I tried to find an answer by searching but found nothing so if this is a repeat or multiple times answered question sorry about that.
Clients or providers feel free to answer as I am curious all around. How much gift giving is too much? I am not talking amounts but more so how often? How do you walk the line between " Hey I thought of you today" and crossing the line into the provider thinking you are going off the deep end romantically when you know you are not but they may not know. I almost put this in the newbie section as I have seen my current provider only twice but wanted some seasoned responses pro or con etc. Thanks in advance for any thoughts.you blur the line between gifts and tips. If you give a provider a nice monetary tip at the end of the session, she will appreciate that more than the cute Lederhosen which she probably would never wear. Tips are an acknowledgment that she has provided good service and will probably be seeing you again. Customers who see them regularly and always tip are the holy grail for providers because it creates a baseline monthly income that they can count on from regulars. Providers always remember their tippers, but often don't remember who gave them other types of gifts.
Gifts of goods are better received by providers you have come to know very well after many sessions that included conversation and social time that have told you what their tastes are. Even when it comes to gift cards, you don't want to blow it by giving her a Flemings Steak House gift card when she is a vegetarian. For ladies you have just started seeing, a good tip is the best gift. If you MUST go with a gift card, just about any provider likes Amazon cards. She can use it to buy condoms for her other customers. It's possible she will think of you every time she covers up a dick. Lol
I was invited to a provider's residence several years ago who showed me her closet and it was full of designer shoes and purses, each item worth a few thousand dollars. I asked why she needed so many. She said they were all gifts from her customers. I asked her how she remembers who gave them to her. She said, "I don't need to. They are part of my retirement plan and someday if I need money, they will go on eBay." So much for customers feeling "special." Lol That's my take based on years of personal experience seeing over a thousand providers.
Good insight. Thank you and loved the closet of clothes story. I have gone with Amazon so far and she said that had allowed her to buy anything she wanted so appreciated it. I had also given her a tip not card the first session, it was after the second I sent the card.
I think you can write a book on the industry. Don't think I will see a 1000 providers or do 400 reviews in my lifetime. I repeat a lot though. Usually see providers I know are a sure thing, and we know each other's expectations.
CLD's point about tips versus gift is good to keep in mind so first question might be what are you trying to actually do? Also, are you talking about the value of a gift or the frequency of giving?
I don't think there is a really good the answer is "X" here. Too much will depend on both people involved (you and the girl) but you might consider putting it in a different context. What type of vendors or sales people do you deal with for work? What about with other departments where you work. How would you answer your question in one of those context?
Jensen's question of, "what are you trying to actually do?", is a good one. Think about your purpose and that may help frame your anser.
I also agree with CDL, in that, unless you know the provider's tastes really well, keep the gift generic and liquid.
I like to see the same provider regularly, but because of my situation, I am only able meet about once every two months. But, I want her to make an impression on her, so that when I do contact her for an appointment, she remembers me fondly and has good vibes going into our next encounter. So, if there is a particularly long break between our sessions, I'll send her a gift card.
Typically, between meetings, I'll send a gift card (again, as suggested, a generic one) so that she can buy whatever she needs (food, clothes, condoms, whatever, I don't care). My point is: 1) I'm making a gesture that reminds her that I'm thinking of her. 2) In a way that's meaningful to her, I'm making her life easier.
Good luck.
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.. you can give any businessman /businesswoman is a gift of referral. In my line of work I am constantly working with people who work on commissions. Sometimes commissions of tens of thousands of dollars, and really believe that gift of referral is an earned gift, and the best one. Some even have it in their signatures. "Don't keep me a secret". "The gift of referral is the best gift you can give me.. " Literally copying and pasting.
That being said, I never gift.. To me hookers are highly paid individuals. I also don't send a gift to my doctor, lawyer, CPA just because I was thinking of him / her.. Just not in my nature. Business relations work best for me when kept business.
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historical aficionado and after a large deal closed a few years back, I handed him a package containing a cased Old Rip Van Winkle 25 Year and a century old top hat that had [purportedly] once worn by Colonel Edmund James Taylor Jr for his collection. His work in the deal was not only flawless but essential to get it done. When he opened it, his eyes watered as he admired the hat in his hands.
We broke the seal and poured 4 glasses, each with an ice sphere. Yes, he always has ice spheres on hand and a well stocked, locked cabinet. My associates, myself and counsel sat in his leather recliners and chatted as we let it rest for about 5 minutes and then I toasted all on a great deal done. I could have cut the expense in half by spending a day on the course, cigars & clubhouse bullshit after but he will think of me every time he tells the story behind the hat or sips his whiskey.
