First of all, a girl has a choice.  She can stop working for a few days or use a sponge.  She should never put you in the position of having dropped the envelope only to find you've paid for something you're not going to get.  I would tell her nicely that I'm not happy and let her have the choice: return the donation or lose me as a customer.  All theoretical because it hasn't happened.

making on the upper of 3 an hour, cannot take a week off every month lol. Not all women are deceptive, but many do on purpose not to say anything then they act as if they started when you see blood on the condom...just gross!

If she did not tell you before you showed up for need of money, you have every right to say "see ya" and not pay.

Posted By: HalfHour

Make the call
Set the appointment
Arrive and enter
Kiss, feel and great
Set down the envelope
Relax and catch up
Go behind closed doors
Get comfortable


"We can't do everything, it's that time of the month"

Some men don't care but others do. Is it fair to cancel the session? Should the donation be returned?

Sure, we're buying time, but not when someone is not at their best and completely ready, right?

Or is this part of YMMV?

what say you?


HH

shocking but I may not be an expert on this topic

I have not had to deal with that in YEARS! Happy dance over here!

But I do think a guy has the right to know..
One can assume we are discussing an arrangement between two friends who already know each
other very well.

I do not think I would have that conversation with a complete stranger... for obvious and various reasons....

Some gals run specials for half service or find some way around or take a few days off.  If that was sprung on me...  I'd suggest a refund & reschedule.   If she didn't agree, she would never see me again.
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I say..."red showers anyone?"

And that usually requires some planning and an extra fee.

But for a GFE session...had it happen and not a real problem as the ladies would ask before I left my house.  And at least for me, it changes the session as I typically like them.

But knowing in advance can lead to plenty of other "activities" that may not have been on the plate before...and that is usually a good time.

That is like her performing at 50% for the same exact rate, and there is no discounts. It sucks that she told you when you showed up, she completely wasted your time.

I've ran into two providers in the past that had this. First provider, it was only BBBJ only, but it cost half. Second provider, we tried it, but specks of blood was on the hat, and I call it a day. It's no good man.

If you run into a provider that told you that in the future, skip and find a new one. She completely wasted your time. It's not rude either to walk out on her. It was rude of her to tell you that on last minute.

One of the best most interesting interactions I've had with a provider was a visit I was looking forward to for several months.  The evening before my appointment, she called to cancel because, as she delicately stated it, "Mother Nature came early."  It was MY decision to meet, and we had a fabulous time though intercourse & DATY were not on the menu, by my choice.

We have met once since then, with a full menu.  I'm really glad we met that first time, but the tone was set by her call to me, and by her willingness to cancel.  That was a classy move for her to call me in advance.

This should not be a mystery to any provider. Use a contraceptive sponge and place it all the way against the cervix-- it will absorb and completely block the flow (unless its like that scene from The Shining in which case see your redrum fetishists instead of vanilla clients)

can any hobbyist "tell" when there is a sponge up there? i guess you wouldnt know unless you've felt an improperly placed one....