As an older guy, my MSOG days are starting to fade, sometimes it works, but only when the lady "forces" it out of me, which is great when it happens, but I don't "count on it". Sometimes I've been given permission, but without the right "motivation" I just go on forever and it becomes a big disappointment for everyone involved. 

Therefore I've developed a new approach, the OneSOG, but this involves employing "holding back" techniques, stopping, starting, cock rings and pinching the penis.  It's really allot of fun, but I do seem to go on for quite some time, and lately I've been getting complaints.  Nothing major, just subtle hints, like; "Are you holding back?", or, "Hey, eventually you do come, don't you?", and my personal favorite, "OK dude, pick one; mouth, ass, tits or hand, but this pussy's had it".

Now I thought I was compensating by booking longer dates, but i think it's just making matters worst. And I've begun to notice some ladies have what appear to be time limits on their web site; they'll offer a four hour date but there's a certain number of hours of required "public time", or, conversely, the longer dates only include a certain amount of "private time".  So I'm starting to think my expectations might not be shared by all the ladies.

Now the last time I had this much sex in my life it was 35 years ago when I was in college. Then the complaint was the opposite problem, "What, you're done already?", so I'm a little caught of guard here and I like some advice.

I want us both to have a good time, and I do like the extended activity, and I only get to hobby about ten times a year so I like to savor my opportunities; but I don't want to wear out my welcome.

So here are my questions:

Should I discuss this prior to my session in my emails ? How should I word it? Is there an acronym for it?   (MHNSFS , multiple hour non stop full service ?)

What's a reasonable amount of time to to FS? Twenty minutes, an hour? Two? Three?

Should I book shorter more frequent dates, one at 6, come back later around 9 ?  Maybe with two different girls ?

Should I try duos ?

Should I mix it up a little more, DATY, FS, DATY, FS ?

Does Greek help?  I only tried that once, I don't really understand the big appeal, but I'll try it, if it would help share the work load with the vagina.

Seriously, any advice will be appreciated.

Thank you.

1. No. You'll freak out or bore the working girl to death.
2. 20-30 mins.
3. Yes. Gives you a chance to recharge.
4. No. Won't make a difference.
5. Yes. Why not?
6. No. Won't make a difference.

provider, she simply won't see you again but I doubt she would not give you a reference. I personally do not have a rate for more than 2 hours of straight playtime and there is a reason for it...read my reviews. I let guys know upfront what my abilities are, and they can pass or see me based on that.

I can't imagine ever tiring of giving head, but yes the vagina is not so accepting. Too much is simply too much for some people. I would kindly let your requests and issues be known upfront, and I really don't think you will have a problem finding numerous women to cater to your needs.

I would much rather a guy who did make me back off so his final outcome was actually explosive vs. one who tries to see how many pops he can get in an hour, never achieving the second or third.

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I too have come to emphasize a drawn out round one for maximum enjoyment. Lots of foreplay, DATY, and 69, then FS.  A prolonged round one even more draining though, affecting both the desire and execution of round 2.  Maybe not as much FS as you describe, and def no complaints. So yeah, mix it up more.

Round 2 often started and almost never finished -- can be frustrating for both and not particularly enjoyable.

I've become more of a quality over quantity kind of guy, as I started getting older.  My MSOG days are also starting to fade ...LOL.  Whenever I see a new provider, I always let her know during the session that a second cup is not always possible, but I usually don't hold back.  I also don't expect her to go non-stop, if we have a 2 hours or longer session.  We often take breaks in between and I enjoy pleasing my partner as much as she's pleasing me, so we share the workout ...LOL.

If you enjoy longer sessions, you may enjoy seeing a provider who is knowledgeable in Tantra.  One of my favorite ladies who recently retired was into tantra and her sessions were always a mind blowing experience.

I have a few friends who like to go straight for four hours (yes, they are real sexual freaks and their reviews are not embellished - thanks goodness for five hour energy shots!) and friends who enjoy only 30 minutes of sexual intimacy during multi-hour engagements.

Determine what works best for you and discuss your needs and desires with the lady of your choice. But do not send her an email to discuss this concern. Wait until you know her and can comfortably talk about BCD activities or she may get freaked out and think you are LE.

Good luck!

...they aren't what sex is all about. Sure, it's an important point of sex (probable one of the most important points), but that's not necessarily what makes or breaks sex. My experience as a woman (and a multi orgasmic one at that) may be different than yours. But in my experience, I have had sex with just one orgasm that has been every bit as satisfying as sex with five or more. Quality, not quantity

I would suggest maybe yes, booking slightly longer sessions (if you're normally going in for 1 hour, may try 2) and let the lady know that you're interested in being teased. I personally think that the art of a good tease is underrated. And yes, that will require mixing it up a little bit more between DATY, BJ and FS. But in the end, it sounds like you would have more fun doing that.

Dude, honestly, do we have to hear about how long u can or can't go??
WTF??
Just go fuck and figure it out yourself!!
Since when did fucking become rocket science??

I can only speak for myself, but I enjoy being with/inside a woman as much as I enjoy ejaculating.

I haven't been able to unload twice in an hour in about ten years.

I frequently tell providers that I want them to go slow and easy, and I want to last as long into the hour as possible.  Since I like to do at least 10 minutes of 69 (I usually have to remind her to take it easy a few times), that helps.  Generally, I then switch to cowgirl and ask the girl to go slowly, preferably just moving her hips forward and backward.  Then, maybe I'll have her turn around for RCG for a while, still going slowly.  Finally, I'll switch to missionary, and that's when I shoot my load.  I can usually go for at least 30-40 minutes if she cooperates.

I have had one provider that complained that I was fucking her too slowly.  She was hot, but I stopped seeing her after about the third time she ruined my mojo/pacing by complaining about something or another (going too slowly, accidently messing up her hair, her leg hurting, etc.).