That would be consistent with an increase in testosterone in your system.
Not getting laid is way less of a mental block than not getting proper sleep.
I'm basically useless if I try and cut back to 4-5 hours of sleep.
On the topic of not getting laid though. I've done sex-fasts before where I don't get laid or masturbate for a couple weeks at a time. The result of which is a kind of "reset". I wind up more engaged in life and seem to have a clearer head overall. Afterwards, sex is much more erotic and intimate feeling. I wouldn't go so far as to say 'more intense' just different, fresher in a way.
I know that we're usually all hedonist pigs here, and I'm very much included in that, I just think a little self denial every now and then is healthy for your mind.
with the price of a session in their pocket even consider self-denial? What would be the point? A healthy mind is overrated and inconsistent with being involved in P4P, IMO. I try to balance what's left of my healthy mind with plenty of debauchery of the flesh, and there is no shortage of young women who, for a relatively modest fee, will help me explore the depths of depravity. A happy life is about achieving balance. That's my story and I'm sticking to it.
You can say that about many, many things CDL.
Why would someone not eat when they were able to?
Why would you not tell someone to fuck off if you were able to?
Why would you not sawzall the roof off a Lincoln town car and drive it off the Santa Monica pier if you were able to?
Part of the answer too all of these questions is that there's a time and place for everything, the other part being that self control is generally a virtue and self denial is often necessary to maintain any semblance of self control. I would go so far to say that if you don't control yourself you really don't control anything, which isn't a particularly pleasant way to live in my book.
I always thought self-control was an excuse, rather than a virtue. I figure I'm only going to be here 90-100 years, and I'm already well past the halfway mark, so I can't think of a good reason to deny myself much of anything. Self-denial merely for its own sake, or to say "look at my self-control" seems pointless at this stage of my life. However, I will agree to the extent that I do exercise a lot of self-control when it comes to things that could negatively affect my health, but fucking younger women is not one of them. I just don't see any downside to continuing my hedonistic ways in that regard. Once in awhile, one of these young hotties gets me extra excited and I even get in some cardio time without going to the gym!!! That's a win-win in my book.
We've never discussed it, but I am guessing I may be quite a bit older than you, so we are probably seeing this from two different perspectives, and there's no reason why we can't be both right when you view the question from each other's ages. I was much more controlled and careful when I was younger because I was still in the wealth-building stage of my life and didn't want to make mistakes that were a money-suck.
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How often do you have sex when in a new relationship? Once a day? twice a day? maybe even more than that? If it's ok to have sex several times a day with the same woman then what is wrong with having sex with a different woman every day?
For a guy with a few bucks in his pocket it's ridiculous to deprive yourself from having regular sex with the ridiculous excuse of "self control" Now if you couldn't afford it, or became excessive, like maybe seeing two or three different girls every single day for months on end now THAT could be problematic. I try to get laid "most days" the same as I would if I had a hot girlfriend, I don't see anything at all excessive about my sexual appetite.
Where I am calling BULLSHIT is your statement that you are BOTH right, You are most definitely not both right, you are right and he is wrong and that's all there is to it. He is making false equivalencies based on his own situation not yours, or mine for that matter. Let's make him a deal, HE can go without and we can go own doing what we have been doing for years.
Remember when people were speculating that Michael Jordan might have a gambling problem? I think he lost about a million dollars one year, but what they didn't take into account was that very same year he made $100,000,000.00. Blowing 1% of your income on a hobby is hardly problematic. I don't claim to speak for you, but speaking for myself the money I blow on pussy is hardly life altering and I am not about to slow down because some dumb kid thinks i should excercise more "self control"
I seem to have found myself under the skin of Gaga. Fascinating.
I'm not suggesting slow down, I'm suggesting that occasionally depriving yourself of what you want is healthy for you and leads to greater enjoyment. It has nothing to do with money.
You can test this. Set a timer on your phone for 90 seconds (or however long you think is difficult, but doable). Hold your breath and start the timer. Don't bitch out halfway through. When it goes off, take a breath and tell me that isn't the sweetest air you've breathed in awhile.
By all means, bang chicks until your heart explodes, but you ought to make sure you own that appetite and aren't out of control, fiending for an orgasm out of compulsion. Doing anything out of compulsion carries a certain misery by default, and what is the struggle of life if not one enduring to escape misery?
I do think that CDL has a good point, that at a certain age, you may as well enjoy the good years you have left. I'm ~30, so practically a spring chicken compared to most guys here. I don't think that inherently disqualifies what I'm saying.
I have sex virtually every day. Which would you rather do, have sex every day or jerk off every day? BTW having sex once a day is hardly a lot, it wasn't that many years ago that I would often have sex several times a day. Everyone has different appetites.
