OK, I've got a brain-tickler for the forum. I'm expecting 8-12 men to attend my GB on Monday. Several of them have *separately* asked about DP. Several of them have *individually* asked about waterspouts.
As you may guess, I'm down for it all. What I don't wish is to make any specific guest uncomfortable. How do I play matchmaker to the men who want to get kinker and especially, how do I play matchmaker for the men whose kinks require collaboration with each other? And how do I do this without alienating men for whom the whole GB is already intense? I can't exactly yell, "OK, loves, it's DP time!" (Or can I?) Lend me your thoughts....I am very interested in being a part of an event where a higher end provider or maybe even a porn star sells admission to a three-hole gangbang. Is there any trick to finding these events? I have put in some effort and it seems to be a needle in a haystack. I have found a few but they are far away from me (Florida) and the timing is bad. I would travel just for one of these events.
You might want to ask on the Porn Star Board, too.
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One time, I accidentally clicked on a porn site (pornhub or similar) . As I accidentally clicked on some free pornos, some would include self-promotional ads such as: "So-and-so Gangbang Productions. If you want to be in a gangbang, contact us at [contact info]. ..." You'll have to assess the quality and authenticity of such recruitment ads. I seem to recall a company in FL and a company in SC or NC.
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Start your own production company! Don't forget the 2257 forms!
I am very interested in being a part of an event where a higher end provider or maybe even a porn star sells admission to a three-hole gangbang. Is there any trick to finding these events? I have put in some effort and it seems to be a needle in a haystack. I have found a few but they are far away from me (Florida) and the timing is bad. I would travel just for one of these events.
12 fps or bust for me! It’s all been downhill in the film industry since I shot that masterpiece in 1878….
I'm not trying to embarass you -- except, perhaps, for having a bad memory -- but didn't you also shoot vids of nekkid men and women as "The Human Figure in Motion"? Do you have any previously unpublished gangbang vids that you're trying to recreate in Hi Def?
12 fps or bust for me! It’s all been downhill in the film industry since I shot that masterpiece in 1878….
Yes I was one of the earliest pornographers, although I denied it was pornography at the time. Now that I am a member of a mongering site willing to line up with other dudes to fuck ladies in all three holes I will just admit it was pornography.
Look for alternative lifestyle or fetish platforms. If you've got the ability to move about the country and donate to the cause, it's out there.
Does that include high end providers though? I think of those as some guy putting his wife out there for extra cash.
I found two TER providers who seem to do gangbangs both in San Francisco. They are very far away from me but they are both also hot as fuck and there is a good chance I will try to get in on one or both of those. But are there others maybe closer (Florida)?
There is a smokeshow blonde in Florida that is an active swinger and will do multiple partners. The gal in the link travels the country and is widely open about her locations. Just gotta dig, it's out there. Just takes the time to travel and the means to do it.
I was inline to be part of one of her GBs in SD, but my business trip got canceled and I had to back out. I was very very bummed!!!
… but it’s never occurred to me to try to set it up professionally. It does sound fun as hell. Just requires the right space, and security for me, and other logistics.
How would you interested gentlemen find out about such an event?
Would you expect it to be priced more, less, or the same as seeing the provider individually?
The two I found out about advertised their gangbangs on Tryst. I used a keyword search to find them. I was really doing my homework to find this service.
Pricing might depend on level of service. I would think charging your normal rate would be reasonable depending on your normal level of service one-on-one and your level in the gangbang.
Thank you! That’s super helpful. Good to know it would come up in a keyword search. I wouldn’t want to put it on FetLife … the vibe for those is too, ahem, democratic for my look and target market.
Also, as MaggieLinn2 mentioned, the flake rate is astronomical for GBs.
the attendance would be questionable. There's a few guy in MPLS that are rather prominent on another site that have some pretty reliable crews. If you've ever thought of visiting and are interested, reach out, I'll put you in touch!
That flake rate is rough for these, it makes it a bit of an exercise in trust to commit to one.
I'm experimenting with some higher reservation fees this time around in an attempt to find the most reliable guests... we will see how it goes!
This implies that at a reservation fee in the hundreds of dollars, you still had a major problem with guys flaking. Good lord.
The problem, of course, is that for a one on one booking, if someone pays and doesn’t show, you still have the payment. But if everyone’s paying under the expectation of a gb, and then only one guy actually shows up, there’s no gb.
