Well there are degrees of GFE... A lady once told me she LOVES me... Very very unexpected

That isn't the kind of GFE I expect... it's a little too extreme even if she's just doing it for her own business agenda.  However, cuddling, kissing, setting the mood and being romantic like a girlfriend does enhance the overall experience... even if I have a civvy girl.

Pretending as if she's genuinely enjoying it is GFE enough for me.

However, telling me that she loves me isn't what I signed up for, especially when fake. If a lady said it out of genuine feelings, it would be a different story, but clearly we weren't even close enough on a civvy level for it to be genuine.

GFE include: DATY, FIV, DFK, BBBJ, MSOG, and a couple more. It is not, "may include", it is included.

You mentioned you read a lot of reviews that guys feel cheated out of $ cause providers didn't offer GFE. Well, if they did the research, then they wouldn't feel that way. Services are specifically mentioned for each type of provider.

"Romantic talk, full body massage", not really. "U just want to have sex, & be out the door and finish your day". Great, u do that, and GFE services r not for you then. I am not here to judge u, but, your comments leave me to believe that u never had a true GFE experience before with a provider because many of ur statements r off.

U have a few ATF that don't offer GFE, but their nice, and r able to get the job done in a timely fashion. That's great. I hope most providers r nice. That statement to me sounds like: they seem to know u as a client, & all u r looking for is a quick nut, hence the timely fashion.

To answer ur question. Which would I prefer? Humm... That's a difficult one... Definitely GFE services for all of my sessions. GFE cost more for a reason: more services, effort, and time. Non-GFE r cheap as dirt, and any1 can afford that. Hell, I even say a 15min session on BP for $40, and that seems to fit ur bill. Ochh.... Just teasing u for ur ignorance.

GFE is the only way to go.  Fortunately, every (and I mean every) lady I've met since day one almost eight years ago has been GFE...every one.  Maybe that's why I have no problem securing second rendezvous" and more with just about all!   Treat the ladies' right, be a gentleman, and they will reciprocate...

I agree i'am not a GFE guy too, but what scares me is that i don't even bother trying to finish up with my ATF anymore i insert in and go for about 2 mins and im like "i don't want to do this, she seems tired from other clients"...

I'm telling you im becoming pansy i actually care about my ATF ( don't get me wrong i get hard for my ATF just being in front of the door)

p.s i'am not falling for this broad.....

The answer for me is, neither.

I am not into the GFE thing. I don't like the fantasy. I do not DFK providers, I do not pretend they are my girlfriend, and I don't want them to act like they are. At the same time I love talking to the ladies and getting to know them. I don't just want bed them and move on. I don't rush. I almost always book the max I am allowed on repeats so I can relax and enjoy the lady in ways other then sticking my dick into her. I guess I am into the "friends with benefits experiences".

I would love to have a "friends with benefits experiences" with Denisa Heaven from MetArt. Enjoy her photo

And maybe "GFE" is a mis-nomer.  Nobody can agree on exactly what it is.  To me, it does NOT mean I'm having a fantasy that she's really my girlfriend.  More like we're fuck-buddies.  I don't want her to pretend she's romantically involved with me.  I want her to pretend she's hot and horny for me.  This does NOT mean we don't talk a bit first (and afterwards).  First of all, it's rude to just jump her. I love to joke around and tease the ladies and am not into 'wham, bam, thank you, ma'am."  I am there for a fun time and some hot sex, not cuddling or a full body massage. Believing she's your girlfriend is just dumb, IMO.
So I'm thinking that the OP is just into his own idea of GFE.  But I don't care what your definition  of GFE is, if it doesn't include DATY and BBBJ, it ain't GFE.  Unless it's '50s GFE and your girlfriend says, "I'm not putting that thing in my mouth!"

Myself, I'm a GFE kind of guy, but I harbor no grudge against the wham, bam, thank you maam guys at all.

After all, isn't that what PSE is supposed to be about, and that's a very legitimate offering.

You may well be the majority point of view, I do not know.  Certainly there are many who feel the way you do and that is not wrong.

I am one of those who very much does seek the "GFE" kind of date.  I make no excuses or apologies, it is what I enjoy.  It is why I tend to see a few ladies on a repeat basis rather than the new face of the day.

There are ladies out there who prefer each category as well.  Neither is better or worse, just different.  The biggest value of reviews for me is telling the lady's attitude and whether she is a likely good match for me.

Im not looking for some provider to pretend to be my girlfriend.  I don't care for cuddling or kissing all that much.  

I seem to have a good time either way.

My best friendship with a provider has been no gfe, we don't kiss or cuddle.  We hangout, drink, bs, fuck, and then we go our seperate ways til we meet again.

I'm still knew at this, but for me the GFE experience is quite different than the standard provider experience, and out of my nine providers so far I've only had two GFE experiences where it actually feels like she is your girl friend. I found it thrilling and a little bit scary, like all of a sudden your trying the hard stuff.  The standard provider experience, what I call PSE, she an actress, and you feel like you're in a porno movie, lots of fun; but the GFE experience really gets deep inside you.