it has nothing to do with wine, dinner and conversation. It has to do with her menu and her attitude. Re menu, it means DFK, BBBJ, DATY, CFS and MSOG. Yes, all the acronyms. Re attitude it means she makes you feel she honestly enjoys being with you and enjoys the sex.
I do lots of dinners, but they are afterwards and OTC. Dinner is not part of a session. It just happens spontaneously.
Sometimes it takes a time or two to realize that this is something that never has to be paid for. Most fellas figure that out quickly, while others seem to think that this is the norm out here in HookerLand.
I'm more than happy to buy my gal(s) lunch or dinner...but to pay them to eat and drink is NOT something that I have a need to do. But others obviously seem to have that need.
And there's no lack of gals willing to entertain me in the style I like to be entertained.
Posted By: AnotherDonJohn
Agree- about menu of services and attitude.
Zero to do with dinner- that's something else.
Posted By: inicky46
I know there's a lot of legit debate over what GFE means, and some even assert it means bareback. But, to me, it has nothing to do with wine, dinner and conversation. It has to do with her menu and her attitude. Re menu, it means DFK, BBBJ, DATY, CFS and MSOG. Yes, all the acronyms. Re attitude it means she makes you feel she honestly enjoys being with you and enjoys the sex.
I do lots of dinners, but they are afterwards and OTC. Dinner is not part of a session. It just happens spontaneously.
Some excited anticipatory greetings up front
Some necking and nibbling and hand wandering
Moving to the bed with clothes coming off while we're still trying to kiss, making a mess
On the bed, kissing, nibbling, progressing to DFK while hands are exploring
Sliding down to visit the girls a while, then down for extended DATY, hopefully an O or more for her
Rotate into 69 with BBBJ, her on top
Cover on, start in CG since I'm already on my back, let her control insertion and pace to start
Various positions
Move to side by side with DFK and FIV going for a G spot O, lots of whispering, nipping, nibbling, dirty talk
Roll on top for mish with her ankles on my shoulders, go very slow and deep, lots of teasing
End with straight mish, DFK, her arms around my neck and ankles locked behind me as I pop
Stay in place but slow way down, lots of panting and sweet talk, supporting my weight with my elbows
Roll off and cuddle some, maybe slow spoon a bit if he's still in the game
Can you tell that I'm at home tonight? That's how I remember a real girl friend
It all depends on the time booked, and what our schedules are like. Sometimes it'll be a nice leisurely meal followed by fun, other times it's 90 minutes of straight passion.
As such it's mainly an advertising term which can be spot on with the client's wishes or a total deception. I personally agree with the previous 'menu' I want to see but really GFE is an expression of the Illusion. "This is what it would be like if I were your GF." Of course it isn't. Or perhaps we leaving feeling like for that interval she was our GF... But when the door closes between us, silently the balloon is popped... until the next time, of course.
want to know what is on the menu. Simple as that.
If you can lull me into a place where I feel like you are my girl friend and we are on a date, then that's what I want.
It was not so long ago that gals were expected to act somewhat aloof and just perform some acrobatics if you were lucky.
I much prefer the GFE.
Girlfriend experience being more of the intimate or sensitive type of sex, and Pornstar experience was the hardcore aerobic banging with very little get to know you talk type sex. Of course, I am not the most worldly guy around, so I am sure to be schooled here.
I've had gals who advertise as "strictly GFE" do things in a session that even the porn hookers typically won't do. That shit doesn't ever show up in reviews...but it happens, and more frequently than you might believe.
Seems many feel that the GFE is strictly a warm and loving hour of fantasy. That works. While others seek a stricter edge to the style of play with a gal that is warm and loving LOL
Whatever works for you is all that really matters. And you can call it whatever you'd like to call it.
Posted By: wonderboy69
Girlfriend experience being more of the intimate or sensitive type of sex, and Pornstar experience was the hardcore aerobic banging with very little get to know you talk type sex. Of course, I am not the most worldly guy around, so I am sure to be schooled here.
...it's a list of services. You see from the other responses what those services are. While I do expect certain services in a session I look for those in the provider's profile and reviews. I don't expect them just because she advertises she is GFE. The services I look for are kissing, both LFK and DFK, bbbj, daty, covered intercourse in various positions. There are others I like and will do when they are on her menu but the ones I've listed are the ones the provider must offer or I will not see her. It's quite possible to deliver these services without the attitude of GFE therefore GFE can't be just a list of services.
GFE attitude is described as acting as if you are the guys girlfriend. The interaction during the session is with an attitude of affection toward him. There is conversation, sharing on some level events of the day/life, possibly sharing areas of interest, hobbies and what have you. (OK, don't giggle when you read hobbies 
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It can be done in an hour session. It's an attitude not a length of time. It doesn't require dinner, or wine, or dancing. I have had many hour sessions that were excellent GFE sessions. I've had longer sessions but again not necessary
date option. GFE is all that the OP said without the meal. Yes, it should be a non-rushed experience including lots of kissing, including DFK, lots of foreplay, DATY, BBBJ, and covered FS with MSOG available.
HooktardGold has infinitely more game than poor TS ever will.
Posted By: LeahMitchell
What does GFE mean to you? Gentleman when you're searching for a GFE friendly companion what are you expecting to be on the menu. When I think of GFE I think of a non rushed intimate dinner date with stimulating conversation over a nice glass of wine with a little cuddling and foreplay with anticipation of the protected fun.
