there are only three things that make it uncomfortable:

Smelling like cigs, cigars, booze or 420
Smelling like you haven't showered yet
Insisting on crossing a clear-cut boundary

The cigs and cigars are still doable, despite the smell (cigars are a little harder to take a breath around, but still, they're doable).

If you've toked, I'll walk out or won't even let you in the door (can't stand the odor of it, plus it sets off my asthma like mowed grass). If you look stoned or behave like it (whether illegals or alcohol), I'll also get out of your place as quickly as possible or won't let you into mine.

The lack of shower is doable even if you refuse the hints, but I don't like it.

Crossing the boundary, whatever it is, is a fast ticket out of my room or my leaving yours.

As for the fun itself, I can get off as slowly or quickly as you do. It's all good!

Easy! One question at a time please...

Are you trying to scare us off?

i guess from a Domina point of view, it is the losers who think that a Dominatrix is the same as an escort ie the ignorance involved

Because I am female..

what I like today may not be my mood tomorrow. But as a general rule. What makes me comfortable.
1. That  you provide reference info, date and time upfront, with polite letter of introduction. 2. when I meet with you, You don't ask me questions that are off limits.. money etc.. Relax, share a glass of wine with me, or just talk to me so we can get a feel for each other. RELAX, I won't bite you. unless you ask..

I DO LIKE TO STOKE YOUR EGO!. I LIKE THE POWER.. But, I do need some feedback as well..

The agressive gentleman. I LOVE! If I know you and trust you. depending on my mood..

Don't need the booze, but do like to have something inbetween the deed........

Over the Top? We had chemistry, I am still a girl I want to feel like I have known you forever, You had some thought about me.. Please, Please don't make it all about me. (that is really not so fun) remember I am a giver too.. I will always try to surprise and make each meeting better then the last if you put some effort into it too...

Getting aquainted

I prefer a less rushed session and am considering requiring a two hour minimum in the future, because one hours make the man feel rushed to get their money's worth. I like to have some small talk and get better aquainted and learn each others likes and dislikes.

Well, since you're asking...

Unless we've met before, or discussed it beforehand, i prefer a gentle approach when first meeting. Not to be pounced on, like a lions prey LOL