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Empty nester to grown kids moving back home
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Any hobbyists have this situation and does it impact you ability to hobby. I was a daytimer and my grown unemployed son is always around. I did incall but don't have much reason to be out of the house these days.

but in the summer my kids came back to live during college vacation.

I still go out and hobby and tell them I'm out with some friends and let it go at that.

so it shouldnt matter.
But in any case, its your house isnt it? Its none of your unemployed sons business where you go, if you go out for an incall. But you probably shouldnt bring ladies to your house for outcall.

-- Modified on 1/24/2013 10:02:50 AM

Almost 2 months so far

Posted By: perfectstorm
so it shouldnt matter.
But in any case, its your house isnt it? Its none of your unemployed sons business where you go, if you go out for an incall. But you probably shouldnt bring ladies to your house for outcall.

-- Modified on 1/24/2013 10:02:50 AM

Lately, that's been my average between hobby visits, LOL

2 months and counting...LOL

Posted By: Polish_Pirate
Lately, that's been my average between hobby visits, LOL

Get your unemployed kid out of the house to find unemployed young women for you to fuck  LOL

Everybody wins  :D

Posted By: sympathyforthedevil
Any hobbyists have this situation and does it impact you ability to hobby. I was a daytimer and my grown unemployed son is always around. I did incall but don't have much reason to be out of the house these days.

In college a friend had to keep moving because her dad kept fucking her room-mates.

If you are going to fuck your daughter's friends, you better be damn good at the break-up.  He was not.

Tell him you and some retired buddies of yours meet at bars to play pool....

There is this bar next to dunkin donuts near my house and its full with retired folks as early as 9:00 A.M. sometimes.. Seems like a very good reason to get away from house for couple of hours...

You know how to play pool, right?

If my Mommy and Daddy were giving me any money, or help of any kind.
I wouldn't have found my uneducated ass a decent job. Went to work, and made a little something of myself.
I respect my parents for that. I was a fuck up. Independence forced me to succeed.

No offense intended. I don't know anything about being a Dad. I don't know your situation.
But I remember being a son.

genuinely fallen on hard times and may be needing some help from parents temporarily. Its not wise to assume that he is lazy or just a bum..

There are lot of people who need help, and who else can they turn to other than their family and close friends...

Even if it is a minimum wage position.

If someone wants a job...they'll get off their lazy ass and get one!

I have zero compassion for any parent who let's an adult child lay around (while living with dear old Mom and/or Dad) and watch the day go by.

Posted By: CurlyW - Nats Fan
genuinely fallen on hard times and may be needing some help from parents temporarily. Its not wise to assume that he is lazy or just a bum..

There are lot of people who need help, and who else can they turn to other than their family and close friends...

and never moved back, even though mom and dad live in same town as me...

But sometimes for medical reasons and such kids need someone's help... Not advocating laziness here...

then his son came back home after graduating college. He started coming to me incall until his kid moved back out six months later. Maybe he said he was going shopping or to the gym, not sure.
kids are so consumed w/ their lives, they don't really care to investigate if dad is really at the mall.

Was Samsonite luggage...I got the hint. If he is staying with you he needs to pay rent.

Let me guess he majored in psychology.

Posted By: sympathyforthedevil
Any hobbyists have this situation and does it impact you ability to hobby. I was a daytimer and my grown unemployed son is always around. I did incall but don't have much reason to be out of the house these days.

Posted By: oldted
Was Samsonite luggage...I got the hint. If he is staying with you he needs to pay rent.

Let me guess he majored in psychology.
Posted By: sympathyforthedevil
Any hobbyists have this situation and does it impact you ability to hobby. I was a daytimer and my grown unemployed son is always around. I did incall but don't have much reason to be out of the house these days.

Tell him you give him a year to finish up. Otherwise, find a job and pay me rent or find your own place.

I literally laughed at her, and sold my 4 bedroom house (the one she grew up in), and moved into to a 1 bedroom apartment in a different city.   Now I spend most of my time traveling.

She moved in with her father instead. lololololol



-- Modified on 1/25/2013 10:04:01 AM

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