I feel like I would want to “seed” it with a couple of reliable partners in case most of the paid reservation guys flaked.
Hmmmmmm
I've been looking for new recreational activity to replace pickleball. Anybody want to buy a used racket?
… but it’s never occurred to me to try to set it up professionally. It does sound fun as hell. Just requires the right space, and security for me, and other logistics.
How would you interested gentlemen find out about such an event?
Would you expect it to be priced more, less, or the same as seeing the provider individually?
Love this analogy. If we run with it, my regular dates are like my weekly club practice, and then a 3H GB is the big tournament I train for all year.
Pickleball? I would have guessed that you are more the LaCrosse type.
Love this analogy. If we run with it, my regular dates are like my weekly club practice, and then a 3H GB is the big tournament I train for all year.
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We'll need to have a P411 vs TER league series game...
I volunteer as... home base.
Team names, please. I know you have ideas.
Why can't you can do both PB and GB?
Pandora is well reviewed on TER and posts on this board. She advertises gang bang events and is hosting one on December 1st in NYC. Her Tryst ad is linked below. I’ve never seen her but she is offering what you’re looking for. Per her ad she has them once a year.
Yes she is one of the two I have found so far. She combines two of my biggest fantasies throatfucking and gangbanging. Apparently has little to no gag reflex. Sadly I am going to NYC soon but leaving right as she is arriving. Doh!
Change your itinerary so your schedules align.
Wish I could. She will have to haunt my dreams for a while. I am determined however to one day thoroughly probe her claims of not having a gag reflex. In the name of science of course.
Hi, it's me, haunting both your dreams and your posts now... Hehe. I do love a fellow scientist.
If you won't make it for Dec 1st, I will be back in NYC Jan 21st to 25th, FYI!
Just a regular tour that time, not a GB, but you could evaluate my claims very... thoroughly.
OMG me and my big mouth! I am in Florida. I spent some time emailing with your assistant last week when I realized I was just barely missing your NYC adventure. Will figure something out - maybe just go to SF when I get the chance.
I am so flattered, thank you for mentioning me!
The point of this board is to share information. You offer something that is rare and makes you unique. You deserve the recognition.
Join FetLife and you can find events posted. Attendees run the gamut.
You can travel to London for regular gb parties. See the attached link.
Most of the fetlife gangbangs are just low level prostitution. YMMV on that one. I think he's more interested in being one of the guys in a pro gb film shoot.
Not looking to be filmed. Just want a very attractive provider. Plenty of those outside of porn. But a porn star would be great too. Very interested in the Pandora DuPont GB for example.
You’re right, a lot of these events are low level prostitution. Also, the women involved are usually not very attractive to say the least. Finally, the guys that show up are usually… low quality... It usually isn’t a very sexy atmosphere. I don’t think they fulfill anyone’s fantasy.
There is one in MPLS tomorrow evening that I, unfortunately cannot attend. 3 couples, 3 advertised ladies and supposedly a couple single gals coming to check it out and test the waters. I think there is a nominal donation but def not what a session would cost. As of an hour ago, once spot left open for dudes. I cannot speak for the civies that are attending but the "hosts" are not low level. Two are am porn stars and one did some years ago.
I'm sure there are plenty that are fundraisers for the gals or the organizers but in my experience, I've seen some real appreciation when I've handed someone a Ben rather a 20.
I hosted a couple of these before Covid. A few went well but only had a few people show up while many said they would but we’re all talk. The ones I did do were fun though.
Marla and Tony. They are reviewed on here and she takes a dp like a champ
…i would enjoy that more if i could afford at least five providers…
I don't know how you define "far," but I have something just like this scheduled for December 1st in NYC!
Planning is in full swing, and there's still space (in the room and in me, hehe) for more guests. I would love for you to join.
i am trying to imagine the subtext of the conversation you may have with the person sitting next to you on the plane flying to NYC for this planned dec 1st romp…
Hah, you got me. I suppose I have a genuine discomfort with prevaricating, even when decorum demands it. Still not liable to gush about a gang bang to a gaggle of midwest tourists just because they had the sincere misfortune of sitting next to me.
"Bill, I know your wife's right there, but if you buy a Wifi pass, you can register before we touch down!"