And sorry, but your age does disqualify you from giving me advice on how much I should fuck. I am not telling you that you should be fucking three times a day like I did at thirty, so I am hardly going to listen to you when you suggest that perhaps I fuck too much. I have been enjoying "the good years I have left" for decades. Life is short, make the most of it. I can excercise self denial when i am dead. At thirty you think you still have "forever" thirty years from now you will wonder where all the time went. Very few people have regrets about all the things they did, what they regret the most are the things they didn't do when they had the chance.
I wonder how many people told Ernest Hemingway that he should exercise a little more self control? I am hardly an Ernest Hemingway except perhaps in my wildest dreams, but I have been to dozens of countries, ate the best food, drank the best booze and fucked literally thousands of different women and I don't have a single regret about any of it. Hopefully you'll be able to say the same thing when you get to be "old" like me. lol Just remember, tomorrow is not guaranteed to any of us, even you young whipper snappers. lol
I'm not giving you advice on how much you should get laid, and I'm not implying that you aren't enjoying your life either. I'm giving you advice on how to be in charge of your appetites because it'll let you enjoy getting laid more.
Also ol' Ernie isn't exactly the epitome of enjoying life, or of an overall lack of self control. Even though the man did great things his life was far from all roses. He decided his life was bad enough at 61 to suck-start a shotgun. I think he had a few good years left in him.
I haven't been laid for going on 48 hours now and you can see just how fucking grumpy I am getting, can you even imagine how fucking foul my mood would be if I went two fucking weeks?
I don't need to fast to enjoy food. I do mix up my diet so I am not eating steak every fucking day, and by that same philosophy I don't fuck the same woman every day, nor do I fuck only women of a certain type or race. Just like you might choose to eat Chinese one day and Italian the next, I do the same with women so I don't get bored, in a typical week I might fuck two Asian girls, one white girl, one black girl and one Latina.
I'll make you a deal, you keep being you and I'll keep being me. You really wouldn't like me if you saw me after a couple of weeks with no pussy. I honestly can't remember the last time I went two weeks without getting laid, it's been years and years since I have gone that long, and unless my dick falls off or I fall deathly ill it's going to be MANY years before I ever abstain for that long again
You're just having withdrawals. The first few days is the worst of it. As long as I met you at the end of the couple weeks of poon-fasting I'd probably like you just fine provided you didn't pull a Hemingway and opt-out of your own skull by then.
but I can't promise I won't get "homicidal" urges, so if you see me carrying a shotgun, my advice is to keep walking if you know I haven't had sex for an extended period of time. lol
And don't worry about my withdrawals, I am sure I will "get some" before the night is over.
I do have "withdrawals", but its because I just want to stay inside and she won't let me.
A lot, actually!
Just-sayin
...for the first time, he rolled over and said: "As Balzac said, 'There goes another novel'." Balzac believed that sex depleted a man's intelligence.
Likewise in "The Abstinence" episode of Seinfeld, George couldn't have sex with his girlfriend because she had mono. As time went on, George got smarter and smarter to the point where he learned Portuguese in a couple of days. Then he had sex and became stupid again.
FWIW
I get tired and fall asleep. Too stressed from work and a session just releases al the tension, literally and figuratively. So, I'm an "easy" date. Just snuggle up and let me sleep.
I find that girls have a really difficult time not messing with me. They want to play with my hair, talk, or something fidgity.
Ladies, please let me nap!
On what you’re saying when you post distractions like that. But please don’t stop.
So what were you saying???
..... add to that the endorphin and other brain chemical rush that cums from the orgasm causes me to be much happier and my mental clarity is far greater than before the play session. Interestingly, my orgasm with these partners is far better than when by myself, so it's not just the physical actions that cause the euphoria. I actually break out in loud laughter upon my release with my partners.
Medical science has shown that the orgasm releases the same brain chemicals that cocaine and heroin cause the brain to release. So, it makes sense that we habitual fuckers show similar depression, as other chemical addicts when we don't get the release our brain is expecting.
Thank you ladies.
I tend to savor the memory as long as possible, so mental tasks get in the way. I also have to admit sometimes being a little weak in the knees after a nice session, so I need a few hours of recovery time before I lace up the skates and hit the ice.
I've never equated my mental and physical health with getting laid. I stubbed my toe yesterday and the BS I read and deal with gives me headache every once in awhile. I shouldn't complain.
Pussy makes me happy.
Considering that you drove off with her after the homecoming, and she became Mrs. Blutarsky, probably worth the fall, and the 7 yrs. in college. 
The ladder fell with me still on it. I had plenty of anesthesia in my system so I didn't feel much of anything. Damn I miss those days. BTW, if you couldn't tell, I still love looking at hot women in lingerie. 
Yes!
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