Although he's rewarded quite well for his work by the fees we pay, the money I spent on this gift was well worth having his undivided attention for any detail that I feel needs his expertise.
I see many similarities between my lawyer and some of the ladies I have met in this hobby.
I never said that there was anything wrong about gifting your doctors, lawyers, CPAs and even Hookers for that matter.
I just told you how I roll.. You can roll the way you want to roll.. If you want to go sit in your high profile lawyer's lap and whisper sweet nothings that's fine too. Keep that bromance going.. Why do I care.. LOL.
I'd rather tip and gift the cleaning crew.. The barber (who has been cutting my air for last 7 yrs since I moved in the town that I live in), your bartenders who won't be able to make a living without tips, your Uber/Lyft drivers etc. Instead of gifting $200-300 to these entitled crybabies, I'd rather take $50 and tip 6 low income folks. That's just me.. That makes most sense to me..
And like I said, if you really want to show respect to your lawyer, doctor, CPA, referrals are the best way to show them how highly you think of them. You are essentially putting your stamp of approval on the good work they do. Personally speaking, I like it when folks refer other folks to me instead of shelling out $200 for a bottle of scotch or a box of high end cigars.
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for both providers and hobbyists, I have found there can be a fine line between "enthusiasts" and drunks. Lol
I agree, well-placed business gifts are a very effective way to increase your stature with those you do business with, but this is an example of knowing the tastes of your giftee rather than just guessing. It's ten times more effective when you know what they are into than just guessing. Great anecdote.
...and one that pays in wonderful dividends. Many, including Curly, will never get it. In my case, I had crossed paths with this guy in another matter and found him to be quite effective. Much better than "my guy" if you know what I mean. It took a bit of work just to get into his office for that first meeting but placing this guy in my tent was a top priority. General referrals don't mean shit to him.
my "tent" is a top priority. That's where I keep the harem girls. After that, he will do anything I ask. Lol
I agree, guys that are standouts in their field don't need referrals, they can pick and choose who's business they want and it's often based on more than "mere" money.
I don't gift often but have found knowing the recipient's tastes well makes things more memorable and appreciated. My ATF is a bookworm so I'd give her a novel I especially liked. Another time I asked her to wear a naughty schoolgirl outfit and she laughed that her husband had ripped hers off her and she had no replacement. So I bought her a new one, which she loved so much she used a photo I took of her in it on her P411 page. She was part of a circle of girls I used to see and I bought each of them a copy. Watching them demonstrate their gratitude was most enjoyable.
entertainment. If I gave a woman a book, I would also assure her that it is brand new and has never been opened or read. Lol
The people that know I am often obtuse for the sake of humor get what I'm doing. Others don't.
AFTER I explain it. Lol
since your posts and their pattern are clear as day as to your intent.
Because you were still correct at that point.
I was going to suggest that he apologize to all the fine obtuse angles of this world for disparaging them with his comparison.
Because you were still correct at that point.
Amazing! One of the few, rare occasions where mrfisher failed to get it right.
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Kindness is cool. I buy my friends gifts it’s nice to be nice. I have brought gifts my first time meeting a man just because I appreciate them booking me it’s thoughtful. I got a guy a small gift because he booked me for his birthday. Another gent drove down from LA to see me, so I made him a goody bag of my favorite snacks to enjoy, while driving back home. My regular friends I spoil because they continue to make me feel special. What you do is all up to you. There is no right, or wrong answer. I feel good giving. Smile for me! Xoxo
I’m happy to say that my C massage provider gives me a gift of chocolates each holiday season, then recently a chocolate gift from her visit to Japan recently….
A couple other C providers have gifted me with a home made bowl of soup on a couple occasions…
Recently a KGIRL in thr past 2 visits gifted me with a bowl of pine nut soup and a kimchi pancake…
I’ve rarely gifted as a gift or tip but have added a couple extra 20,s with initial 🌹…
I think the best gift I ever had was when a C massage provider I saw for a few years bright in another girl who was younger and beautiful and said “you F*** her! While she did other fun stuff to me. All this as I told her it was my birthday week 🥳. Unforgettable!!!!!