A man is flying on an airliner and finds himself sitting next to a gorgeous woman. They start chatting and he asks her what she does and where she's going. She replies, "I'm a world-renowned expert on nymphomania and I'm flying to a conference where I'll be the guest speaker. I've had sex with hundreds of men." He asks, "Please tell me which nationalities are the best lovers?" She replies, "Despite what they say about Blacks and Italians, the world's best lovers areAmerican Indians and Jews." Then she stops and adds, "I'm sorry, I never even asked you your name."
He replies, "Tonto Ginsberg."
Hah, that was silly and delightful.
Got another? About gangbangs, even? Still need something to break the ice at the beginning...
A third grade teacher is talking to her class about heaven and God. She asks the class "what part of your body do you think goes to heaven first?". A bunch of hands go up. She calls on Johnnie.
"Okay Johnnie, what part of your body do you think goes to heaven first?"
Johnnie says "I think it's your head" and the teacher asks why he thinks that. He says "it's the part of our body that's closest to heaven".
The teacher says "oh, very good answer. Anyone else have a different answer?" Again hands go up and she calls on Suzie.
"Okay Suzie, what part of your body do YOU think goes to heaven first?"
Suzie says "I think it's your hands because your hands point to heaven when you pray". The teacher says "that's a wonderful answer! Anyone else?"
Again hands go up and she calls on Billy. "Okay Billy, what do YOU say?"
Billy says "I think it's your feet".
The teacher gives him a strange look and says "why on earth do you think that??".
Billy responds "well, the other night after I went to bed I woke up to go pee and I walked past my parents room and my mommy had her feet up in the air and she was yelling 'oh God, I'm coming' ".
A member of the Schmohawk Tribe, as I recall.
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Here's how the Fugawi tribe got their name:
The tribe was wandering the plains, hopelessly lost. Finally one day their chief stopped, raised his hands to the sky and cried: "Where the fugawi?!"
"The Figawi Race
What it is: An annual charity sailing race from Hyannis to Nantucket, held on Memorial Day weekend.
Race format: A pursuit race where boats start at different times based on their handicaps, with the first to cross the finish line winning.
Tradition: The weekend includes not only the race but also parties, a charity ball, and a traditional clambake.
Participants: The race is open to over 200 competitive boats, 24 feet or larger, with 15 different classes.
Origin of the name: The name is a humorous reference to a Bostonian accent saying, "Where the [expletive] are we?!" when arriving in the fog. "
From AI Overview.
OK, I've got a brain-tickler for the forum. I'm expecting 8-12 men to attend my GB on Monday. Several of them have *separately* asked about DP. Several of them have *individually* asked about waterspouts.
As you may guess, I'm down for it all. What I don't wish is to make any specific guest uncomfortable.
How do I play matchmaker to the men who want to get kinker and especially, how do I play matchmaker for the men whose kinks require collaboration with each other?
And how do I do this without alienating men for whom the whole GB is already intense?
I can't exactly yell, "OK, loves, it's DP time!"
(Or can I?)
Lend me your thoughts....
The way I see it... were the rules for the GB set already?
Given there's very little time left it may not be wise to change the rules. However, I will say that many men who enjoy things like gb, generally enjoy things like dp. Watersports can be trickier as it's more of a kink.
I'd take a poll ASAP if possible and see what men think. I do think majority will be for dp as I haven't seen many men who enjoy gb but wouldn't want dp. If there is majority who'd be down to dp Id just dedicate some time to non-dp play so guys who signed up for non-do can do their thing. This way everyone wins? However if rules were set in stone and hammered out over a long period of time, there might be some dudes disappointed. It's gonna have to be your call as to reading the client's mindsets.
I will say gangbangs are already, ahem, intimate with your dick inevitably touching someone else's dick at some point. Usually people insecure about this are the ones who might be asked to leave. I was at one gb where a dude got kicked out because he caused a scene with his junk being touched by someone else's junk.
I feel like DP is a pretty standard part of a GB. I would suggest just stating upfront that it’s something you want and then you can either ask for it when you’re ready or they can ask whether you’re ready for it when someone wants to.
Personally, I don't think anybody would be offended if you expressed some of what your desires are. I'm sure a couple of the gentlemen will raise their hand saying that they are game for that action. It can be incorporated without alienating.