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getting "wee wee" checked out
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Rod -- Good question.  So, yes, getting tested was my first thought. I got tested immediately the first time there was burning.  Everything came out negative.  Feelings went away, so no big deal. Then the same thing happened again.  Alot of burning.  Got tested again.  Everything still negative.  Then it occurred to me that it just might be the condom. So for awhile I asked for only BBBJ, and everything was fine. Then I tried the condom again recently and immediately the same problem.  

It was not a problem in the past because I had been married for twenty-some years and didn't use condoms then.  Then when I got into the hobby after the marriage ended, it was not a problem for  awhile, but then seemed to develop over time.  Definitely odd to develop something this late in life, but I am grateful to those who offered solutions above

...always end up giving me a mild burning feeling, after the fact, on the inside (urethra).  Does this happen to anyone else?  any potential solutions -- other than sticking with BBBJ?  (obviously, BBFS is not an option I want to think about).

Changed my sex life immensely. When I used to use latex, sometimes the sex was ok, but afterwards I got UTI's, my vag hole was all cracked and burned, etc. I could have never done this job if I hadn't figured it out before I started doing this. I thought it was the sex.  

Also look into the lube you're using, if you are. Skyn NON-latex condoms work very well for me. Trying won't hurt. I'd make a special request before your next appointment after you're healed. Used to take me about a week to get over it. Sucked.

-- Modified on 1/23/2014 9:07:53 PM

I have to ask. You are just figuring out, you could potentially have a latex allergy?

Is it considered bad form for a client to suggest female condoms to a provider?

I think it doesn't hurt to ask. No one should be offended by it - it's a safe and valid question, just not every girl uses it.

Posted By: WickedBrut
Is it considered bad form for a client to suggest female condoms to a provider?

Cosette696 reads

seriously, you can't have even the slightest erection problems or they're useless.

Especially with a tight vagina, insertion time is 30 seconds +, that can mean the difference in proceeding for some, but once it's in, it's so good for him(or so I've heard, seems to feel like he's not wearing anything at all).

Tried a lubrication free condom which almost fixed my issue. I bought cranberry juice which has solved the problem for me.

Latex allergies could be it, but many people say spermicide or that N-9 stuff makes their dick holes burn.
Simple solution. Go to an allergist, and ask them to test you for latex allergies.
If you have no allergies then it's probably the N-9

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