FYI, this is not Facebook. This is a fuck board, so it's okay to quote the woman as saying, "You fuck her!" No one here will be offended and management will not remove it just because you can't say it on other forums. Same with other words that are generally excluded from social media, like "shit, piss, cunt, pussy, cocksucker, motherfucker and tits." However, if you say a black guy has a horsecock or a Jewish guy has a tiny schmeckle, you will be called a racist, so tread lightly when discussing ethnicity. There you have it. Lol
After seeing my gem of a Vietnamese provider yesterday who I must say got me in 1st visit of the morning, time spent wasn’t much of an issue for her but more so for me as I had to get back to work. We spent about 2 hours together… we Fucked for a good 45 minutes, cleaned up a little relaxed, her shoulders were quite tight so aI gave her some deep pressure shoulder massage which she really enjoyed and appeared to need. She rummaged through the walk in closet and pulled out a box of nice polished stone bracelets. She had me pick one I liked to take with me 💎 Then before I left she filled my coffee tumbler with a yummy iced coffee she had pre made before I arrived ☕️
🎁 Extended non rushed session
🎁 Beautiful nice looking bracelet
🎁 Iced Coffee to go
🥰🥰🥰
It’s a business transaction. You pay them for a service. Do what you want to do. If you feel better giving them something then do .
Are in the form of tips , birtdays,and the major holidays. Gifts are cash or visa card,giving them the freedom to buy whatever they choose.
As for the amount, use your discretion , because if you start high ,that amount , or higher, might be expected at all time and over time respectively.
I tipped generously to a well-deserved waitress/waiter and made meaningful donations to foundations helping sick kids over the years.
I tipped well to a great provider by making multiple repeats. Occasionally, I get her a revealing dress for my stimulation and it's for her to keep at the end if I don't rip it off during the session. lol
Though, long ago when I first started out in Los Angeles, I gave a small extra $ to the K-Girl after they relentlessly performed from the moment I arrived inside to the end of the hour for a fraction of the market cost. After the typical Agency's fees, they don't get much per appointment.
Hello Ladies & Gentlemen,
I'm most appreciative of a Client's presence!
In a sea of many thousands of reviewed Providers just in San Diego, it is such a blessing to be chosen by
persons to spend precious time with.
However, additional presents, such as fresh Tulips, Amazon, Visa, or Southwest Airline Gift Cards, or especially
a cash tip is so adored!
I've some very special Clients whom have since become friends, who've gifted me unique, memorable and
functional items.... It's just the thought that really counts.
A particular gentleman whom was always so thoughtful, would bring me rolled quarters for laundry,
fresh purple tulips which are my favorite, and various sizes of expensive batteries, for battery-operated
naughty toys.. 
Another is an Artist, whom would paint on little mini canvases featuring purple Tulips or Irises or just an
abstract modern tiny painting, which I loved.
And of course, there's the Gents whom enjoy gifting jewelry.... which, is somewhat tricky, unless one knows
exactly the "design taste" of said Provider.
If a woman doesn't care for a piece, generally she won't wear it.... fyi
A particular cherished Client always gifts me with beautiful, expensive jewels knowing my eclectic taste....
{ I love both inexpensive modern costume pieces also, and of course, designer jewels}
My favorites are David Yurman, John Hardy, Valentino, Balmain, Jean Paul Gaultier, Maison Lalique - Cabochon,
Baccarat MÉDICIS POP and Piaget Possession Palace.....
Finally, the best gift really is a Guest whom is "thoroughly referenced", sincere with follow-through, kind,
respectful and hygienic!
I personally do not view any special gifts as a sign of a "romantic gesture".
Some people have the extra funds and really enjoy the kind aspect of being very generous...
Who would ever complain?
xo Angelina Jones
I’ll gladly tip at the end of a great session. As far as gifts go, the way I’ve always handled it is to only give a gift at Christmas for my regular or two in my hometown. Christmas gifts that come to mind were a computer, TV, night out on the town with a nice dinner and show with an all night date (did this a couple of times). These days I’ll give my one regular cash, which she prefers over any kind of other gift, as a Christmas gift. One other reason I only give my regulars a gift at the end of the year is because they know if they keep providing great service they’ll get a very nice stocking stuffer at the end of the year. I’ll tip new providers but never give them a gift unless they become regulars, which is never more than two at a time and usually only one.
I’ve found that providers most always appreciate the tip and never mention anything about a gift. The regulars who I gift at the end of the year are always happy that I thought of them during the holidays.
vgasdude,
You don't need to give a gift everytime that you see a Provider. She may think that you are doing that so that she'll give you a lower price....or for some other crazy reason. So, don't over do the gift thing and don't do the gift thing just because you want her to give up the life style "Being A Provider" just so you can have her.
For me personally, tips are the best gift you can give! Of course, if you get me a gift I actually want (like concert tickets or travel vouchers etc) then that is great too, but I think the problem with gifts is, while they are nice and much appreciated, you never know if it’s something the provider wants unless she specifically tells you or something. I think tips are always the best route 